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From a young age I'm going to be teaching my children about the Bible and Christianity but it's their choice as to whether they choose to follow that path or not. They will know what Christianity believes by the time they are of age to decide for themselves. I want to be the spiritual leader in the family that I wish I had growing up.mindstormWhat if your partner would disagree with you? Or would you never marry a person of different beliefs?
[QUOTE="mindstorm"]From a young age I'm going to be teaching my children about the Bible and Christianity but it's their choice as to whether they choose to follow that path or not. They will know what Christianity believes by the time they are of age to decide for themselves. I want to be the spiritual leader in the family that I wish I had growing up.Bartimaeus23What if your partner would disagree with you? Or would you never marry a person of different beliefs? Nope, won't even consider dating a person that believes differently. Sharing the same beliefs and passions in life is what I want in a female more than anything.
[QUOTE="Bartimaeus23"][QUOTE="mindstorm"]From a young age I'm going to be teaching my children about the Bible and Christianity but it's their choice as to whether they choose to follow that path or not. They will know what Christianity believes by the time they are of age to decide for themselves. I want to be the spiritual leader in the family that I wish I had growing up.mindstormWhat if your partner would disagree with you? Or would you never marry a person of different beliefs? Nope, won't even consider dating a person that believes differently. Sharing the same beliefs and passions in life is what I want in a female more than anything. Would she have to be of the same group of followers as you (Catholic, Orthodox etc.)? Just curious.
No. Organized religion has brought humanity nothing but bloodshed and war, I have no interest in putting my kids through such a bloodthirsty system.Andrew_XavierMost people don't kill themselves over religion. War and religion don't necessarily have to have anything at all in common.
Nope, mental cleanliness will be one of my top priorities as a parent.jointedI guess that means you won't let them use the internet.
[QUOTE="Andrew_Xavier"]No. Organized religion has brought humanity nothing but bloodshed and war, I have no interest in putting my kids through such a bloodthirsty system.Bartimaeus23Most people don't kill themselves over religion. War and religion don't necessarily have to have anything at all in common. Ummm...the history of humanity begs to differ.
I will never teach my children religion. I will wait until they are old enough and I will educate them about it and ask if they want to join a certain religion. I don't want to force anything onto my children.xTheExploitedMy parents did this with me, I'm thankful.
[QUOTE="jointed"]Nope, mental cleanliness will be one of my top priorities as a parent.Bartimaeus23I guess that means you won't let them use the internet. Not when they're under the age of 12 I wont.
[QUOTE="Bartimaeus23"][QUOTE="Andrew_Xavier"]No. Organized religion has brought humanity nothing but bloodshed and war, I have no interest in putting my kids through such a bloodthirsty system.Andrew_XavierMost people don't kill themselves over religion. War and religion don't necessarily have to have anything at all in common. Ummm...the history of humanity begs to differ.
If you say so. :?
No. Organized religion has brought humanity nothing but bloodshed and war, I have no interest in putting my kids through such a bloodthirsty system.Andrew_XavierReligion doesn't cause bloodshed. It's the zealous, brainwashed freaks that blow things out of proportion that cause bloodshed.
[QUOTE="Andrew_Xavier"]No. Organized religion has brought humanity nothing but bloodshed and war, I have no interest in putting my kids through such a bloodthirsty system.Vax45Religion doesn't cause bloodshed. It's the zealous, brainwashed freaks that blow things out of proportion that cause bloodshed. Yeah, i mean the damage done by religious violence doesn't even compare to anti-religious regimes - Hitler Mao, Pol Pot, Stalin etc.etc.etc.
To be honest, if you were a parent who firmly believes that your religion is the truth and that you have found your saviour... wouldn't you be a bad parent NOT to expose your child to that? We teach our children our political beliefs and lots of other things which are basically a matter of opinion - but nobody cares about those issues. However, i agree with Richard Dawkins that it's unfair to label your child a 'christian child' when they hardly know what they are. And i don't think baptism for children is good at all. If i have children i won't necessarily teach them my religion (because i'm agnostic), but because i come from a largely christian background, i hold the values in the bible very dear to me, and i'd probably teach them.Stumpt25Isn't that why God gave us free will though? So we can choose for ourselves? I'd only teach them when they'd be older and able to understand religion if they were curious. Otherwise I could argue that I'd simply exploit my position as a person of trust to teach kids what I believe.
[QUOTE="Stumpt25"]To be honest, if you were a parent who firmly believes that your religion is the truth and that you have found your saviour... wouldn't you be a bad parent NOT to expose your child to that? We teach our children our political beliefs and lots of other things which are basically a matter of opinion - but nobody cares about those issues. However, i agree with Richard Dawkins that it's unfair to label your child a 'christian child' when they hardly know what they are. And i don't think baptism for children is good at all. If i have children i won't necessarily teach them my religion (because i'm agnostic), but because i come from a largely christian background, i hold the values in the bible very dear to me, and i'd probably teach them.Bartimaeus23Isn't that why God gave us free will though? So we can choose for ourselves? I'd only teach them when they'd be older and able to understand religion if they were curious. Otherwise I could argue that I'd simply exploit my position as a person of trust to teach kids what I believe. That's the whole point... Kids DO have freewill I was taught the religion of my parents and I don't believe it anymore. It hasn't damaged me as a person, and i actually feel that i've benefitted from it.
[QUOTE="Vax45"][QUOTE="Andrew_Xavier"]No. Organized religion has brought humanity nothing but bloodshed and war, I have no interest in putting my kids through such a bloodthirsty system.Stumpt25Religion doesn't cause bloodshed. It's the zealous, brainwashed freaks that blow things out of proportion that cause bloodshed. Yeah, i mean the damage done by religious violence doesn't even compare to anti-religious regimes - Hitler Mao, Pol Pot, Stalin etc.etc.etc. It's not the belief or non-belief in a deity that matters when where talking about these regimes. It's the fanaticism and total devotion that the fundamental ideologies (Nazism, Communism, facism) behind these authorities inspires that matters. What's funny is that most of those systems functions like religions.
[QUOTE="Bartimaeus23"][QUOTE="Stumpt25"]To be honest, if you were a parent who firmly believes that your religion is the truth and that you have found your saviour... wouldn't you be a bad parent NOT to expose your child to that? We teach our children our political beliefs and lots of other things which are basically a matter of opinion - but nobody cares about those issues. However, i agree with Richard Dawkins that it's unfair to label your child a 'christian child' when they hardly know what they are. And i don't think baptism for children is good at all. If i have children i won't necessarily teach them my religion (because i'm agnostic), but because i come from a largely christian background, i hold the values in the bible very dear to me, and i'd probably teach them.Stumpt25Isn't that why God gave us free will though? So we can choose for ourselves? I'd only teach them when they'd be older and able to understand religion if they were curious. Otherwise I could argue that I'd simply exploit my position as a person of trust to teach kids what I believe. That's the whole point... Kids DO have freewill I was taught the religion of my parents and I don't believe it anymore. It hasn't damaged me as a person, and i actually feel that i've benefitted from it. Children at a young age would believe most things a parent tells them. I know if they're older, children will learn to think for themselves; but then what's the point of teaching them something when they'll believe it regardless of what it is?
[QUOTE="Stumpt25"][QUOTE="Bartimaeus23"] Isn't that why God gave us free will though? So we can choose for ourselves? I'd only teach them when they'd be older and able to understand religion if they were curious. Otherwise I could argue that I'd simply exploit my position as a person of trust to teach kids what I believe.Bartimaeus23That's the whole point... Kids DO have freewill I was taught the religion of my parents and I don't believe it anymore. It hasn't damaged me as a person, and i actually feel that i've benefitted from it. Children at a young age would believe most things a parent tells them. I know if they're older, children will learn to think for themselves; but then what's the point of teaching them something when they'll believe it regardless of what it is? Well if you expose them to your belief, you are keeping them informed, and they can make a choice from there. Being informed is never a bad thing.
From a young age I'm going to be teaching my children about the Bible and Christianity but it's their choice as to whether they choose to follow that path or not. They will know what Christianity believes by the time they are of age to decide for themselves. I want to be the spiritual leader in the family that I wish I had growing up.mindstormWhat he said.
Considering I'm Catholic,and that I'll probably stay Catholic by the time I'm ready to have kids,it'd be pretty hard to raise them without mentioning my religious beliefs.I'd teach them some of the well-known stories and instill some of well-known values,but I wouldn't force it down my children's throat.Not sure how teaching a child about my religion would be harmful to them in any way,personally.VGobbsesserWatch Jesus Camp and you'll see the danger in teaching children religion...
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