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#1 wigan_gamer
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Would you be shocked and possibly refuse to be treated by a male physiotherapist (if you wouldn't refuse as a male, would you if you were female) ? I am surprised at how many women request female therapists. I am on my first long placement on my course and it seems like 10-20% of the women that come in do request a female therapist regardless of reputation / age, they just purely decide on the factor of gender, which seems absurd to me....

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I'm fine with either gender. I take pleasure in both impressing people or making them feel inadequate.

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#3 Oleg_Huzwog
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Why would that be absurd to you? Depending on what all is planned for a particular patient's therapy, the therapist's gender would naturally play a major role in the patient's comfort level.

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#4 wigan_gamer
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Why would that be absurd to you? Depending on what all is planned for a particular patient's therapy, the therapist's gender would naturally play a major role in the patient's comfort level.

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I dont see the need to feel uncomfortable.... We remain professional regardless of who we see. If the women is attractive then they might think we could be "pervy", yet they wear bikinis on holiday yes? That is just as revealing for the majority of patients, if not more. If the women is fat and/or ugly, maybe they are ashamed of getting undressed in front a male, but we are not there to judge.
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#5 Dspose
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I wouldn't be shocked, or refuse to be seen by someone. The patients comfort is surely important, as otherwise they may not wish to return for any further sessions.

There could be any number of reasons why someone may wish to see a person of the same sex.

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#6 XilePrincess
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If I have to be any sort of naked, I'd prefer a female. I understand that male doctors are professional and all that, but unless it's an immediate life-or-death situation I would rather not have man-hands all over me.
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#7 wigan_gamer
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There could be any number of reasons why someone may wish to see a person of the same sex.

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No. The statement should be" to see a female". Some males also prefer females too.... But they just want to get better generally so do not care.
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If I have to be any sort of naked, I'd prefer a female. I understand that male doctors are professional and all that, but unless it's an immediate life-or-death situation I would rather not have man-hands all over me.XilePrincess
I agree fully :P
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If I have to be any sort of naked, I'd prefer a female. I understand that male doctors are professional and all that, but unless it's an immediate life-or-death situation I would rather not have man-hands all over me.XilePrincess
Hmm your first sentance, any sort of naked, do you feel they will perve? or judge you as being ugly?or another reason?

Second sentance, the hands would not be all over you... contact is as minimal as possible with every patient. Also you would "prefer" a female, but would you refuse to see a male if the appointment was paid for already?

Thirdly which would you choose out of these : A young unheard of female physio with little experience, or an older male physio with a great reputation and plenty of experience?

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#10 fusionhunter
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I see absolutely nothing wrong. :P

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I don't mind a male one. It's like hairdressers I think, I find the male ones do a better job :P Especially if they wear glasses and wear a scarf!

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I'm a little surprised that anyone would be "shocked" by this.

For starters, as others have said there is a certain level of comfort that some people have with members of the same sex. In addition, depending on what the patient is being treated for, I think the physician's sex could make a HUGE difference. For example, if I was having a problem or had a concern with some "private parts," and I were trying to describe a feeling/sensation/pain, isn't it plausible that a person of the same sex who HAS THE SAME PHYSIOLOGY just might have a better understanding of what I'm describing?

Also, you had mentioned that "we are all proffessional"........ I'd like to think that is true, but just saying that doesn't make it true.

Finally (for now), you seem to equate a woman wearing a bikini on the beach with being alone, in close quarters, with a relative stranger. I don't even know where to begin to explain the difference there.

One last obervation I have, and this is ONLY my OPINION, but it seems you already view "patients" as cattle (for lack of a better word). I should hope for your sake, and that of your patients, that your bedside manner's improves over time. (I want to reiterate....JUST MY OPINION).

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[QUOTE="XilePrincess"]If I have to be any sort of naked, I'd prefer a female. I understand that male doctors are professional and all that, but unless it's an immediate life-or-death situation I would rather not have man-hands all over me.wigan_gamer

Hmm your first sentance, any sort of naked, do you feel they will perve? or judge you as being ugly?or another reason?

Second sentance, the hands would not be all over you... contact is as minimal as possible with every patient. Also you would "prefer" a female, but would you refuse to see a male if the appointment was paid for already?

Thirdly which would you choose out of these : A young unheard of female physio with little experience, or an older male physio with a great reputation and plenty of experience?

No, I don't assume a doctor is going to grope me, stare at me inappropriately or judge me. These are people who see guts on a daily basis, the human body is like a car engine to them, not something to gawk at. The nudity part is just because I'm highly uncomfortable being naked, and if I HAVE to be naked, I'd rather have the medical professional in the room with me be the same gender as I am. I just don't feel the need to have a male do the same work a female could do, if there is absolutely no benefit to having one gender or the other, so why not go with the one I'm most at ease with? If you have to have some sort of physical therapy, not being tense will help the treatment work better. Regardless of "all over" or "minimal touching", I'd rather NO touching. Any touching I do not want is too much touching, I'm sure that's consistent with most everyone. If I had been promised a female doctor and was given a male one and not been told ahead of time and with no offer to reschedule or see another doctor, I would ask for the appointment to be rescheduled with the female doctor I was promised, save for if the situation was, as I said, life or death. If you promise a patient a certain doctor and they aren't available, it's your job to remedy the situation, not expect the patient (who is likely ill or in some sort of distress, otherwise why would they be there?) to bend to fit the situation if it was a pre-scheduled appointment. I would make the choice based on the situation. If there was absolutely no woman anywhere that could take my case that was on par with the available male doctors in the area, I would certainly rather have a male doctor than be in pain, discomfort, or remain ill, whatever the case may be. You have to weigh your options in those sorts of situations. If there was a woman who could do the same job, I would pick the woman. I've had male doctors my entire life, I even chose a male doctor the last time I switched (during the summer) over a woman, simply because she was foreign and hard to understand and thus could not give me the same quality of healthcare as he could. I choose to go out of my way for my pap tests and that girly business and go to a female doctor on the other side of town simply because it makes me more comfortable. That is the sole reason I do it, because it makes me comfortable. I don't think that's strange at all.
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Dont care either way
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#15 wigan_gamer
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[QUOTE="wigan_gamer"]

[QUOTE="XilePrincess"]If I have to be any sort of naked, I'd prefer a female. I understand that male doctors are professional and all that, but unless it's an immediate life-or-death situation I would rather not have man-hands all over me.XilePrincess

Hmm your first sentance, any sort of naked, do you feel they will perve? or judge you as being ugly?or another reason?

Second sentance, the hands would not be all over you... contact is as minimal as possible with every patient. Also you would "prefer" a female, but would you refuse to see a male if the appointment was paid for already?

Thirdly which would you choose out of these : A young unheard of female physio with little experience, or an older male physio with a great reputation and plenty of experience?

No, I don't assume a doctor is going to grope me, stare at me inappropriately or judge me. These are people who see guts on a daily basis, the human body is like a car engine to them, not something to gawk at. The nudity part is just because I'm highly uncomfortable being naked, and if I HAVE to be naked, I'd rather have the medical professional in the room with me be the same gender as I am. I just don't feel the need to have a male do the same work a female could do, if there is absolutely no benefit to having one gender or the other, so why not go with the one I'm most at ease with? If you have to have some sort of physical therapy, not being tense will help the treatment work better. Regardless of "all over" or "minimal touching", I'd rather NO touching. Any touching I do not want is too much touching, I'm sure that's consistent with most everyone. If I had been promised a female doctor and was given a male one and not been told ahead of time and with no offer to reschedule or see another doctor, I would ask for the appointment to be rescheduled with the female doctor I was promised, save for if the situation was, as I said, life or death. If you promise a patient a certain doctor and they aren't available, it's your job to remedy the situation, not expect the patient (who is likely ill or in some sort of distress, otherwise why would they be there?) to bend to fit the situation if it was a pre-scheduled appointment. I would make the choice based on the situation. If there was absolutely no woman anywhere that could take my case that was on par with the available male doctors in the area, I would certainly rather have a male doctor than be in pain, discomfort, or remain ill, whatever the case may be. You have to weigh your options in those sorts of situations. If there was a woman who could do the same job, I would pick the woman. I've had male doctors my entire life, I even chose a male doctor the last time I switched (during the summer) over a woman, simply because she was foreign and hard to understand and thus could not give me the same quality of healthcare as he could. I choose to go out of my way for my pap tests and that girly business and go to a female doctor on the other side of town simply because it makes me more comfortable. That is the sole reason I do it, because it makes me comfortable. I don't think that's strange at all.

If you were promised / requested a female then you should/will get one. I mean people who don't request and just look shocked when its a male. The way I see it is psychological problems / insecurities that cause the most problems for women not to want a male therapist, rather than the fear of "groping". But women tend to be more judgmental than men in general, so i dont see how having a women is more comfortable in that respect that you dont like being "naked".
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[QUOTE="XilePrincess"][QUOTE="wigan_gamer"] Hmm your first sentance, any sort of naked, do you feel they will perve? or judge you as being ugly?or another reason?

Second sentance, the hands would not be all over you... contact is as minimal as possible with every patient. Also you would "prefer" a female, but would you refuse to see a male if the appointment was paid for already?

Thirdly which would you choose out of these : A young unheard of female physio with little experience, or an older male physio with a great reputation and plenty of experience?

wigan_gamer

No, I don't assume a doctor is going to grope me, stare at me inappropriately or judge me. These are people who see guts on a daily basis, the human body is like a car engine to them, not something to gawk at. The nudity part is just because I'm highly uncomfortable being naked, and if I HAVE to be naked, I'd rather have the medical professional in the room with me be the same gender as I am. I just don't feel the need to have a male do the same work a female could do, if there is absolutely no benefit to having one gender or the other, so why not go with the one I'm most at ease with? If you have to have some sort of physical therapy, not being tense will help the treatment work better. Regardless of "all over" or "minimal touching", I'd rather NO touching. Any touching I do not want is too much touching, I'm sure that's consistent with most everyone. If I had been promised a female doctor and was given a male one and not been told ahead of time and with no offer to reschedule or see another doctor, I would ask for the appointment to be rescheduled with the female doctor I was promised, save for if the situation was, as I said, life or death. If you promise a patient a certain doctor and they aren't available, it's your job to remedy the situation, not expect the patient (who is likely ill or in some sort of distress, otherwise why would they be there?) to bend to fit the situation if it was a pre-scheduled appointment. I would make the choice based on the situation. If there was absolutely no woman anywhere that could take my case that was on par with the available male doctors in the area, I would certainly rather have a male doctor than be in pain, discomfort, or remain ill, whatever the case may be. You have to weigh your options in those sorts of situations. If there was a woman who could do the same job, I would pick the woman. I've had male doctors my entire life, I even chose a male doctor the last time I switched (during the summer) over a woman, simply because she was foreign and hard to understand and thus could not give me the same quality of healthcare as he could. I choose to go out of my way for my pap tests and that girly business and go to a female doctor on the other side of town simply because it makes me more comfortable. That is the sole reason I do it, because it makes me comfortable. I don't think that's strange at all.

If you were promised / requested a female then you should/will get one. I mean people who don't request and just look shocked when its a male. The way I see it is psychological problems / insecurities that cause the most problems for women not to want a male therapist, rather than the fear of "groping". But women tend to be more judgmental than men in general, so i dont see how having a women is more comfortable in that respect that you dont like being "naked".

If no request either way was made, and then a patient was SHOCKED when the doc turned out to be a member of the opposite sex, then I agree that might be a little bit over the top. But to say that it is "psychological problems" for a woman not to want to have a male physician/therapist, I think is a bit of a stretch (and maybe shows some hostility on your part). Does everyone have "psychological problems" because for the most part in society we have seperate men's bathrooms and women's bathrooms?

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I don't care either way, but I am a dude.

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#18 Night_thegamer
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I see absolutely nothing wrong. :P

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totally :P

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As long as I hadn't booked in for testicular massage rehabilitation therapy I don't think I'd be too phased.
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#20 aransom
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As long as I hadn't booked in for testicular massage rehabilitation therapy I don't think I'd be too phased.jimmyjammer69
This, and I would probably only have trouble if she were hot.

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#21 BeefoTheBold
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Beefo has no real fears of being treated by anyone, man or woman, if he was ever to be injured in the act of doing his manly things. However being a sensitive manly-man he can also understand how some might prefer to be treated by one or the other.
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#22 PorkPoltergeist
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I find women to have a kinder nature. Probably something to do with my mom. Psychologists ALWAYS say it has something to do with your mom. I've never even been to one and I know that.

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Well, depending on the kind of treatment.. some things I'm just more comfortable with having another woman looking at..
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