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#1 mcSee
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Just read an article about sexual attraction that any single guys out there might find interesting: http://www.surveymonkey.com/s.aspx?sm=owjJmjQLpwM0YAe8mozCbw_3d_3d (the link goes to a short survey. Someone's giving the article away to do market research) One idea that I liked was the bit about 'tests' - it's a bit controversial and some guys will probably not agree with it, but it helped me understand why some women have tended to lose interest in me after a while. what do you guys (girls?) make of it?
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#2 Jekken6
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I'm pretty sure women do that. And it pisses me off.

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#3 AxeStrangler
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Yeah dude, this basically refers to all that Pick Up artist stuff. I've read The Game before, and it's a really interesting book.

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i cant figure out how to get the article i request come copypasta

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#5 Shi-ro-me
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I don't even have to hit the link to know it's true. And in my opinion it's obnoxious.

Here's an example of one I've gone through.

Girl: I talked to an old friend today and I think I have some serious feelings for him.

Guy: Are you effing serious or are you joking with me, be honest.

Girl: No, I'm being serious, no joke.

Guy: Okay I'm taking you seriously now, so be completely honest.

Girl: I'm not kidding.

Guy: Okay now I'm pissed, I don'tfeel like talking*click*

girl: *calls back* I knew you didn't trust me!!! Waaaahh!

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My way of dealing with that kind of thing is to ignore it. I don't want to be with someone that wants me to be someone else.
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#7 my_mortal_coil
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My way of dealing with that kind of thing is to ignore it. I don't want to be with someone that wants me to be someone else.guynamedbilly

Oh yeah way easy ... :| for you maybe. Most guys will put up with it because they are crazy about a girl and 90% (maybe closer to 99.99999999...%) of women do it. So yeah, not all that easy to avoid.

I honestly can STAND when women do this but it is a biological trait, it's instinctive for women to do this because they have to be really choosy about the guy they mate with. Still annoying as all h-e-double-hockey-sticks, though.

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[QUOTE="Shi-ro-me"]

I don't even have to hit the link to know it's true. And in my opinion it's obnoxious.

Here's an example of one I've gone through.

Girl: I talked to an old friend today and I think I have some serious feelings for him.

Guy: Are you effing serious or are you joking with me, be honest.

Girl: No, I'm being serious, no joke.

Guy: Okay I'm taking you seriously now, so be completely honest.

Girl: I'm not kidding.

Guy: Okay now I'm pissed, I don'tfeel like talking*click*

girl: *calls back* I knew you didn't trust me!!! Waaaahh!

Perfect example. And it happens all the time :x
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[QUOTE="Shi-ro-me"]

I don't even have to hit the link to know it's true. And in my opinion it's obnoxious.

Here's an example of one I've gone through.

Girl: I talked to an old friend today and I think I have some serious feelings for him.

Guy: Are you effing serious or are you joking with me, be honest.

Girl: No, I'm being serious, no joke.

Guy: Okay I'm taking you seriously now, so be completely honest.

Girl: I'm not kidding.

Guy: Okay now I'm pissed, I don'tfeel like talking*click*

girl: *calls back* I knew you didn't trust me!!! Waaaahh!

hahaha so true
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[QUOTE="guynamedbilly"]My way of dealing with that kind of thing is to ignore it. I don't want to be with someone that wants me to be someone else.my_mortal_coil

Oh yeah way easy ... :| for you maybe. Most guys will put up with it because they are crazy about a girl and 90% (maybe closer to 99.99999999...%) of women do it. So yeah, not all that easy to avoid.

I honestly can STAND when women do this but it is a biological trait, it's instinctive for women to do this because they have to be really choosy about the guy they mate with. Still annoying as all h-e-double-hockey-sticks, though.

Simply, I'd rather not be with a woman at all than accept these little games. The honest ladies aren't as rare as you might think if that's really what you want.
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Stop messing with our heads!!!!!! Please! :cry:

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#12 bean-with-bacon
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Well then don't stay with the girls who are always doing stupid games and tests :|
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#13 StaticPenguin
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Men do it as well. I've seen them do it time and time again.

Both genders do it. Both are obnoxious when they start doing it.

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I don't even tolerate that.
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#15 ShuichiChamp24
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I don't even have to hit the link to know it's true. And in my opinion it's obnoxious.

Here's an example of one I've gone through.

Girl: I talked to an old friend today and I think I have some serious feelings for him.

Guy: Are you effing serious or are you joking with me, be honest.

Girl: No, I'm being serious, no joke.

Guy: Okay I'm taking you seriously now, so be completely honest.

Girl: I'm not kidding.

Guy: Okay now I'm pissed, I don'tfeel like talking*click*

girl: *calls back* I knew you didn't trust me!!! Waaaahh!

Shi-ro-me

:|The sad thing about this is that it's true.

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#16 clembo1990
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I don't even have to hit the link to know it's true. And in my opinion it's obnoxious.

Here's an example of one I've gone through.

Girl: I talked to an old friend today and I think I have some serious feelings for him.

Guy: Are you effing serious or are you joking with me, be honest.

Girl: No, I'm being serious, no joke.

Guy: Okay I'm taking you seriously now, so be completely honest.

Girl: I'm not kidding.

Guy: Okay now I'm pissed, I don'tfeel like talking*click*

girl: *calls back* I knew you didn't trust me!!! Waaaahh!

Shi-ro-me
Dear God. This happens, too. And some women think it's justified to play tricks and lie just to get what they want.
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#17 my_mortal_coil
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Men do it as well. I've seen them do it time and time again.

Both genders do it. Both are obnoxious when they start doing it.

Raikoh_

But women do it more. Don't you agree? :twisted:

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Ugh yeah my girlfriend tests me all the damned time. She tries to break up with me once or twice a week and threatens suicide once or twice a month but sometimes it seems like she just wants a reaction out of me. She has mental health issues just in case you're wondering.
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My favorite is: "What shirt should I wear, the red or the blue one?" "You look hot in the blue one" "AND WHAT'S WRONG WITH THE RED ONE!?"
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#20 my_mortal_coil
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Ugh yeah my girlfriend tests me all the damned time. She tries to break up with me once or twice a week and threatens suicide once or twice a month but sometimes it seems like she just wants a reaction out of me. She has mental health issues just in case you're wondering.domatron23

Nah, pretty obvious. She needs professional help, dude.

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#21 SerbWarrior
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I don't even have to hit the link to know it's true. And in my opinion it's obnoxious.

Here's an example of one I've gone through.

Girl: I talked to an old friend today and I think I have some serious feelings for him.

Guy: Are you effing serious or are you joking with me, be honest.

Girl: No, I'm being serious, no joke.

Guy: Okay I'm taking you seriously now, so be completely honest.

Girl: I'm not kidding.

Guy: Okay now I'm pissed, I don'tfeel like talking*click*

girl: *calls back* I knew you didn't trust me!!! Waaaahh!

Shi-ro-me

Hahahahahahahahahaha omfg,i hope you broke up with that crazy ****, i hope not all women are like this,otherwise im gonna become a hermit,with a pc :)

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#22 Shi-ro-me
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[QUOTE="Shi-ro-me"]

I don't even have to hit the link to know it's true. And in my opinion it's obnoxious.

Here's an example of one I've gone through.

Girl: I talked to an old friend today and I think I have some serious feelings for him.

Guy: Are you effing serious or are you joking with me, be honest.

Girl: No, I'm being serious, no joke.

Guy: Okay I'm taking you seriously now, so be completely honest.

Girl: I'm not kidding.

Guy: Okay now I'm pissed, I don'tfeel like talking*click*

girl: *calls back* I knew you didn't trust me!!! Waaaahh!

SerbWarrior

Hahahahahahahahahaha omfg,i hope you broke up with that crazy girl, i hope not all women are like this,otherwise im gonna become a hermit,with a pc :)

Not all woman are, but eventually at some point they will test you one way or another. Sometimes you just gotta put up with it.

Every squirrel has to fight for a nut once in a while. o_O

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#23 matenmoe
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My favorite is: "What shirt should I wear, the red or the blue one?" "You look hot in the blue one" "AND WHAT'S WRONG WITH THE RED ONE!?"D3nnyCrane
LOL :cry: Something akin to that.

These little 'tests' are a sign of somebody being immature about relationships in the first place -males and females. We don't need 3rd party 'partner compatibility tests' in magazines to guide our relationships.

We need each other to do that instead.

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Ive just recently noticed this, and it made me a bit sad. The older and wiser they get, the more insidious the tests too. I know my friend was interested in some guy, and instead of telling him, she said she wasnt when he asked, but it was only because she wanted him to try harder. :?
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#26 mcSee
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The article I read (which prompted my starting of this thread) basically implies that ALL women play these games - not just the psychotic ones. They want a strong man and there's only one way to make sure he's the real deal. Thoughts?

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[QUOTE="Raikoh_"]

Men do it as well. I've seen them do it time and time again.

Both genders do it. Both are obnoxious when they start doing it.

my_mortal_coil

But women do it more. Don't you agree? :twisted:

No, women are just more obvious when they do it.

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women test you to see how easily they can walk all over you, here's an example: Woman- Buy me a drink Guy- alright This is where most guys fail the so called test. Beautiful women have guys buy them drinks all the time, so buying her a drink won't make much difference. The proper response would be, "no, you buy me a drink and we will see". By saying this, you have shown that your not easily phased by the woman's beauty, and thus the woman is intrigued to find out why you didn't buy her a drink like most average guys.
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Ive just recently noticed this, and it made me a bit sad. The older and wiser they get, the more insidious the tests too. I know my friend was interested in some guy, and instead of telling him, she said she wasnt when he asked, but it was only because she wanted him to try harder. :?Witchsight

See to me, that just crazy. If a girl said she wasn't interested, I'd stop altogether...because she wasn't interested. How the hell are we supposed to second guess that kinda horseplay? :roll:

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women test you to see how easily they can walk all over you, here's an example: Woman- Buy me a drink Guy- alright This is where most guys fail the so called test. Beautiful women have guys buy them drinks all the time, so buying her a drink won't make much difference. The proper response would be, "no, you buy me a drink and we will see". By saying this, you have shown that your not easily phased by the woman's beauty, and thus the woman is intrigued to find out why you didn't buy her a drink like most average guys. AxeStrangler
Exactly, spot-on! ;) Women that do this testing thing want to be challenged, and if you don't man up, then you'll come out short.
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#31 FlowGreen
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sure they do
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Luckily my two ex's never did it. If they did, I don't think I would put up with it (well, maybe for the second one at the time...).

My friend's ex though did it so much it was pathetic.

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Of course they do. They must only choose the best guy of them all, so the genes will be the better. It's for evolutionary purposes.
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[QUOTE="Witchsight"]Ive just recently noticed this, and it made me a bit sad. The older and wiser they get, the more insidious the tests too. I know my friend was interested in some guy, and instead of telling him, she said she wasnt when he asked, but it was only because she wanted him to try harder. :?luke1889

See to me, that just crazy. If a girl said she wasn't interested, I'd stop altogether...because she wasn't interested. How the hell are we supposed to second guess that kinda horseplay? :roll:

Exactly, i'm not into that. If a girl says they aren't interested I back the **** up.

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#35 Dr_Brocoli
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There called "**** tests" Yeah they do, if they do, i dont take them seriously, laugh in their face, and beat them at their own game. Women can be very annoying sometimes.
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yeah, i see it all the time.
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Ok, I think I'm a bit lost in this thread (just cause I didn't want to do the survey) but I think I got this. IS this a good example:
So my friend's brother is dating one of the most wanted girls in school. However, he is pretty inexperienced with girls, and he lets her walk all over him (he tries to hold her hand, but she breaks off and goes over and hugs my other friend). Something akin to this?

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#38 Pvt_r3d
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I don't know why but women always do this **** to me. It's like they all gather at one house and decide how to **** with me next.
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Woman are simply for nothing other than play. Let them too close and they'll destroy you.
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#40 Asharon31
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Every mans list of frustrations can be summed up in one word... boiled down to a single cause.... Women... sometimes an ugh, sigh, or profane word is placed before this word but other then that it pretty much does it.
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I've dated some real two-faced women since High School. I know about this crap all too well...

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#42 AxeStrangler
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Ok, I think I'm a bit lost in this thread (just cause I didn't want to do the survey) but I think I got this. IS this a good example:
So my friend's brother is dating one of the most wanted girls in school. However, he is pretty inexperienced with girls, and he lets her walk all over him (he tries to hold her hand, but she breaks off and goes over and hugs my other friend). Something akin to this?

Grodus5

yeah man, your friend's brother shows weakness, chances are, the girl he's dating has already cheated on him.

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#43 matenmoe
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women test you to see how easily they can walk all over you, here's an example: Woman- Buy me a drink Guy- alright This is where most guys fail the so called test. Beautiful women have guys buy them drinks all the time, so buying her a drink won't make much difference. The proper response would be, "no, you buy me a drink and we will see". By saying this, you have shown that your not easily phased by the woman's beauty, and thus the woman is intrigued to find out why you didn't buy her a drink like most average guys. AxeStrangler
I hear that. The female never considered that maybe some guy has no interest in playing games, so she loses! All about how he is supposed to respond to her, but not about how he might feel. "on the next oprah..."