Why is being single and looking so difficult?

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#1 -supercharged-
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So far I am not having no luck with women at all. I go on dates and everything but so far i'm not feeling connections with any of them. Then to top it off my area is probally one of the worst metro area's to get a date. Which makes it even harder to meet someone. So i'm not left with very many options other than hope something comes along. This would be so much easier if I was just looking to get laid :( but I want more than that and i'm not too big on the friends with benefits deal.

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#2 _en1gma_
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Sorry man.
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#3 get-ka12
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Look in the newspaper classifieds.
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#4 -supercharged-
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Look in the newspaper classifieds.get-ka12

:lol: Do you really wanna know what kinda women post single classifieds dude? Def not the type of women I would wanna meet

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#5 Maqda7
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[QUOTE="get-ka12"]Look in the newspaper classifieds.-supercharged-

:lol: Do you really wanna know what kinda women post single classifieds dude? Def not the type of women I would wanna meet

That's probably what's screwing you over, you being picky.
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#6 _en1gma_
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[QUOTE="-supercharged-"]

[QUOTE="get-ka12"]Look in the newspaper classifieds.Maqda7

:lol: Do you really wanna know what kinda women post single classifieds dude? Def not the type of women I would wanna meet

That's probably what's screwing you over, you being picky.

Nothing wrong with that, though.
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#7 get-ka12
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[QUOTE="get-ka12"]Look in the newspaper classifieds.-supercharged-

:lol: Do you really wanna know what kinda women post single classifieds dude? Def not the type of women I would wanna meet

That's how I found my car.

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#8 Maqda7
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[QUOTE="Maqda7"][QUOTE="-supercharged-"]

:lol: Do you really wanna know what kinda women post single classifieds dude? Def not the type of women I would wanna meet

_en1gma_

That's probably what's screwing you over, you being picky.

Nothing wrong with that, though.

Well if someone is having a hard time finding women, something is wrong with that. But in general, I agree nothing is wrong with that.

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#9 _en1gma_
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[QUOTE="_en1gma_"][QUOTE="Maqda7"] That's probably what's screwing you over, you being picky. Maqda7

Nothing wrong with that, though.

Well if someone is having a hard time finding women, something is wrong with that. But in general, I agree nothing is wrong with that.

Well there are a lot of lame women out there. You just have to know the right place to look.. But I know what you mean...he should be less picky, go with flow, and maybe someone great will come along eventually. I find that if I don't worry about it, I find someone great...but it usually ends within two months.
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[QUOTE="-supercharged-"]

[QUOTE="get-ka12"]Look in the newspaper classifieds.Maqda7

:lol: Do you really wanna know what kinda women post single classifieds dude? Def not the type of women I would wanna meet

That's probably what's screwing you over, you being picky.

Most of the women in newspaper ads got more kids then I can handle, is a prostitute, overweight, and psycho. Maybe it's different in your area but that's how it is here.

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#11 Maqda7
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[QUOTE="Maqda7"][QUOTE="-supercharged-"]

:lol: Do you really wanna know what kinda women post single classifieds dude? Def not the type of women I would wanna meet

-supercharged-

That's probably what's screwing you over, you being picky.

Most of the women in newspaper ads got more kids then I can handle, is a prostitute, overweight, and psycho. Maybe it's different in your area but that's how it is here.

Buy another newspaper?
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#12 _en1gma_
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[QUOTE="Maqda7"][QUOTE="-supercharged-"]

:lol: Do you really wanna know what kinda women post single classifieds dude? Def not the type of women I would wanna meet

-supercharged-

That's probably what's screwing you over, you being picky.

Most of the women in newspaper ads got more kids then I can handle, is a prostitute, overweight, and psycho. Maybe it's different in your area but that's how it is here.

It was a joke, work with him.
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#13 gamefan67
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I have a hard time finding a new girl too, but that is because I am extremely pick........I'm the pickiest person on the planet.
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#14 get-ka12
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[QUOTE="-supercharged-"]

[QUOTE="Maqda7"] That's probably what's screwing you over, you being picky. Maqda7

Most of the women in newspaper ads got more kids then I can handle, is a prostitute, overweight, and psycho. Maybe it's different in your area but that's how it is here.

Buy another newspaper?

This definitely increases the chances.

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#15 GTA_dude
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Then stop looking.
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#16 -supercharged-
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Then stop looking. GTA_dude

Nah that doesnt help anything

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#17 _en1gma_
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[QUOTE="GTA_dude"]Then stop looking. -supercharged-

Nah that doesnt help anything

Just stop caring and you'll be fine.
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#18 Bruin4ev3r1520
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[QUOTE="-supercharged-"]

[QUOTE="GTA_dude"]Then stop looking. _en1gma_

Nah that doesnt help anything

Just stop caring and you'll be fine.

Yeah I agree. I used to be really concerned about dating and finding a girl. Then I decided to stop making dating a priority and just focus on other stuff that made me happy. Then I somehow come across a nice girl who I can date. Don't let finding a girl bring you down too much
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#19 Mr_Leonis
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You have options. Be happy. :|
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#20 longello
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Where is your metro area and why is it one of the worst ?

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#21 II_Seraphim_II
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You are being too picky. Since nothing is working out for you, then just try one. Meet a girl you sort of get along with and stick with it for a bit. Best case scenario, it develops into something great, worst case, you just wasted a few weeks which you weren't doing anything with. And besides, maybe you might meet the right girl while out with your test-partner.
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#22 poptart
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If you look too hard, you'll never find it. It always comes when you least expect it.