Why it is alright to recognize your defects out loud, but not your qualities?

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#1 MauiLastLight
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If someone is really smart and good looking, why not let him say it ? if you are a genius, would you try (obviously parallel) to fit in their definition of modesty ? but usually, when someone is smarter, they wouldn't try that; I saw some exceptions, but "genius" is a big word for them. Or be confident and say it ?
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No one cares either way.

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#3 xdude85
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Nobody likes a show-off that's why.
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#4 LJS9502_basic
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Braggart.....
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#5 MauiLastLight
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Is not about showing off, is about being confident and say it if you are asked. One smart guy will not go on the scene and scream out loud that he is smart. Is like being Adriana Lima and pretend to believe that you are average looking, just to show some "modesty" and avoid their critics.
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Can't really answer given this is one giant generalization.
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#7 deactivated-6127ced9bcba0
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Well, now we can establish that this guy is just another troll.

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#8 LJS9502_basic
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Well, now we can establish that this guy is just another troll.

airshocker
Yah....
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#9 MauiLastLight
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How does your fine neurons got to this conclusion ? this is just what I was saying in my first post.
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#10 branketra
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It is a social norm.
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#11 wis3boi
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stop pressing this: CEVjsWY.jpg

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#12 MauiLastLight
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Where is written that we have a limit for questions ?
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#13 Wolfetan
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Well, now we can establish that this guy is just another troll.

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You jump to conclusions pretty fast, eh? You even think I'm a troll:roll:
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You jump to conclusions pretty fast, eh? You even think I'm a troll:roll:Wolfetan

Stop acting like one, then.

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If someone is really smart and good looking, why not let him say it ? if you are a genius, would you try (obviously parallel) to fit in their definition of modesty ? but usually, when someone is smarter, they wouldn't try that; I saw some exceptions, but "genius" is a big word for them. Or be confident and say it ?MauiLastLight
Most people are insecure about their inadequacies and do not want anyone else to be better than them. They want to believe that they are the equal of great men such as Lars von Trier and Elijah Wood. They want to be recognized as the equal of greatness without possessing its qualities, which is of course impossible. They are spiteful creatures who hate others for being good at things. They want the world to strive for mediocrity just because they are too pathetic and cowardly to be anything more than that.
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There aren't many social situations where you should be talking about yourself at all unless it's a job interview.

Believe it or not putting your self down in front of everybody is just as boring as blowing your own trumpet, it's just that bragging involves telling everybody how you stand out from them.

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#17 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="airshocker"]

Well, now we can establish that this guy is just another troll.

Wolfetan
You jump to conclusions pretty fast, eh? You even think I'm a troll:roll:

In his defense....you are.
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#18 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="MauiLastLight"]If someone is really smart and good looking, why not let him say it ? if you are a genius, would you try (obviously parallel) to fit in their definition of modesty ? but usually, when someone is smarter, they wouldn't try that; I saw some exceptions, but "genius" is a big word for them. Or be confident and say it ?Laihendi
Most people are insecure about their inadequacies and do not want anyone else to be better than them. They want to believe that they are the equal of great men such as Lars von Trier and Elijah Wood. They want to be recognized as the equal of greatness without possessing its qualities, which is of course impossible. They are spiteful creatures who hate others for being good at things. They want the world to strive for mediocrity just because they are too pathetic and cowardly to be anything more than that.

Bullshit. People don't like arrogance. It's that simple. Bragging is arrogance. Humility is a positive trait.
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#19 MauiLastLight
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[QUOTE="MauiLastLight"]If someone is really smart and good looking, why not let him say it ? if you are a genius, would you try (obviously parallel) to fit in their definition of modesty ? but usually, when someone is smarter, they wouldn't try that; I saw some exceptions, but "genius" is a big word for them. Or be confident and say it ?Laihendi
Most people are insecure about their inadequacies and do not want anyone else to be better than them. They want to believe that they are the equal of great men such as Lars von Trier and Elijah Wood. They want to be recognized as the equal of greatness without possessing its qualities, which is of course impossible. They are spiteful creatures who hate others for being good at things. They want the world to strive for mediocrity just because they are too pathetic and cowardly to be anything more than that.

yesss, they try to input you the same limits they have. They have their hypocrisy masked with some bullshit morality.
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#20 Wolfetan
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[QUOTE="Wolfetan"]You jump to conclusions pretty fast, eh? You even think I'm a troll:roll:airshocker

Stop acting like one, then.

:lol:
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#21 MauiLastLight
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Bullshit. People don't like arrogance. It's that simple. Bragging is arrogance. Humility is a positive trait.

Does my question simulated your imagination in the wrong way ? because I am not referring to some kid coming to others, get in the middle and brag about his father's new fancy car.
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#22 Wolfetan
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[QUOTE="Wolfetan"][QUOTE="airshocker"]

Well, now we can establish that this guy is just another troll.

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You jump to conclusions pretty fast, eh? You even think I'm a troll:roll:

In his defense....you are.

F*cking idiots. Name one example of me trolling. (This is the only example I can come up with) If you think that I was joking about buying $600 earbuds, I wasn't. Those are still with me. http://www.head-fi.org/g/i/819410/a/707089/show-us-your-head-fi-station-at-its-current-state-no-old-pictures-please/ There they are:)
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F*cking idiots. Name one example of me trolling. (This is the only example I can come up with) If you think that I was joking about buying $600 earbuds, I wasn't. Those are still with me. http://www.head-fi.org/g/i/819410/a/707089/show-us-your-head-fi-station-at-its-current-state-no-old-pictures-please/ There they are:)Wolfetan

You think any of us are actually going to go back and find examples of you trolling? I know you're a troll. That's all that matters to me. I'm not going to waste my time giving you examples of your own actions.

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[QUOTE="Wolfetan"] F*cking idiots. Name one example of me trolling. (This is the only example I can come up with) If you think that I was joking about buying $600 earbuds, I wasn't. Those are still with me. http://www.head-fi.org/g/i/819410/a/707089/show-us-your-head-fi-station-at-its-current-state-no-old-pictures-please/ There they are:)airshocker

You think any of us are actually going to go back and find examples of you trolling? I know you're a troll. That's all that matters to me. I'm not going to waste my time giving you examples of your own actions.

Your so grumpy all the time, Air. Why must you be so pessimistic? You suck at being a police officer?
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Your so grumpy all the time, Air. Why must you be so pessimistic? You suck at being a police officer? Wolfetan

I'm grumpy why? Because I'm putting you in your place? That's basically the only thing you ever say. Old material, bro. Be creative.

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Can't really answer given this is one giant generalization.foxhound_fox
This is the best answer, or lack of, you will get out of this thread TC. Because it's true.

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#27 ShadowJax04
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[QUOTE="airshocker"]

[QUOTE="Wolfetan"] F*cking idiots. Name one example of me trolling. (This is the only example I can come up with) If you think that I was joking about buying $600 earbuds, I wasn't. Those are still with me. http://www.head-fi.org/g/i/819410/a/707089/show-us-your-head-fi-station-at-its-current-state-no-old-pictures-please/ There they are:)Wolfetan

You think any of us are actually going to go back and find examples of you trolling? I know you're a troll. That's all that matters to me. I'm not going to waste my time giving you examples of your own actions.

Your so grumpy all the time, Air. Why must you be so pessimistic? You suck at being a police officer?

Denies trolling, continues to troll. Troll on brother! I'll leave you to it now.

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If a person "recognizes their defects outloud" too much that can be just as grating.

And for what it's worth, there's nothing wrong with someone recognizing their qualities if, again, they don't do it to the point of obnoxiousness.

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[QUOTE="Wolfetan"]Your so grumpy all the time, Air. Why must you be so pessimistic? You suck at being a police officer? airshocker

I'm grumpy why? Because I'm putting you in your place? That's basically the only thing you ever say. Old material, bro. Be creative.

You always pick out the bad things in someones post. Never commending somebody. I've never seen a happy post from you.
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Denies trolling, continues tro troll. Troll on brother! I'll love you to it now.ShadowJax04

You'll love him to it? That's nasty, dawg.

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#31 Wolfetan
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[QUOTE="Wolfetan"][QUOTE="airshocker"]

You think any of us are actually going to go back and find examples of you trolling? I know you're a troll. That's all that matters to me. I'm not going to waste my time giving you examples of your own actions.

ShadowJax04
Your so grumpy all the time, Air. Why must you be so pessimistic? You suck at being a police officer?

Denies trolling, continues tro troll. Troll on brother! I'll love you to it now.

Trolling Air is fun. But I give realistic comments on most topics.
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You always pick out the bad things in someones post. Never commending somebody. I've never seen a happy post from you. Wolfetan

First off, why would I commend anyone? No one on this forum is worth commendations. Not even myself.

Troll on, bro. I have games that need to be played.

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[QUOTE="ShadowJax04"]Denies trolling, continues tro troll. Troll on brother! I'll love you to it now.airshocker

You'll love him to it? That's nasty, dawg.

Shut up I swear it was a typo.. not a freudian slip. :P I'll edit it now to prove it.

Edit: more typos. 

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#35 Wolfetan
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[QUOTE="ShadowJax04"][QUOTE="Wolfetan"] Your so grumpy all the time, Air. Why must you be so pessimistic? You suck at being a police officer? Wolfetan
Denies trolling, continues tro troll. Troll on brother! I'll love you to it now.

Trolling Air is fun. But I give realistic comments on most topics.

Also does trolling equate to insulting? Because thats mostly what I do to Air, and he sees it as trolling..
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[QUOTE="Wolfetan"]You always pick out the bad things in someones post. Never commending somebody. I've never seen a happy post from you. airshocker

First off, why would I commend anyone? No one on this forum is worth commendations. Not even myself.

Troll on, bro. I have games that need to be played.

Me too. Do you have Guild Wars 2? I just started:D
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Also does trolling equate to insulting? Because thats mostly what I do to Air, and he sees it as trolling..Wolfetan

How deluded you are to think anything you say to me could be thought of as insulting. :lol:

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#38 Wolfetan
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[QUOTE="Wolfetan"]Also does trolling equate to insulting? Because thats mostly what I do to Air, and he sees it as trolling..airshocker

How deluded you are to think anything you say to me could be thought of as insulting. :lol:

How is this not an insult? "You suck at being a police officer"
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How is this not an insult? "You suck at being a police officer"Wolfetan

Because it doesn't insult me in the slightest. You don't know me. You don't know how I perform at my job. Nor are you even in a position to make an educated determination of my performance. Why would you saying "You suck at being a police officer" matter to me? :lol:

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[QUOTE="Wolfetan"]How is this not an insult? "You suck at being a police officer"airshocker

Because it doesn't insult me in the slightest. You don't know me. You don't know how I perform at my job. Nor are you even in a position to make an educated determination of my performance. Why would you saying "You such at being a police officer" matter to me? :lol:

That is besides the point though. It is still an insult. Whether or not it insulted you or not. Do you have Guild Wars 2?

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That is besides the point though. It is still an insult. Whether or not it insulted you or not. Do you have Guild Wars 2?

Wolfetan

No, the point is that I don't find it insulting and I've just shown you why.

One of these days you'll get the better of me. Today is not that day, Wolfy.

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#42 Wolfetan
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[QUOTE="Wolfetan"]

That is besides the point though. It is still an insult. Whether or not it insulted you or not. Do you have Guild Wars 2?

airshocker

No, the point is that I don't find it insulting and I've just shown you why.

Ok, but do you have Guild Wars 2?
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Ok, but do you have Guild Wars 2? Wolfetan

Yes, but I'm not playing it currently. The only MMO I'm playing is PlanetSide 2. Refer to my edited post, pls.

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[QUOTE="Wolfetan"]Ok, but do you have Guild Wars 2? airshocker

Yes, but I'm not playing it currently. The only MMO I'm playing is PlanetSide 2. Refer to my edited post, pls.

Awesome game. The massive scale and customization makes for an epic online shooter.
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[QUOTE="Wolfetan"]Ok, but do you have Guild Wars 2? airshocker

Yes, but I'm not playing it currently. The only MMO I'm playing is PlanetSide 2. Refer to my edited post, pls.

Finally, I'm getting some sliver of happiness out of you. That there could be some:shock: My friend really recommends PS2. Haven't played it..
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Awesome game. The massive scale and customization makes for an epic online shooter.ShadowJax04

Indeed. I just wish I could reset my certs. It's agonizingly slow trying to cert out light assault.

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[QUOTE="ShadowJax04"]Awesome game. The massive scale and customization makes for an epic online shooter.airshocker

Indeed. I just wish I could reset my certs. It's agonizingly slow trying to cert out light assault.

Ya I'm feeling you, it can definately take a long time to get the exact gun you want and it kind of restricts your gun selection at the start. Once you get a decent arsenal it can get really fun though so it rewards the patient.

Boldly I would even suggest they double cert gain but that's just me.

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Can't really answer given this is one giant generalization.foxhound_fox
There is no generalization there, I don't generalize. I don't mention words like "everybody" "the whole world" "every single one in this galaxy" and shit like that. Don't bother answering if you couldn't even understand the content.
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#49 nunovlopes
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Because recognizing your defects is a LOT harder than recognizing your qualities.

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Ya I'm feeling you, it can definately take a long time to get the exact gun you want and it kind of restricts your gun selection at the start. Once you get a decent arsenal it can get really fun though so it rewards the patient.

Boldly I would even suggest they double cert gain but that's just me.

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Doucle XP from now until Sunday. Guess whos life is going to be devoured by PS2?