Would you date a girl who has kids?

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#1 califinest101
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Or would it be too much baggage?

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#2 jalexbrown
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It would depend on the situation, really. If she'd been single for a while, I would consider it; if she just got out of the relationship with the daddy, I wouldn't be involved in that. It also depends on the age of the kid(s) and how many we're talking about.
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#3 Theokhoth
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Never!
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#4 balls_out
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Probably, if I liked her enough. What ages are the kids?
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#5 XanderKage
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Only Barney Stinson style of dating.

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#6 BonsaiMet
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If I loved her and she was round about my age, yes. Hopefully the kids wouldn't mind.
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#7 gotenks123321
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if they were my kids then yes

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#8 RTUUMM
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Sure
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#9 cheesyjon
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Yeah. I wouldn't mind. :)

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#10 scorch-62
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Never!Theokhoth
This sounds about right.
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#11 z4twenny
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its not too much baggage, im just not the fatherly type. i dated a chick with a kid before and it was cool for a little while but.... well... then it wasn't lol.

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#12 mrmusicman247
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I tried. But it didn't work out. She barely had anytime for me. Between her kid, school and work. I just felt left out.
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#14 gugler990
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if they were my kids then yes

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#15 Brainkiller05
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Definitely not at this age
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#16 cyberdarkkid
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Under certain circumstances yes.
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#17 MushroomWig
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Not a chance!

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#18 MagikarpSplash
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No way.
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#19 jalexbrown
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Definitely not at this ageBrainkiller05
Your sig is REALLY annoying. :P
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#20 Palantas
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No. I can't stand children. Kids are about the ultimate turn-off for me.

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#21 XD4NTESINF3RNOX
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Hell no I'm only 20 I would rather not have too take care of kids and be in college at the same time. Way too much baggage
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#22 DazedDarkness
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No, because

1.I don't want to come in that kids life being a fake dad to them

2.I'm young, 20 going on 21 years old in 4 months and I don't want kids of my own, (probably will get a vasectomy)

3. I don't like kids, don't like being around kids, don't like watching kids.

4. It's more important for the child to build a relationship with their real dad( if not dead, or in jail) than for me to be in there, as I said, fake dadding it up.

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#23 DazedDarkness
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No. I can't stand children. Kids are about the ultimate turn-off for me.

Palantas

This also

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#24 EMOEVOLUTION
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I'm definitely open to the possibility. But of course it would depend on what kind of person they are.. the circumstances they had their children.. their reason for currently being single.. those kind of things.
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#25 cornholio157
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mostlikely 99% no. i wouldnt know how the kids were raised prior to my meeting them and who or what their dad is like. i forsee to many complications andtroubles in most of those situations. also if the woman only wanted 2 kids or so and already had themor had some typeof surgery or condition disabling her to haveany/morebut i want some of my own then well you get the picture, it wont work.

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#26 hedden93
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Nah, too much baby mama drama for me.

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#27 Solid_Tango
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Dont think so, too much trouble
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#28 kidsmelly
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I don't like your poll choices. Its not as simple as yes or no, it really depends on the girl and the guy. I can see younger guys saying heck no but older guys might not. As you get older you might have kids of your own and be single then you probably wouldn't mind dating someone else with a kid. It also depends on how many kids the girl have and what ages they are.

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#29 Mr_Manikin52
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[QUOTE="gotenks123321"]

if they were my kids then yes

gugler990

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Very true with me.

My bloodline must continue!

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#30 markop2003
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Possibly but it would have to be really exceptional circumstances at my age, especially as it's plural. I'ld really only consider it if they were younger siblings or nieces/nephews that she effectively parented a lot of the time not if they were actually her own kids and she'ld still have to be petty amazing for me to consider it.
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#31 hiphopballer
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if her children wernt big meanies...

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#32 AtlanticRock
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yeah I would if she's pretty and has a good personality. You only said DATE. I know I could get into a serious relationship with one, but I wouldn't - unless we were truely compatible(a match).

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#33 x8VXU6
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as long I dont have to take care of the rugrats and no baby daddy drama crap I would

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#34 takeiteazy3
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If i was getting old & running out of options maybe. Lol
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#35 GHlegend77
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No, because I'm almost 14, and any 14 yr. old with a baby is bad news.
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#36 TheNewEraIcon
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I think I rather not, I have nothing against kids and i'm actually really good with them. It would just feel sorta out of place and awkward

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#37 TF626
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No. I have some friends that have done it, but I am more interested in having my own kids, rather than taking care of someone elses.

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#38 juden41
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Of course I would.
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#39 deactivated-61d91d42c39df
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that's how you end up dead.

cause the real father get's jealous of another guy with his wife and kids.

plus you have the awkward thing of having her ex-bf/husband coming around every week.

only time i'd think about it is if the kids father had died.

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#40 StopThePresses
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I think that would probably be a bad idea for all involved.
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#41 STAR_Admiral
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No. I want my own family.
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#42 fear9204
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if she is cute, yeah

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#43 TrapMuzik92
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if were taking desperate housewives then yes
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#44 needled24-7
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sure, but i wouldn't go any farther than dating.

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#45 nitsud_19
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You forgot to add "Basketball is for wimps" into the poll.

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#47 poptart
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I would, but tread very carefully – there's more to consider than both mine and her feelings in this situation.

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#48 Lethalhazard
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Not at the moment. I'm 21 and I think I'm not really prepared for kids yet...
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#49 Smallville417
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I've dated a handful of girls with kids.

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#50 narog84
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if she beat the kid no way