Would You Date Someone If They're Not Physically Attractive?

This goes for guys and girls.

As much as I hate to say this, I can't date anyone unless I think they look good.

That depends on if I just think "She's not attractive" or "she's ugly" or "she makes my physically ill," our prior relationship etc. If I already knew her and then started liking her I'm sure it wouldn;t be an issue, but if we just met and I had to go off physical looks then no way.

I think I'd need to be attracted to them in some way, shape, or form for me to want to date them. That being said, attractive personalities make people more physically attractive to me, somehow.

I don't think that I would date anyone. aaaaarrrrggggg

No. If you don't find somebody physically appealling.. then you'll never be stimulated on any other level either. IT may seem shallow but people are almost always originaly attracted by apperance first.

You can't force attraction.

no i wouldn't,but i do believe that ppl's personality affects their seeming,weird but true.

Ehh. Ive dated one or two guys that I didnt think were THAT attractive, but they werent ugly. I dont think I could ever date someone I found psychically ugly. Same way I couldnt date someone I found to have an ugly personality.

No because physical attraction is always the first thing that... "attracts" me to them.

For me, they have to be at least pleasing to the eye. Why would you date someone you can't even stand looking at?

This may sound extremely shallow, but I wouldn't go near anyone that is ugly. It isn't so bad when they are stupid, but definitely not someone who is ugly. The qualities I would want in someone would be smart and attractive, and interesting in what I am interested in, funny, and not fat. These may be the unoriginal stereotypical qualities that everyone would want, but why wouldn't you want them? Now that is the question.

Same way I couldnt date someone I found to have an ugly personality.

miinnx

[QUOTE="aaaaarrrrggggg"]I don't think that I would date anyone. McJugga

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Same way I couldnt date someone I found to have an ugly personality.

spazzx625

definitely not. i mean i'm not the best looking girl but still i have pretty high standards

As much as I hate to say this, I can't date anyone unless I think they look good.

Razor-Lazor

I second that.

no, not really. physical attraction is important to me, as it should be.

Nope. I need physical attraction in a relationship, just as much as good personality, good sense of humor, and intelligence.

I dated a girl that was not very attractive to get back at one of her friends that wouldn't date me...I ended up really liking the girl I dated, though. I don't plan on dating anyone though, now that I'm married.spazzx625

Well they can't be ugly. But they don't have to be really hot either.

Honestly, no....

Hate to seem so shallow (I mean I don't need a super-model. I find the average girl attractive) but I would be lying if I said I would date a girl I didn't find attractive.

Theres just no point. She would be a friend for sure, but the girlfriend slot is saved for a girl who I have a physical attraction to ON TOP of an emotional attraction.

I wouldn't be able to be with someone while I am attracting to and thinking about other women. I simply won't be happy this way and happiness is important in life and you can't be happy with someone if you're not attracted to their looks too.

Definitely not.

I guess it depends on the situation. I certainly wouldn't approach anyone with intentif I deemed them physically unattractive, but if there's a woman I work with or routinely associate with, and I found her to have an attractive personality, then I think I would.

Sure why not? A great personality would more than make up for that don't you think?

When I was in highschool, I wouldn't even think of dating anyone that I thought was amazingly hot. I am a sophmore in college now, and for some reason, I am finding looks to be less on my list. I mean, I have to find them somewhat attractive, but I am much more open. I work for a woman at my college, and she isn't fat, but not your stereotypical "model". I find her very attractive for some reason. When it all comes down to it, its like my dad says "Demand to see their mother...if she is a looker than your set". lol...

No.

No.

I wouldn't. I honestly think it's a waste of time and you're just kidding yourself if you date someone you don't find physically attractive.

When I start to fall in love with a girl I always find a lot of things I like about her physically and I seem to focus on that, even if I didn't find her especially attractive before. As Stephen Meritt from the Magnetic Fields said, "I don't know if you're beautiful because I love you too much".

No, they have to be attractive to ME. Everyone is attactive to somebody, and I believe that is usually what initially gets people together. Though I have heard people say they love someone though they are not much of a "looker".