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ask a random girl out? For example, i may like this girl but i dont have any classes with her or anything.. i dont know her name either... i think she looks pretty and i wanna get to know her better. Im not really asking for advice, im just asking if you guys/ girls would or think this is weird? the last thing i would want to do is creep her out.... thnks for the help..=/hunterchawNo, I do it all the time.
ask a random girl out? For example, i may like this girl but i dont have any classes with her or anything.. i dont know her name either... i think she looks pretty and i wanna get to know her better. Im not really asking for advice, im just asking if you guys/ girls would or think this is weird? the last thing i would want to do is creep her out.... thnks for the help..=/hunterchaw
How are u gonna approach her? Just randomly just walk up 2 her 1 day and say, "hey wanna go out?"
[QUOTE="hunterchaw"]ask a random girl out? For example, i may like this girl but i dont have any classes with her or anything.. i dont know her name either... i think she looks pretty and i wanna get to know her better. Im not really asking for advice, im just asking if you guys/ girls would or think this is weird? the last thing i would want to do is creep her out.... thnks for the help..=/Hamster-of-Fate
How are u gonna approach her? Just randomly just walk up 2 her 1 day and say, "hey wanna go out?"
Yeah, I wouldn't go that route. I feed them a compliment sandwich (it's a great ice breaker). You tell them one compliment, one negative compliment then another compliment right after (before the shock of the negative comment "sets in").[QUOTE="hunterchaw"]ask a random girl out? For example, i may like this girl but i dont have any classes with her or anything.. i dont know her name either... i think she looks pretty and i wanna get to know her better. Im not really asking for advice, im just asking if you guys/ girls would or think this is weird? the last thing i would want to do is creep her out.... thnks for the help..=/Hamster-of-Fate
How are u gonna approach her? Just randomly just walk up 2 her 1 day and say, "hey wanna go out?"
lol i dont know exactly....kinda? lol like i was going to go and TRY to just say like " hey, i know this is kind of a spur of the moment thing.... but would you go out with me?" I dont really know though.....[QUOTE="Hamster-of-Fate"][QUOTE="hunterchaw"]ask a random girl out? For example, i may like this girl but i dont have any classes with her or anything.. i dont know her name either... i think she looks pretty and i wanna get to know her better. Im not really asking for advice, im just asking if you guys/ girls would or think this is weird? the last thing i would want to do is creep her out.... thnks for the help..=/hunterchaw
How are u gonna approach her? Just randomly just walk up 2 her 1 day and say, "hey wanna go out?"
lol i dont know exactly....kinda? lol like i was going to go and TRY to just say like " hey, i know this is kind of a spur of the moment thing.... but would you go out with me?" I dont really know though..... I would suggest telling her your name and asking her name before you just go "Want to go out sometime?"[QUOTE="hunterchaw"][QUOTE="Hamster-of-Fate"]lol i dont know exactly....kinda? lol like i was going to go and TRY to just say like " hey, i know this is kind of a spur of the moment thing.... but would you go out with me?" I dont really know though..... I would suggest telling her your name and asking her name before you just go "Want to go out sometime?" so.. just go up and say " my name is....?"How are u gonna approach her? Just randomly just walk up 2 her 1 day and say, "hey wanna go out?"
hokies1313
[QUOTE="hokies1313"][QUOTE="hunterchaw"] lol i dont know exactly....kinda? lol like i was going to go and TRY to just say like " hey, i know this is kind of a spur of the moment thing.... but would you go out with me?" I dont really know though.....hunterchawI would suggest telling her your name and asking her name before you just go "Want to go out sometime?" so.. just go up and say " my name is....?" "Hello my name is____ and I was wondering if you would possibly want to go out sometime?" If yes - ask for name and number
[QUOTE="hunterchaw"][QUOTE="hokies1313"] I would suggest telling her your name and asking her name before you just go "Want to go out sometime?"hokies1313so.. just go up and say " my name is....?" "Hello my name is____ and I was wondering if you would possibly want to go out sometime?" If yes - ask for name and numberIf no, pull out the chloroform and sack.
I would suggest telling her your name and asking her name before you just go "Want to go out sometime?"SpinoRaptor24so.. just go up and say " my name is....?" "Hello my name is____ and I was wondering if you would possibly want to go out sometime?" If yes - ask for name and number That actually sounds like a very good line. Thanks. Also spino raptor, i would like to get to know her first. But i was thinking and if, IF she does want to go out, wouldnt i get to know her then too? because i dont really know what to talk about....lol.....
Thanks for everyones responses! its definetly gave me more courage lol..and good to know that it may not creep her out =\hunterchawGood luck, and just remember, if it doesn't work out, it's not the end of the world.
[QUOTE="Hamster-of-Fate"][QUOTE="hunterchaw"]ask a random girl out? For example, i may like this girl but i dont have any classes with her or anything.. i dont know her name either... i think she looks pretty and i wanna get to know her better. Im not really asking for advice, im just asking if you guys/ girls would or think this is weird? the last thing i would want to do is creep her out.... thnks for the help..=/hunterchaw
How are u gonna approach her? Just randomly just walk up 2 her 1 day and say, "hey wanna go out?"
lol i dont know exactly....kinda? lol like i was going to go and TRY to just say like " hey, i know this is kind of a spur of the moment thing.... but would you go out with me?" I dont really know though.....I've found it works best to instead of saying "Want to go out with me?" say something like "Would you like to go to the movies sometime?" Or, "Would you like to sometime talk over lunch or something?"
Seems much more casual, and you aren't pressuring her into thinking you want a relationship
Also, there's a good chance that you might actually impress her with your bravery. Most men are scared to ask a girl out even when they DO know eachother.
[QUOTE="hunterchaw"]Thanks for everyones responses! its definetly gave me more courage lol..and good to know that it may not creep her out =\hokies1313Good luck, and just remember, if it doesn't work out, it's not the end of the world. Hey, thanks dude i appreciate all the help.
No dude, if anything do things the right way...
Instead of just asking her out the FIRST time you speak to her. Try to talk to her, try to become decent aquantences first. Then after a couple weeks, feel out the situation and ask her out :)
[QUOTE="hunterchaw"][QUOTE="Hamster-of-Fate"]lol i dont know exactly....kinda? lol like i was going to go and TRY to just say like " hey, i know this is kind of a spur of the moment thing.... but would you go out with me?" I dont really know though.....How are u gonna approach her? Just randomly just walk up 2 her 1 day and say, "hey wanna go out?"
Tim_Q
I've found it works best to instead of saying "Want to go out with me?" say something like "Would you like to go to the movies sometime?" Or, "Would you like to sometime talk over lunch or something?"
Seems much more casual, and you aren't pressuring her into thinking you want a relationship
Also, there's a good chance that you might actually impress her with your bravery. Most men are scared to ask a girl out even when they DO know eachother.
Thanks aswell dude that seems really helpful, especially in my current situation.. I will tell you guys how it go's lol if you want?lol any suggestions for a conversation starter? lolNo dude, if anything do things the right way...
Instead of just asking her out the FIRST time you speak to her. Try to talk to her, try to become decent aquantences first. Then after a couple weeks, feel out the situation and ask her out :)
AwesomeDude45
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