Why do most people like the same colored people?

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#1 Iconic_D
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So, i was tihnking to myself. Why is it that most of the time, people are attracted to someone who has the same skin color as them? I rarely see couples that are ethnically mixed.
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#2 Iconic_D
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And do you like the same colored people or not?
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They are comfortable with what is familiar?
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#4 Iconic_D
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They are comfortable with what is familiar?sonicare
I guess so, but I am not like that.
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#5 megagene
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Where exactly do you live? Where I am I see mixed couples all the time every day.
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#6 muthsera666
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Actually, I don't. I am Caucasian, but I'm really attracted to women with a nice mocha shade. (This doesn't mean that I will only accept women of this shading. I'm equal-opportunity.)
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#7 Spacefeline
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Some is to do with racial prejudice and bigotry, as well as region-based clique establishment, isolation of anyone different, fear of anything and anyone different or unpredictable, and that sort of thing.... so it seems to me.

As for who i like - ah, it depends on who they are... :D

As the saying goes, i pick my clothes by their colour and my friends for their company - because picking my clothes for the company and the friends for their colour is just silly.

You hardly ever see any brown people here, everyone's just all troll-looking (islanders ;) ) and pink, I think it's a bit dull that way to be honest.

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#8 Ilived
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Where exactly do you live? Where I am I see mixed couples all the time every day.megagene

Lol where the hell do YOU live?

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#9 Spacefeline
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Maybe there's a bit of instinct in there too, now i think about it.... like, if you do the dirty with members of your own 'tribe' (as most clearly distinguished by colour of exterior of the tribe members) then they are not likely to go running off and either abandon you (if you are a female) or produce babies for an enemy tribe (if you're a guy) .... people often have behaviour based on subtle remnants of preposterously outdated behaviour like that, so it seems like it might be possible at any rate, to some extent.
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#10 megagene
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[QUOTE="megagene"]Where exactly do you live? Where I am I see mixed couples all the time every day.Ilived

Lol where the hell do YOU live?

Toronto. Arguably the most multicultural city in the world.

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#11 -theCHUD-
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people naturally strike up a stronger bond with someone initially if they share the same background. me for example i come from a small south american country and if i ever met a girl in my town (predominantly white people) from the same country as me I would be instantly attracted to her and would want to pursue a relationship with her, while the all the white girls I see I would normally just have sex with.
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#12 flowdee79
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They are racist?
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#13 Ilived
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[QUOTE="Ilived"]

[QUOTE="megagene"]Where exactly do you live? Where I am I see mixed couples all the time every day.megagene

Lol where the hell do YOU live?

Toronto. Arguably the most multicultural city in the world.

Saying that as if it's a good thing.

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#15 Spartan_385
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Becasue its something in common. 95% of the people where I live are white anyway.
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#16 megagene
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[QUOTE="megagene"][QUOTE="Ilived"]

[QUOTE="megagene"]Where exactly do you live? Where I am I see mixed couples all the time every day.Ilived

Lol where the hell do YOU live?

Toronto. Arguably the most multicultural city in the world.

Saying that as if it's a good thing.

Explain yourself. Carefully.

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#17 kdt55
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Because they're RACIST!!!!
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#18 methree15
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And do you like the same colored people or not?Iconic_D

same and different colored skin.

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#19 Spacefeline
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Explain yourself. Carefully.

Yes, please do. Go into detail, if you like, to give further weight to your point.

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#20 Ilived
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[QUOTE="Ilived"][QUOTE="megagene"][QUOTE="Ilived"]

[QUOTE="megagene"]Where exactly do you live? Where I am I see mixed couples all the time every day.megagene

Lol where the hell do YOU live?

Toronto. Arguably the most multicultural city in the world.

Saying that as if it's a good thing.

Explain yourself. Carefully.

Seems like you're proud or something. I don't think it's a big deal whether or not the place I live in is multicultural.

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#21 super_mario_128
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I don't know, I'm Caucasian and I find many Asian girls attractive.
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#22 soren008
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"I say alot of racist jokes, but my penis is a humanitarian."

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#23 Spacefeline
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Why would people assume that someone from the same nationality as themself would necessarily make a good partner ?

If people share a similar ethical and moral foundation but only like a few shows in common but try out new things all the time from each culture..... then is that so bad, compared to having grown up in the sameculture watching similar programmes but not necessarily having anything else in common with them ?

It's all very well finding nationality X to be generally 'hot' or 'not your type', that's just how it is.... species of animals are varied that way.... but to make sweeping judgements or to dismiss someone from consideration as a potential friend or lover based on nationality primarily seems petty to me, or at least superficial.

If there's no chemical brouhaha because you just don't fancy people from nationality X then people can;t help that either , so it goes both ways I think.

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#24 pseudodog07
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Because that's the way God made us.
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#25 megagene
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[QUOTE="megagene"][QUOTE="Ilived"][QUOTE="megagene"][QUOTE="Ilived"]

[QUOTE="megagene"]Where exactly do you live? Where I am I see mixed couples all the time every day.Ilived

Lol where the hell do YOU live?

Toronto. Arguably the most multicultural city in the world.

Saying that as if it's a good thing.

Explain yourself. Carefully.

Seems like you're proud or something. I don't think it's a big deal whether or not the place I live in is multicultural.

I'm neither proud nor ashamed of the fact. It simply is what it is. I wasn't boasting but you specifically asked with a slight sense of bewilderment "where the hell" I lived. I figured that adding the multicultural detail would shed some light on the situation. You still with me, champion? ;)

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#26 foxhound_fox
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Toronto. Arguably the most multicultural city in the world. megagene

I don't know, Winnipeg is pretty freaking multicultural. :P

I see people of all varying ethnicity's coupling together all the time. We are all technically the same skin colour... brown. Just different shades.
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#27 Ilived
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[QUOTE="Ilived"][QUOTE="megagene"][QUOTE="Ilived"][QUOTE="megagene"][QUOTE="Ilived"]

[QUOTE="megagene"]Where exactly do you live? Where I am I see mixed couples all the time every day.megagene

Lol where the hell do YOU live?

Toronto. Arguably the most multicultural city in the world.

Saying that as if it's a good thing.

Explain yourself. Carefully.

Seems like you're proud or something. I don't think it's a big deal whether or not the place I live in is multicultural.

I'm neither proud nor ashamed of the fact. It simply is what it is. I wasn't boasting but you specifically asked with a slight sense of bewilderment "where the hell" I lived. I figured that adding the multicultural detail would shed some light on the situation. You still with me, champion? ;)

Heck no! I'm a racist. Remember that next time we reply to eachother.

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#28 solidgamer
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obviously you have not be to london >_>

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#29 Jacboy71
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I love different colored women its my job as a negro to steal the white women from the white men!!

j/k anyway yea im married to an asian woman and for some reason black women just turn me off its probably their attitude.:?

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#30 Hewkii
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they can relate to each other better. and I like most any kind of girl (race-wise,anyway).
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#31 Tykain
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I guess it's in our gens. I don't think it has anything to do with sharing the same background, at least for me.
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#32 soren008
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[QUOTE="megagene"]Toronto. Arguably the most multicultural city in the world. foxhound_fox

I don't know, Winnipeg is pretty freaking multicultural. :P

I see people of all varying ethnicity's coupling together all the time. We are all technically the same skin colour... brown. Just different shades.

isnt London?

we have everyone apart from eskimos

not sure if you have kosovons, bosnians etc

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#33 foxhound_fox
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isnt London?

we have everyone apart from eskimos

not sure if you have kosovons, bosnians etc

soren008

I'm not sure either but I wouldn't doubt it. The Eastern European population is quite high in Winnipeg (Poles and Ukrainians specifically).
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#34 Iconic_D
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Don't get me wrong, It doesn't matter to me what race they are, I would just prefer one race to another.
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#35 solidgamer
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[QUOTE="soren008"]isnt London?

we have everyone apart from eskimos

not sure if you have kosovons, bosnians etc

foxhound_fox


I'm not sure either but I wouldn't doubt it. The Eastern European population is quite high in Winnipeg (Poles and Ukrainians specifically).

i thought it was London as-well, so ive been told. over 300 languages spoken in the capital also i live here

i also read a report in the paper that the mixed race population in Britain will overtake the black population in about 5-10 years due to the amount of mixed race children being born.

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#36 soren008
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[QUOTE="soren008"]isnt London?

we have everyone apart from eskimos

not sure if you have kosovons, bosnians etc

foxhound_fox


I'm not sure either but I wouldn't doubt it. The Eastern European population is quite high in Winnipeg (Poles and Ukrainians specifically).

nah london has more polish & ukrainians without a doubt

the range of london's nationalities must be the highest, all of europe & africa lives here

mexicans & brazilians are rare though

are there russians in toronto?

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#37 Iconic_D
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Theres alot of russians in Canada.
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#38 194197844077667059316682358889
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[QUOTE="Ilived"]

[QUOTE="megagene"]Where exactly do you live? Where I am I see mixed couples all the time every day.megagene

Lol where the hell do YOU live?

Toronto. Arguably the most multicultural city in the world.

I see mixed race couples all the time here in SF as well, and saw plenty of multiculti (specifically black/white) couples when I lived in Atlanta
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#39 Sunsha
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My guess is that they were raised the same way and have more similar values and stuff like that. Myself I've dated people of different races so eh.
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#40 FlaminDeath
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I like women of all shades and colors ;) I just live in a predominately white area so I don't really have a choice.

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#41 Bloodbath_87
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There's no reason for why we are attracted to who we are, we just are.
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#42 VacantPsalm
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Well, I'm white, I grew up around mostly white people. So as I matured and I formed my opinion of what I find appealing I took what I was most familiar with, white people. (you can't blame me for the psychological influence my childhood has on me. So no calling me racist for saying that... It's not racist but i feel like it is for some reason.) Or, I guess I should say IMO. Cuz I believe your surroundings has a huge influence on what you find attractive. I'm not saying your genes has nothing to do with it though.
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#43 Lebbin
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For me, i've been attracted to girls of nearly all races, but ones my race, i'm attracted to a bit more. I don't know why.
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#44 YoungGun13
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don't know, but i date women same race as me
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#45 Iconic_D
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Well, I'm white, I grew up around mostly white people. So as I matured and I formed my opinion of what I find appealing I took what I was most familiar with, white people. (you can't blame me for the psychological influence my childhood has on me. So no calling me racist for saying that... It's not racist but i feel like it is for some reason.) Or, I guess I should say IMO. Cuz I believe your surroundings has a huge influence on what you find attractive. I'm not saying your genes has nothing to do with it though.VacantPsalm
Hmm. that could be right. There is barely any girls the same race as me in my school.
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#46 ice_radon
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[QUOTE="sonicare"]They are comfortable with what is familiar?Iconic_D
I guess so, but I am not like that.

Yes you are. You are either just not recognizing it or ignoring it. You do feel comforable around anything thats familiar or shares a common trait within you or your social culture. Its just human nature I guess.
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#47 Iconic_D
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[QUOTE="Iconic_D"][QUOTE="sonicare"]They are comfortable with what is familiar?ice_radon
I guess so, but I am not like that.

Yes you are. You are either just not recognizing it or ignoring it. You do feel comforable around anything thats familiar or shares a common trait within you or your social culture. Its just human nature I guess.

I meant to say relationship wise.
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#48 Iconic_D
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[QUOTE="Iconic_D"][QUOTE="sonicare"]They are comfortable with what is familiar?ice_radon
I guess so, but I am not like that.

Yes you are. You are either just not recognizing it or ignoring it. You do feel comforable around anything thats familiar or shares a common trait within you or your social culture. Its just human nature I guess.

I meant to say relationship wise.
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#49 Ravirr
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I like asians haha :P
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I think that the biggest factor that keeps same-race couples as the overwhelming norm is money.

socio-economic standings dictates the area you can afford to live in, work in, go to school in. you can't date someone you are not able to hang around.

race has, especially in the past, been linked to socio-economic standings because of immigrant status, and the legacy of slavery.

things are slowly changing, but there is still plenty of socio-economic inequality and plenty of racism out there.