Would you ever get married?

Hey, just a random post to see if anyone would get married and settle down in life?

I am due to get married in less than 9 months

Congrats!

I'm married. Have been for over 2 years.

My wife and I are about to celebrate our 16yr anniversary.

Been there. Would probably do it again.

I'm married and happy about it

I don't think I would be open to getting married. I don't have enough money and I wouldn't be able to handle the stress. However, with that said, I am not one of those 'incels' who hate the world and blame everyone else for their suffering. I don't feel sorry for myself. In reality, singleness allows me to have more free time than a married guy. A married guy can't study the Bible like I can.

Jesus said that there are some persons who have made themselves eunuchs for the sake of the Kingdom of Heaven and that anyone who is able to accept it should accept it. He's talking about one who renounces marriage and sex for life. That's what I have done -- I'm a eunuch.

Yeah got married 2 years ago, then had a baby, all happened really fast, it's good stuff

Nah, I personally cannot imagine waking up to same person every day. Having another human dependent on me. Not saying that in like a disgusted sense of it, I just don't want it.

It's like, I go get ice cream, I see vanilla, chocolate, and rum raisin. Now I don't hate rum raisin, nor do I think less of people t hat like rum raisin... just would never buy it in a million years. I had a small taste of it one time and found it just wasn't for me. If someone gave me a pint of rum raisin, I'd probably be like "Oh gee, thanks" and see if my roommates wanted to eat it. OK bad analogy...

Hand to god, I don't begrudge the married folks and parents out there what they have, but that just isn't for me. Even the idea of pet ownership, something that pops up in my head occasionally, is a quick "Nah, I'm good" response from me.

Hey that's awesome, congratulations! My folks have their 50th coming up. Freaking nuts, so proud of them. You'll be there someday 😊

Congratulations on the marriage!

I am married with children. I think taking care of other people is the Hallmark of adulthood.

And most people reach that stage through marriage.

Maybe in the next 1-2 years.

I've lived with multiple people in a house and learned I prefer me and the dog. In the long run, people are very annoying and not worth the trouble outside of keeping them at arms distance. At least from my expereince.

Sure, if I ever find someone whose presence makes me feel better than being alone. Unfortunately, chances of that happening are lower than winning the lottery.

Been there, done that.

Well, I am married...so no I wouldn't get married again!

I've been married for 17 years now with 6 kids. Best decision ever.

Don’t ever believe I’ll get married or have a partner, I love single life. I believe in marriage but I’m saving that part for my soul mate for when I pass on. Might be a stupid reason,but it’s my reason. I do get lonely and even depressed from being alone, I have no one.

currently married. no plans to ever get married again.

Again? Maybe

2 wives? Polygamy let's goooo!

@Planeforger: Thank you!

@judaspete: Wow! massive congratulations!

Never been married and don't plan on it.

@haimesy1: @mrbojangles25: Thanks! We celebrated with pizza, Mad Max 2, and Soul Calibur. The couple that plays together stays together, so they say 😁

@judaspete: Best celebration ever!

My brother was married for 5 years with two little girls(6/4). Ended in divorce so I see that as a sign to not get married. Though I kinda wish I did get married in my 20's. Now in my late 30's, I don't regret it as I enjoy my alone time. I couldn't stand my nieces when they were little as they were annoying and a handful. I would probably have a panic attack if I had children in my 20's. Children cost alot and I prefer my money to go to me than children.

For me, I'm young. Like, in my 20s. So never say never I suppose. Though as of now, no. I went back and forth, and now I'm a hard no. I can't imagine having to share a bed with someone. I'm still in college and live with my parents and siblings, and it irritates me at times. Having to make dinner for everyone (if it's my turn to cook) and having to compromise with others. Having to explain yourself when you decide to order yourself something.

"But we have leftovers!" - dad

Yeah? Well the leftovers are mom's meatloaf, so no thanks! Even having to eat it for dinner is a compromise for me, because I really don't care for meatloaf. And no offense to my mom, but she's particularly bad at cooking meatloaf. And yet she'll fucking insist on making it, and I can't just argue with her about it because she's my mom and she paid for the groceries... I really don't want to go through that with my future husband or wife, because we'll likely have conflicting tastes. I don't want to be obligated to care about their hobbies, nor compromise on the shows we watch. Of course, I can say that watching television with my family does allow me to watch great shows that I would have overlooked, if I were living by myself. Though it still isn't worth it to compromise all the time.

Personally, the only pet I would own is a cat, and even that's a maybe. I lean towards a cat because they're self sufficient to a certain extent. It's a shame because I do think that animals are cute. But like... I barely have the energy to take care of myself, much less another living being.

@luxuryheart: Same. Growing up we always had cats and they were always outdoor cats. If we wanted to leave the house for a few days, that was fine. Put some food and water outside, maybe ask the neighbor to refill the dish with some dry food.

I love dogs but you kind of need a support system in place for dogs or a really well-behaved dog. Thankfully my place of work is cool with bringing your dog in, otherwise a lot of my coworkers would be kind of screwed lol.

haha I am already married :V