Will you always give someone a second chance?

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#1 SuperNovaftw
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I sure would. I mean its the right thing to do. If someone killed a friend or family if they asked for forgiveness and they wanted to change then I would give them that chance but if they blow even that then its game over for them.

 

Would you?

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#2 bnarmz
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We are all human (last I checked). In time I can forgive anyone for just about anything, but to forget isn't always that easy.

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#3 megagene
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Not if they killed me.
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#4 Oleg_Huzwog
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I sure would. I mean its the right thing to do. If someone killed a friend or family if they asked for forgiveness and they wanted to change then I would give them that chance but if they blow even that then its game over for them.

 

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SuperNovaftw

There's no way in hell I'm giving someone a second chance after killing a family member.  There are some things where one chance is more than enough.

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#5 johnd13
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As long as they haven' t done anything really serious yes. And if they have truly regretted.

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#6 Jehuty08
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I would like to say that I would, but until I come face to face with a Murder or someone who has commited an equally/more attrocoius crime, I cant say for sure.

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#7 Kats_RK
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I don't believe in second chances.

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#8 jesuschristmonk
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Not if they killed me. megagene
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#9 super600  Moderator
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Yes!I'm actually pretty forgiving.

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#10 Flubbbs
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depends on what they did in the first place

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#11 The_Gaming_Baby
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Sadly, yes. I am far too forgiving

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#12 LJS9502_basic  Online
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No. I don't hold grudges but there are things that would make me not want someone in my life so no second chance.
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#13 dave123321
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no
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#14 Allicrombie
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I give dave lots of chances.
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#15 EatShanna
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Backstabbers and cheaters do not get a second chance.
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#16 LJS9502_basic  Online
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I give dave lots of chances.Allicrombie
Why?
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#17 kittensRjerks
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depends on what they did

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#18 Allicrombie
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[QUOTE="Allicrombie"]I give dave lots of chances.LJS9502_basic
Why?

I'm too nice?
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#19 mitu123
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Not always, some people just aren't worth it.

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#21 Murderstyle75
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Nope. Last time I gave somebody a second chance, they stole a bunch of stuff out of my house including my Xbox and all my dead mothers jewelry including her wedding ring. Even though when we were kids, she treated him like a son. Just found him on the Internet and it brought a smile to my face. He is doing 2 to 8 years in prison for cocaine possession.
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#22 --Anna--
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No, I don't forget or forgive.

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#23 hoola
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If it was an honest accident then yes.  If it was on purpose then No.  

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#24 Canuck3000
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It really all depends on what they did
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#25 coolbeans90
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It really all depends on what they did Canuck3000

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#26 VaguelyTagged
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lol no, i've ended a few good friendships because of a single mistake and i don't regret it to this day.

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#27 mrbojangles25  Online
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maybe not at first, but time heals all wounds.  So yes, I think everyone deserves a second chance.  Life is too short to be pissed off all the time.

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#28 mrbojangles25  Online
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lol no, i've ended a few good friendships because of a single mistake and i don't regret it to this day.

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mistake? As in, unintentional?

Damn, that's cold!

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#29 mccoyca112
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Sure, I'm pretty forgiving. I just don't forget. Murder? Honestly, it depends entirely on the context imo, and that's all I'll say about that.

 

 

 

 

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#30 dave123321
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I give dave lots of chances.Allicrombie
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#31 dave123321
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We should get a like/dislike button for the forum
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#32 Lord_Ronskins
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I'm quick to anger and slow to forgive so no, but it also depends on the person I guess.

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#33 Sword-Demon
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I'll forgive most things, but if they betray my trust, they're not getting it back.
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#34 MrPraline
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holding grudges requires more energy than i have left, so sure, i guess, beyond caring
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#35 konvikt_17
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It depends on te person and what they did.

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We should get a like/dislike button for the forumdave123321
I dislike this post. We don't need that silliness to invade OT.
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#37 dave123321
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[QUOTE="dave123321"]We should get a like/dislike button for the forumLJS9502_basic
I dislike this post. We don't need that silliness to invade OT.

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#38 megagene
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[QUOTE="dave123321"]We should get a like/dislike button for the forumLJS9502_basic
I dislike this post. We don't need that silliness to invade OT.

I "liked" this, but then I "unliked" it.
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#39 Wolfetan
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USUALLY not.

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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="dave123321"]We should get a like/dislike button for the forummegagene
I dislike this post. We don't need that silliness to invade OT.

I "liked" this, but then I "unliked" it.

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#41 megagene
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="megagene"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"] I dislike this post. We don't need that silliness to invade OT.

I "liked" this, but then I "unliked" it.

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#42 Laihendi
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Anyone asking for forgiveness is a beggar trying to avoid responsibility for his mistakes. I do not give forgiveness and I do not ask for it.
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#43 Ace6301
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Depends on how badly they f*cked up in the first place and whether I decide they've actually feel bad about what they had done. So no I won't always give someone a second chance but I'm not opposed to forgiveness. You'd have to be quite a bastard to not forgive others for some things.
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#44 chaithu143
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That is only one way to show mercy on others..!
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#45 Celldrax
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I tend to hold slight grudges. But it really depends on how they are as people.

If they don't care at all, then they can go f*ck themselves and rot for all I care. But if they can acknowledge the mistake, then I'd at least give them the time of day.

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#46 VaguelyTagged
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[QUOTE="VaguelyTagged"]

lol no, i've ended a few good friendships because of a single mistake and i don't regret it to this day.

mrbojangles25

mistake? As in, unintentional?

Damn, that's cold!

yes, some have happened to be unintentional but that doesn't mean they were simple/harmless mistakes. everyone has a few personal rules, once a friend ignores one of them, your friendship won't be the same anymore, no matter how hard you try to fix it.
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#47 Angie7F
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Yes. Humans are stupid and I try to love them for their faults.

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice shame on me.

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#48 Shottayouth13-
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I can't see myself forgiving the hypothetical rape/murder of my hypothetical children and/or family members.
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#49 HybridPhoenix
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Depends on what they did and what they wanted a second chance at.
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#50 invisibletearsx
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Depends on the situation.