Would you be willing to deal with a girlfriend who is overly emotional?

You know the kind right? of course stuff happens in life, and sometimes we all need someone to be there for us, but I mean the type who calls you and is always in tears and hysterical over the phone at least once sometime even twice or 3 times a week... my friend is going out with a girl like that, and basically feels like she makes everything about her.

What about you, for all the fellas of OT would you be able to bear it? 8)

I tried and failed, its just too hard and too much..

Yeah. I would probably take it the wrong way though to be honest.

Those are the ones that cook the best! mmm...........

I wouldnt stay with her. Everyone has their own problems but freaking out that often is ridiculous. Some of it is even over stupid stuff. From my experience these people usually do so for the attention and pity people give them.

I had a friend like this that would freak out nearly every day. For some personal reasons I am no longer friends with her and leave her in the hell she made.

I disagree that this applies only to females.

Anyways, I would try. If a person was very emotional, it's usually because of low self-esteem.

I have a friend who acts this way at times, we tried taking things 'to the next level', it didn't work out.

I disagree that this applies only to females.

Anyways, I would try. If a person was very emotional, it's usually because of low self-esteem.

I have a friend who acts this way at times, we tried taking things 'to the next level', it didn't work out.

Baconbits2004

No. I would tuck my tail and run for the hills on this one. I can't stand that sort of thing.

I wouldn't be willing to deal with a normal girlfriend so an overly emotional one is unfathomable.

[QUOTE="Baconbits2004"]

I disagree that this applies only to females.

Anyways, I would try. If a person was very emotional, it's usually because of low self-esteem.

I have a friend who acts this way at times, we tried taking things 'to the next level', it didn't work out.

testfactor888

Whats that supposed to mean?! I am not overly emotional!!!!!!! Why dont you call me anymore?????

*runs away crying*

No. Tell him to get out of it, soon.

[QUOTE="Baconbits2004"]

I disagree that this applies only to females.

Anyways, I would try. If a person was very emotional, it's usually because of low self-esteem.

I have a friend who acts this way at times, we tried taking things 'to the next level', it didn't work out.

testfactor888

[QUOTE="testfactor888"][QUOTE="Baconbits2004"]

I disagree that this applies only to females.

Anyways, I would try. If a person was very emotional, it's usually because of low self-esteem.

I have a friend who acts this way at times, we tried taking things 'to the next level', it didn't work out.

TheMightyHoov

Whats that supposed to mean?! I am not overly emotional!!!!!!! Why dont you call me anymore?????

*runs away crying*

[QUOTE="TheMightyHoov"]

[QUOTE="testfactor888"] I agree this does not only apply to females. Many males are also overly emotional.testfactor888

Whats that supposed to mean?! I am not overly emotional!!!!!!! Why dont you call me anymore?????

*runs away crying*

Is that why you dont look at me when we make love?.... :(

:lol:

Hell no.

[QUOTE="testfactor888"][QUOTE="TheMightyHoov"]

Whats that supposed to mean?! I am not overly emotional!!!!!!! Why dont you call me anymore?????

*runs away crying*

TheMightyHoov

Is that why you dont look at me when we make love?.... :(

:lol:

[QUOTE="TheMightyHoov"]

[QUOTE="testfactor888"] It's because you got fat, plain and simple. You knew I was overly judgmental when you entered into this. testfactor888

Is that why you dont look at me when we make love?.... :(

:lol:

Lol

I dont think our relationship is going anywhere... Im sorry..... Its over :(

[QUOTE="testfactor888"][QUOTE="TheMightyHoov"]

Is that why you dont look at me when we make love?.... :(

:lol:

TheMightyHoov

Lol

I dont think our relationship is going anywhere... Im sorry..... Its over :(

I hate "emotional moments" so it wouldn't work out for me at all.

My criteria for continuing a relationshp is: "'Is she getting on my ****in' nerves?' If yes, then break up." That would probably get on my ****in' nerves pretty fast, so no, I wouldn't be willing to deal with it.

Hell no.

My criteria for continuing a relationshp is: "'Is she getting on my ****in' nerves?' If yes, then break up." That would probably get on my ****in' nerves pretty fast, so no, I wouldn't be willing to deal with it.

Palantas

if she is hot and has big ****

sentimentalism sucks in everything and everyone,either if it's a movie or a human being..

Relationship flow charts are a godsend.cybrcatter

[QUOTE="cybrcatter"]Relationship flow charts are a godsend.Palantas

I thought I was overly emotional until I read this thread and the examples everyone has given. Good grief, I'm not that bad. ...But I'm still overly emotional to be honest. And I couldn't date a guy who was, or who was too sensitive either.

I'm not sure what to put there. "Prenup," maybe.

I thought I was overly emotional until I read this thread and the examples everyone has given. Good grief, I'm not that bad. ...But I'm still overly emotional to be honest. And I couldn't date a guy who was, or who was too sensitive either.

binpink

After my experience with my friend there is no way in hell Im putting myself in that situation again.

After my experience with my friend there is no way in hell Im putting myself in that situation again.

TheMightyHoov

I don't blame you one bit. But I do think there's a sorta healthy balance.. like someone can be over emotional and a little whacko AT TIMES (*cough cough not like I know anyone like that) as long as every day of their life isn't one big dramatic episode of them being a victim. You are very smart to avoid those people. The constant need for attention and whatnot means something's off.

[QUOTE="TheMightyHoov"]

After my experience with my friend there is no way in hell Im putting myself in that situation again.

binpink

I don't blame you one bit. But I do think there's a sorta healthy balance.. like someone can be over emotional and a little whacko AT TIMES (*cough cough not like I know anyone like that) as long as every day of their life isn't one big dramatic episode of them being a victim. You are very smart to avoid those people. The constant need for attention and whatnot means something's off.

It happening at times is completely normal. But with this friend I would ask her whats up everyday and the response was always "Ugh... Im having a horrible day for *insert reason* and Im freaking out and depressed."

I got fed up when she would stuff words into my mouth so she could complain to our other friends of how Im being mean. That and another reason.

It happening at times is completely normal. But with this friend I would ask her whats up everyday and the response was always "Ugh... Im having a horrible day for *insert reason* and Im freaking out and depressed."

I got fed up when she would stuff words into my mouth so she could complain to our other friends of how Im being mean. That and another reason.

TheMightyHoov

Maybe it's a sign of immaturity more than anything else? When you're young and imagine the whole world revolves around you it's easy to be that way. And throwing words around like depressed without meaning them... yea. How you were supposed to stay friends with her I'll never know. And if she expected you to that just goes to show how immature she was (or still is). Is she still that way, do you know?

[QUOTE="TheMightyHoov"]

After my experience with my friend there is no way in hell Im putting myself in that situation again.

binpink

I don't blame you one bit. But I do think there's a sorta healthy balance.. like someone can be over emotional and a little whacko AT TIMES (*cough cough not like I know anyone like that) as long as every day of their life isn't one big dramatic episode of them being a victim. You are very smart to avoid those people. The constant need for attention and whatnot means something's off.

[QUOTE="TheMightyHoov"]

It happening at times is completely normal. But with this friend I would ask her whats up everyday and the response was always "Ugh... Im having a horrible day for *insert reason* and Im freaking out and depressed."

I got fed up when she would stuff words into my mouth so she could complain to our other friends of how Im being mean. That and another reason.

binpink

Maybe it's a sign of immaturity more than anything else? When you're young and imagine the whole world revolves around you it's easy to be that way. And throwing words around like depressed without meaning them... yea. How you were supposed to stay friends with her I'll never know. And if she expected you to that just goes to show how immature she was (or still is). Is she still that way, do you know?

I have completely broken ties with her but my other friends are still friends with her for reasons unknown to me. They will randomly mention her in conversation and what they say pretty much confirms she is still the same.

Tbh since I have broken my ties with her I have been happier :)

A lot less random drama.

Those are the ones that cook the best! mmm...........

Capitan_Kid

Tbh since I have broken my ties with her I have been happier :)

A lot less random drama.

TheMightyHoov

Yay! Success.

Everyone has their highs and lows.

It's those who are on a constant roller-coaster ride of emotion that make me go

cybrcatter

I gotcha. Smart.

how about the other way around: Would women be ok dealing with "emotional" guys? I don't mean guys who cry and tragedy...etc, no I'm talking about emotionally unstable guys, like ehm, me...GazaAli

[QUOTE="GazaAli"]how about the other way around: Would women be ok dealing with "emotional" guys? I don't mean guys who cry and tragedy...etc, no I'm talking about emotionally unstable guys, like ehm, me...warownslife

[QUOTE="warownslife"]

[QUOTE="GazaAli"]how about the other way around: Would women be ok dealing with "emotional" guys? I don't mean guys who cry and tragedy...etc, no I'm talking about emotionally unstable guys, like ehm, me...GazaAli