If you guys read my post in the "I'm 16...." topic this will make more sense but I got a question that grazes upon the issue of morality.
Ive been best friends with "Stan" for years and he knows more about me than anyone else and vice versa. I was always very good friends with the girls in his life, so much so that we could talk about almost anything.
There have been two however that for some reason trusted me, "Stans" BEST FRIEND, in telling me that they both cheated on him. Now to be honest I have never told "Stan" about either of these events because the first ex who told me was his first love, so I never felt right in telling him something that would only kick him while he was down, and then another came in his life so I just forgot about it but then SHE cheated on him. Its been years since these events and he hasnt had much luck with women for a while (or maybe entirely, LMAO! j/k).
But seriously, is this something that you would ever want to know? I mean how can it benefit? If it were you, would u really want to know? Would you rather hear it from your best friend if anyone?
Of course I'd want to know... I wouldn't want my girlfriend sneaking behind my back being with another guy with her pretending like nothing is going on...
Did "Honest Abe" ever admit he had an affair and illegitimate family with one of his slaves? I guess at the time it was necessary.... White lies are entirely acceptable
I would tell him. You can make anything constructive if you really try. Did they tell you why they cheated on him?CuDDKiDD
cuz he with-held sex from them and they were with him long enough to see things they dint notice before which really irritated them. Especially during that time of the month
[QUOTE="CuDDKiDD"]I would tell him. You can make anything constructive if you really try. Did they tell you why they cheated on him?CrackThaRipper
cuz he with-held sex from them and they were with him long enough to see things they dint notice before which really irritated them. Especially during that time of the month
Put a constructive spin on it when you tell him. Tell him that they felt that he wasn't giving them enough attention, and that if he wants things to work out in the future, he should work a little more on that.
Relationships are a learning process. If you want to do all the right things you have to know the wrong things that you do.
I've been cheated on five times. :/ The one had a friend who told me, and the other four times, my best friend told me after they told her and then they admitted it after five - six weeks later.
[QUOTE="NrGcHaRgE021"][QUOTE="CrackThaRipper"][QUOTE="NrGcHaRgE021"]I know my ex didnt.Conanfan1
yeah thats what my best friend has said dude.... not being mean but he did say that truuuuuuuuust me. She didnt. Because she doesn't exist? :| funny. no, she isnt the type
[QUOTE="Conanfan1"][QUOTE="NrGcHaRgE021"][QUOTE="CrackThaRipper"][QUOTE="NrGcHaRgE021"]I know my ex didnt.NrGcHaRgE021
yeah thats what my best friend has said dude.... not being mean but he did say that truuuuuuuuust me. She didnt. Because she doesn't exist? :| funny. no, she isnt the type cause shes ugly right? yeah the women that me and my friend deal with are fine ass *****es
I don't see the point in telling him after the relationship is long over....it won't do him any good now. If you knew about them cheating while they were still going out, then you should have told him back then.
Thats a tought question my friend. The best thing to do would be to tell him the truth, that way he can stop focusing on what he lost and move on to the next. Heck my old girl admitted it to me, which I figured out anyway .. but I was glad to move on. I've also had teh bad luck with women, but it can be a huge boost to know they weren't really worth it to begin with. It can enable your to search again ... maybe the next one will be the right one.
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