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#1 GHlegend77
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I've always wondered, do women really think that a manplaying an instrument makes him more sexy/attractive in a way? You see it in TV shows all the time, where the female protagonist will be flustered with the male protagonist because of his good looks, but she seems to fall in love with him on sight of seeing him play an instrument, among other things.

So, women and girls of OT, I ask this?Could a man playing an instrument make you more attracted to him?

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#2 astrozombie37
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Yup, I swoon when the guy plays his first note. ;)

[spoiler] honestly, I don't really care if someone can play an instrument. Someone can be talented but be a jerk too. [/spoiler]

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#3 McJugga
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Just a question? That's all it takes for you?

Edit: also, you don't need an instrument, just a guitar case.

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#4 MystikFollower
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Yup, I swoon when he plays his first note. ;)

:D

astrozombie37

Well there you have it. :) *makes note to take guitar lessons and practice the ole trumpet*

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#5 GHlegend77
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Just a question? That's all it takes for you?McJugga
What?
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#6 Nude_Dude
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*has sudden flashbacks of the crazy drummer guy* Oh yeah...
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#7 McJugga
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[QUOTE="McJugga"]Just a question? That's all it takes for you?GHlegend77
What?

Nevermind. =3
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[QUOTE="GHlegend77"][QUOTE="McJugga"]Just a question? That's all it takes for you?McJugga
What?

Nevermind. =3

Don't worry McJugga. As much as it doesn't matter at all, I got it :).

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#9 bededog
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TV has the girl fall in love when the boy is playing music since music makes the scene have a bigger emotional impact on the viewer.
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#10 GHlegend77
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[QUOTE="GHlegend77"][QUOTE="McJugga"]Just a question? That's all it takes for you?McJugga
What?

Nevermind. =3

If you're referring to getting someone I like, no, but it helps a ton when you can play six instruments other than a woodwind :P MSN?
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#11 TwilightTown15
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Honestly, it makes me nervous that they'll play me a song. Sometimes it's cool, though.

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#12 McJugga
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[QUOTE="McJugga"][QUOTE="GHlegend77"] What? GHlegend77
Nevermind. =3

If you're referring to getting someone I like, no, but it helps a ton when you can play six instruments other than a woodwind :P MSN?

lol, you don't have to ask. =P
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#13 NuclearFlower
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It's pretty nice.But it just depends on the person really.
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#14 Sheena321
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hmmm, nah ... im more atracted to the personality of a guy .. his sense of humor, kindness ..and ...................... so, to answer this question, no, .. buuuuttt i kinda know someone pretty sexy who does :oops:
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#15 JigglyWiggly_
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Guaranteed that most of these people are men.
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#16 GHlegend77
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[QUOTE="GHlegend77"][QUOTE="McJugga"] Nevermind. =3McJugga
If you're referring to getting someone I like, no, but it helps a ton when you can play six instruments other than a woodwind :P MSN?

lol, you don't have to ask. =P

It's always awkward for me not to. It seems weird just to strike up a possibly unwanted IM LO
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#17 cheesyjon
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Ahahaha! :lol:

Oh, GH. :P

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#18 crayfish16
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Dude, no. That's not really relevent.
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#19 Bluestorm-Kalas
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[QUOTE="McJugga"]Just a question? That's all it takes for you?GHlegend77
What?

You're only 14 right? Probably best you don't get that joke. :P

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#20 scorch-62
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Just a question? That's all it takes for you?

Edit: also, you don't need an instrument, just a guitar case.

McJugga
But not a used guitar case. That's just nasty.
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#21 misskarli24
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yes deifinately. its super sexy for many reasons first of all just simply being able to play an instrument and if they can sing just makes me melt! It shows they are passionate about something and dedicated/ devoted which once again i find very attractive. I adore it!

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#22 comp_atkins
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they just like men who can handle their instruments...
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#23 UltimoIce
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I've always wondered, do women really think that a manplaying an instrument makes him more sexy/attractive in a way? You see it in TV shows all the time, where the female protagonist will be flustered with the male protagonist because of his good looks, but she seems to fall in love with him on sight of seeing him play an instrument, among other things.

So, women and girls of OT, I ask this?Could a man playing an instrument make you more attracted to him?

GHlegend77

Yes. It's true. And they don't even have to play an instrument. I was the front man for a local punk band in the early 00's, and I had more ass thrown at me during that stint than any other time in my life. Unfortunately coders don't get many horney groupies following them around.

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#24 Rati0cinative
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This might not be the answer you want to here, but I couldn't care less if a guy plays an instrument or not. It's not a deciding factor when dating a guy. I'm not picky, just having a tolerable face that doesn't need a bag and a sense of humour is enough to win me over.

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#25 PurpleHaze89
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i guess you haven't seen this yet :D

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F5QCs3PnQBc

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#26 GHlegend77
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This might not be the answer you want to here, but I couldn't care less if a guy plays an instrument or not. It's not a deciding factor when dating a guy. I'm not picky, just having a tolerable face that doesn't need a bag and a sense of humour is enough to win me over.

Rati0cinative
I'm not wanting a specific answer, I'm just wanting opinions.
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#27 Rati0cinative
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i guess you haven't seen this yet :D

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F5QCs3PnQBc

PurpleHaze89

Haha, nope. I dunno, I just don't think an instrument makes a guy attractive. If he does, cool, and if he doesn't? Not a huge loss.

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#28 PurpleHaze89
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[QUOTE="PurpleHaze89"]

i guess you haven't seen this yet :D

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F5QCs3PnQBc

Rati0cinative

Haha, nope. I dunno, I just don't think an instrument makes a guy attractive. If he does, cool, and if he doesn't? Not a huge loss.

well i think it depends i'm playing guitar myself and i know girls who go totally crazy over it but others don't give a **** :P
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#29 Rati0cinative
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[QUOTE="Rati0cinative"]

[QUOTE="PurpleHaze89"]

i guess you haven't seen this yet :D

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F5QCs3PnQBc

PurpleHaze89

Haha, nope. I dunno, I just don't think an instrument makes a guy attractive. If he does, cool, and if he doesn't? Not a huge loss.

well i think it depends i'm playing guitar myself and i know girls who go totally crazy over it but others don't give a **** :P

It comes down to certain taste I guess, I certainly wouldn't refuse to date a guy if he played a guitar >.>

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#30 binpink
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I think I prefer a guy who doesn't obsess over an instrument. They're noisy and time consuming and we can't talk or hang out while he's playing. I'm not into that whole mushy thing where a guy sings to a girl and it's so special and yadda yadda. And music just is not my thing in general.

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#31 Serraph105
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lets give it a try shall we?

*pulls out my old instrument*

http://www.leicscoopband.co.uk/Images/trombone.jpg

am I sexy now girls? I play it when I'm by myself and brooding.

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#32 Rati0cinative
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That's hot

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#33 Plzhelpmelearn
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lets give it a try shall we?

*pulls out my old instrument*

am I sexy now girls? I play it when I'm by myself and brooding.

Serraph105

Your instrument looks a little rusty.

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#34 mitu123
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This might not be the answer you want to here, but I couldn't care less if a guy plays an instrument or not. It's not a deciding factor when dating a guy. I'm not picky, just having a tolerable face that doesn't need a bag and a sense of humour is enough to win me over.

Rati0cinative

Why hello there.:P And TC, I think you watch too much TV:P, all depends on the guy.

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#35 GHlegend77
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[QUOTE="mitu123"]

[QUOTE="Rati0cinative"]

This might not be the answer you want to here, but I couldn't care less if a guy plays an instrument or not. It's not a deciding factor when dating a guy. I'm not picky, just having a tolerable face that doesn't need a bag and a sense of humour is enough to win me over.

Why hello there.:P And TC, I think you watch too much TV:P, all depends on the guy.

I've watched too many chick flicks, most of them I was forced to :cry:
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#36 Rati0cinative
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[QUOTE="Rati0cinative"]

This might not be the answer you want to here, but I couldn't care less if a guy plays an instrument or not. It's not a deciding factor when dating a guy. I'm not picky, just having a tolerable face that doesn't need a bag and a sense of humour is enough to win me over.

mitu123

Why hello there.:P And TC, I think you watch too much TV:P, all depends on the guy.

Sense of humour - check

Tolerable face - ?

Just kidding (but not rly)

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#37 BlindBluMonstah
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nope, i only fall for guys in skin tight jeans who hold instruments E: xD

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#38 Serraph105
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[QUOTE="Serraph105"]

lets give it a try shall we?

*pulls out my old instrument*

am I sexy now girls? I play it when I'm by myself and brooding.

Plzhelpmelearn

Your instrument looks a little rusty.

well that one isn't mine. I just couldn't find a picture of myself holding my own trombone.
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#39 mitu123
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[QUOTE="mitu123"]

[QUOTE="Rati0cinative"]

This might not be the answer you want to here, but I couldn't care less if a guy plays an instrument or not. It's not a deciding factor when dating a guy. I'm not picky, just having a tolerable face that doesn't need a bag and a sense of humour is enough to win me over.

Rati0cinative

Why hello there.:P And TC, I think you watch too much TV:P, all depends on the guy.

Sense of humour - check

Tolerable face - ?

Just kidding (but not rly)

Would this help?

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#40 aaronmullan
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Just a question? That's all it takes for you?

Edit: also, you don't need an instrument, just a guitar case.

McJugga
Indeed. I once had this friend who just walked around with a guitar case and got all the woman.
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#41 PiscesChick93
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Yeah, I guess - especially if he is dedicating his instrument playing to me! :P

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#42 mitu123
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[QUOTE="mitu123"]

[QUOTE="Rati0cinative"]

This might not be the answer you want to here, but I couldn't care less if a guy plays an instrument or not. It's not a deciding factor when dating a guy. I'm not picky, just having a tolerable face that doesn't need a bag and a sense of humour is enough to win me over.

GHlegend77

Why hello there.:P And TC, I think you watch too much TV:P, all depends on the guy.

I've watched too many chick flicks, most of them I was forced to :cry:

LOL at chick flicks.:lol:

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#43 Suzy_Q_Kazoo
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It can be, depends on the person. Some girls like guys with blonde hair, others like it brown, some prefer red. While it certainly isn't necessary, it is a favored preference. Most people have some sort of rough idea of how they envision their significant other.

I know how to play a couple of instruments myself, so it generally interests me when someone else does too. But if the guy is a loser, then just happens to be musically inclined, my first opinion is not going to change. I guess...It's rather a bonus than a deal breaker :P

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#44 McJugga
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lets give it a try shall we?

*pulls out my old instrument*

http://www.leicscoopband.co.uk/Images/trombone.jpg

am I sexy now girls? I play it when I'm by myself and brooding.

Serraph105

I think you'll impress more men than women.

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#45 XilePrincess
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I don't find men playing instruments attractive in the least. I appreciate talent, but I don't drool over it.
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#46 Sheena321
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[QUOTE="McJugga"]

[QUOTE="Serraph105"]

lets give it a try shall we?

*pulls out my old instrument*

http://www.leicscoopband.co.uk/Images/trombone.jpg

am I sexy now girls? I play it when I'm by myself and brooding.

I think you'll impress more men than women.

ummm, yea you could be right there ... its doing nothing for me ...... *goes back to ....* lol
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#47 Nifty_Shark
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If they are ugly it still is not enough... or they can be all counter culture and look really different. There is always a crowd for the "outsider" or whatnot.
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#48 ayanami_rei
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Nope. Though, it could be like saying if a girl swoons over a guy who plays video games, and that's what I do when my boyfriend talks about video games. :oops: Just because a guy plays an instrument, doesn't mean he's any good or loves doing it. There has to be passion, dedication, and wanting to play that instrument, not just because it'll get him a girl.
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#49 deactivated-6016f2513d412
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I've noticed that lots of teen girls find it attractive when guys play the guitar or something for whatever reason. I'm not sure why. On TV I suppose they think it's effective to show a guy playing a song on his guitar for a girl. It seems to happen a lot. Personally I kind of like it when a guy can play an instrument, but it's not like an instant turn-on or anything. I just have been really into music for most of my life, and I can play a few instruments, so it's just something that's sort of important to me. I don't go nuts for guys who play guitars or anything necessarily...I actually kind of prefer orchestral instruments (winds, strings). Like I said, though, it's not really a huge deal to me.
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#50 Deihjan
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I think it's sexy, if the man is sexy. Really, I don't care if he plays or doesn't play an instrument. I don't find myself more drawn to musicians than others. But then again, I'm hardly drawn to anyone these days.