I'm really cut up right now, theres a girl who likes me, and i like her shes afraid to commit and its really breaking my heart right now i dont know what to do anymore, feeling as if i should just let it go but i know i was seperated from her for too long and i dont want to let her slip away again.
:( help me out, i'm prepared for the joke replies as i have seen many of these topics posted by other members of the OT community, have your fun, but anybody in the same situation, anybody who has been in the same situation and anybody with half a brain who is willing to contribute some words of assistance and comfort, i'd be very glad to hear them
You need to tell her what you just told a bunch of strangers on a message board.
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supras989
lol mm trust me i've told her, shes very confused right now, im giving her time to think, i dont have a blog anyway people wouldnt look at it either, plus i want replies, its nice to talk to people when ur feeling like s***
Actually I kinda know what you mean. I was working with a girl, we ended up getting together. It ended after awhile and we were still friends but she wasn't crazy about hanging out even though she still had feelings for me. Well she ended up leaving the job for another, and 2-3 weeks later she is txt'n me to call her so we can hang out.
I'm not sure if she wants to try to get back together or just friends. But if you get anything from that....give her time and don't smother her. After time if she really wants you, she'll let you know.
You need to tell her what you just told a bunch of strangers on a message board.
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mowz00
lol mm trust me i've told her, shes very confused right now, im giving her time to think, i dont have a blog anyway people wouldnt look at it either, plus i want replies, its nice to talk to people when ur feeling like s***
Actually I kinda know what you mean. I was working with a girl, we ended up getting together. It ended after awhile and we were still friends but she wasn't crazy about hanging out even though she still had feelings for me. Well she ended up leaving the job for another, and 2-3 weeks later she is txt'n me to call her so we can hang out.
I'm not sure if she wants to try to get back together or just friends. But if you get anything from that....give her time and don't smother her. After time if she really wants you, she'll let you know.
thanks for replying, mm im not smothering her, im a pretty calm guy, shes just getting really sad, and it makes me sad when i just want to be with her, time is my friend here, and i know she needs it aswell, like on monday, we went to the movies, she was really affectionate, and now she just confused me with the sudden change of heart today, but its starting to make sense, sometimes i wish we were just friends, things were so much better.
its good you didnt burn your bridges with that girl after the first time you were with her, always leaves opportunity for something else to pop up
You need to tell her what you just told a bunch of strangers on a message board.
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If you knew this should have been blogged, then don't post it.
supras989
lol mm trust me i've told her, shes very confused right now, im giving her time to think, i dont have a blog anyway people wouldnt look at it either, plus i want replies, its nice to talk to people when ur feeling like s***
Actually I kinda know what you mean. I was working with a girl, we ended up getting together. It ended after awhile and we were still friends but she wasn't crazy about hanging out even though she still had feelings for me. Well she ended up leaving the job for another, and 2-3 weeks later she is txt'n me to call her so we can hang out.
I'm not sure if she wants to try to get back together or just friends. But if you get anything from that....give her time and don't smother her. After time if she really wants you, she'll let you know.
thanks for replying, mm im not smothering her, im a pretty calm guy, shes just getting really sad, and it makes me sad when i just want to be with her, time is my friend here, and i know she needs it aswell, like on monday, we went to the movies, she was really affectionate, and now she just confused me with the sudden change of heart today, but its starting to make sense, sometimes i wish we were just friends, things were so much better.
its good you didnt burn your bridges with that girl after the first time you were with her, always leaves opportunity for something else to pop up Dude, she's a girl, they're like that at times. They're more moody compared to guys. You have to take certain things into consideration sometimes. Although, yes, i suggest you take it slow, but not too slow, if you know what i mean.
i'll make sure i take it slow but not to slow^^^ lol, she just said shes feeling better, but she's still a little messed up, im going away tomorow so hopefully that will be a nice gap
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