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#1 hunterchaw
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ask a random girl out? For example, i may like this girl but i dont have any classes with her or anything.. i dont know her name either... i think she looks pretty and i wanna get to know her better. Im not really asking for advice, im just asking if you guys/ girls would or think this is weird? the last thing i would want to do is creep her out.... thnks for the help..=/
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ask a random girl out? For example, i may like this girl but i dont have any classes with her or anything.. i dont know her name either... i think she looks pretty and i wanna get to know her better. Im not really asking for advice, im just asking if you guys/ girls would or think this is weird? the last thing i would want to do is creep her out.... thnks for the help..=/hunterchaw
No, I do it all the time.
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#3 needled24-7
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Some girls might think it is, some might not.
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#4 Curlyfrii87
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Nah... you never know until you ask!
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#5 hokies1313
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Really depends on the person. However knowing her name MIGHT be something that could be useful.
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Not that I know anything about these matters but I say why not go for it? I mean, you said you didn't share any classes, that way she turns you down it's even less awkward since you'd probably rarely encounter her anyways.
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ask a random girl out? For example, i may like this girl but i dont have any classes with her or anything.. i dont know her name either... i think she looks pretty and i wanna get to know her better. Im not really asking for advice, im just asking if you guys/ girls would or think this is weird? the last thing i would want to do is creep her out.... thnks for the help..=/hunterchaw

How are u gonna approach her? Just randomly just walk up 2 her 1 day and say, "hey wanna go out?"

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[QUOTE="hunterchaw"]ask a random girl out? For example, i may like this girl but i dont have any classes with her or anything.. i dont know her name either... i think she looks pretty and i wanna get to know her better. Im not really asking for advice, im just asking if you guys/ girls would or think this is weird? the last thing i would want to do is creep her out.... thnks for the help..=/Hamster-of-Fate

How are u gonna approach her? Just randomly just walk up 2 her 1 day and say, "hey wanna go out?"

Yeah, I wouldn't go that route. I feed them a compliment sandwich (it's a great ice breaker). You tell them one compliment, one negative compliment then another compliment right after (before the shock of the negative comment "sets in").
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[QUOTE="hunterchaw"]ask a random girl out? For example, i may like this girl but i dont have any classes with her or anything.. i dont know her name either... i think she looks pretty and i wanna get to know her better. Im not really asking for advice, im just asking if you guys/ girls would or think this is weird? the last thing i would want to do is creep her out.... thnks for the help..=/Hamster-of-Fate

How are u gonna approach her? Just randomly just walk up 2 her 1 day and say, "hey wanna go out?"

lol i dont know exactly....kinda? lol like i was going to go and TRY to just say like " hey, i know this is kind of a spur of the moment thing.... but would you go out with me?" I dont really know though.....
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[QUOTE="Hamster-of-Fate"]

[QUOTE="hunterchaw"]ask a random girl out? For example, i may like this girl but i dont have any classes with her or anything.. i dont know her name either... i think she looks pretty and i wanna get to know her better. Im not really asking for advice, im just asking if you guys/ girls would or think this is weird? the last thing i would want to do is creep her out.... thnks for the help..=/hunterchaw

How are u gonna approach her? Just randomly just walk up 2 her 1 day and say, "hey wanna go out?"

lol i dont know exactly....kinda? lol like i was going to go and TRY to just say like " hey, i know this is kind of a spur of the moment thing.... but would you go out with me?" I dont really know though.....

I would suggest telling her your name and asking her name before you just go "Want to go out sometime?"
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#11 hunterchaw
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[QUOTE="hunterchaw"][QUOTE="Hamster-of-Fate"]

How are u gonna approach her? Just randomly just walk up 2 her 1 day and say, "hey wanna go out?"

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lol i dont know exactly....kinda? lol like i was going to go and TRY to just say like " hey, i know this is kind of a spur of the moment thing.... but would you go out with me?" I dont really know though.....

I would suggest telling her your name and asking her name before you just go "Want to go out sometime?"

so.. just go up and say " my name is....?"
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There's nothing bad in it, really. There's always the chance that she's been checking you out, eh? ;)
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#13 Raged-wolverine
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nope..........seems ok.....as long as u don't appear to be a pervert when asking her out, everything is acceptable
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#14 UnrighteousFury
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You should probably have at least one conversation with her before you ask her out. Just going up and asking her randomly could either be extremely flattering or extremely creepy, depending on the girl.
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I don't get the big deal. People do it all the time.
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[QUOTE="hokies1313"][QUOTE="hunterchaw"] lol i dont know exactly....kinda? lol like i was going to go and TRY to just say like " hey, i know this is kind of a spur of the moment thing.... but would you go out with me?" I dont really know though.....hunterchaw
I would suggest telling her your name and asking her name before you just go "Want to go out sometime?"

so.. just go up and say " my name is....?"

"Hello my name is____ and I was wondering if you would possibly want to go out sometime?" If yes - ask for name and number
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#17 DigitalExile
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[QUOTE="hunterchaw"][QUOTE="hokies1313"] I would suggest telling her your name and asking her name before you just go "Want to go out sometime?"hokies1313
so.. just go up and say " my name is....?"

"Hello my name is____ and I was wondering if you would possibly want to go out sometime?" If yes - ask for name and number

If no, pull out the chloroform and sack.
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Shouldn't you get to know her first?
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#19 hunterchaw
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I would suggest telling her your name and asking her name before you just go "Want to go out sometime?"SpinoRaptor24
so.. just go up and say " my name is....?"

"Hello my name is____ and I was wondering if you would possibly want to go out sometime?" If yes - ask for name and number

That actually sounds like a very good line. Thanks. Also spino raptor, i would like to get to know her first. But i was thinking and if, IF she does want to go out, wouldnt i get to know her then too? because i dont really know what to talk about....lol.....
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#20 hunterchaw
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Thanks for everyones responses! its definetly gave me more courage lol..and good to know that it may not creep her out =\
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Shouldn't you get to know her first?SpinoRaptor24

Isn't that what a date if for? :?

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Thanks for everyones responses! its definetly gave me more courage lol..and good to know that it may not creep her out =\hunterchaw
Good luck, and just remember, if it doesn't work out, it's not the end of the world.
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[QUOTE="Hamster-of-Fate"]

[QUOTE="hunterchaw"]ask a random girl out? For example, i may like this girl but i dont have any classes with her or anything.. i dont know her name either... i think she looks pretty and i wanna get to know her better. Im not really asking for advice, im just asking if you guys/ girls would or think this is weird? the last thing i would want to do is creep her out.... thnks for the help..=/hunterchaw

How are u gonna approach her? Just randomly just walk up 2 her 1 day and say, "hey wanna go out?"

lol i dont know exactly....kinda? lol like i was going to go and TRY to just say like " hey, i know this is kind of a spur of the moment thing.... but would you go out with me?" I dont really know though.....

I've found it works best to instead of saying "Want to go out with me?" say something like "Would you like to go to the movies sometime?" Or, "Would you like to sometime talk over lunch or something?"

Seems much more casual, and you aren't pressuring her into thinking you want a relationship

Also, there's a good chance that you might actually impress her with your bravery. Most men are scared to ask a girl out even when they DO know eachother.

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#24 hunterchaw
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[QUOTE="hunterchaw"]Thanks for everyones responses! its definetly gave me more courage lol..and good to know that it may not creep her out =\hokies1313
Good luck, and just remember, if it doesn't work out, it's not the end of the world.

Hey, thanks dude i appreciate all the help.
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No dude, if anything do things the right way...

Instead of just asking her out the FIRST time you speak to her. Try to talk to her, try to become decent aquantences first. Then after a couple weeks, feel out the situation and ask her out :)

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#26 hunterchaw
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[QUOTE="hunterchaw"][QUOTE="Hamster-of-Fate"]

How are u gonna approach her? Just randomly just walk up 2 her 1 day and say, "hey wanna go out?"

Tim_Q

lol i dont know exactly....kinda? lol like i was going to go and TRY to just say like " hey, i know this is kind of a spur of the moment thing.... but would you go out with me?" I dont really know though.....

I've found it works best to instead of saying "Want to go out with me?" say something like "Would you like to go to the movies sometime?" Or, "Would you like to sometime talk over lunch or something?"

Seems much more casual, and you aren't pressuring her into thinking you want a relationship

Also, there's a good chance that you might actually impress her with your bravery. Most men are scared to ask a girl out even when they DO know eachother.

Thanks aswell dude that seems really helpful, especially in my current situation.. I will tell you guys how it go's lol if you want?
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#27 hunterchaw
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No dude, if anything do things the right way...

Instead of just asking her out the FIRST time you speak to her. Try to talk to her, try to become decent aquantences first. Then after a couple weeks, feel out the situation and ask her out :)

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lol any suggestions for a conversation starter? lol
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#28 lilasianwonder
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It depends on the chick. Some girls don't mind and others will consider you a creeper.