Yesterday had my first date with a woman.... details inside

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#1 VikingBeard
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So I took the advice from that thread I made about not ever having a gf. I shaved my head, Trimmed my goatee, bought a polo shirt and some nice jeans. Then (this was Sunday) I went to the YMCA to visit the place for a day to see if I wanna sign up (I didn't before but now I want to... for the basketball court alone!).

So I'm there lifting weights. I'm kinda a fat guy but I'm also blessed with being strong. So I'm doing deadlifting 315lbs and I notice a woman watching me through the mirror. I finish up my set and take out my headphones and she says "wow, you're strong". I said "it's only an illusion" kind of sarcastically and she laughed. She went back to her workout and I went back to mine.


After I changed and was phoning my brother to pick me up she asked if I wanted to grab a post workout snack. I said "why not" and we went to the coffee shop nearby and I got a turkey sandwich and a bottle of water to mix my protein shake. She got a tuna salad sandwich and a coffee. We chatted for about 45 minutes, exchanged numbers and names (I told her I usually am busy and keep in touch through facebook). So I guess that was kind of like a date. We're going to go shoot pool on the weekend. I don't drink and she doesn't drink much she tells me.


There isn't much of an age difference either. I'm 26 and she's 32.

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#2 XxSTILL_BORNxX
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You just hit Homerun man.
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#3 Ravirr
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Hooray congrats dude!
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#4 HotChrisBFries
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Right on man, be open with her and try to establish a emotional bond. Sounds like you both have lots in common.
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#5 Hey_Jay
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Good deal!
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#6 elblanquito_81
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Wow, congrats man! I hope your upcoming date goes well.
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#7 VikingBeard
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I wouldn't say we have a lot in common. I like videogames and sports cards and violent movies. She likes fashion, horses, and romantic comedies. But there is a physical attraction though. I'm hoping the date next week will go well and that there will be more. I also hope to get laid, since I haven't in over a year.
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#8 dracula_16
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Winner. Be sure to take some pics of her.

Naw, just kidding... congrats on your success. I hope all goes well for your next date.

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#9 VikingBeard
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I should have pics of us on our date. I plan on asking her to pose with me for one if the date is going well. I'm a pretty good pool shooter too... maybe I can make a side bet with her, lol
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#10 andyboiii
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awesome man, congrats on that 8)
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hooray!
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#12 HotChrisBFries
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I should have pics of us on our date. I plan on asking her to pose with me for one if the date is going well. I'm a pretty good pool shooter too... maybe I can make a side bet with her, lolVikingBeard

Definately make a bet, but nothing raunchy. Women love men who can give them a challenge, it shows your confident and masculine.

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[QUOTE="VikingBeard"]I should have pics of us on our date. I plan on asking her to pose with me for one if the date is going well. I'm a pretty good pool shooter too... maybe I can make a side bet with her, lolHotChrisBFries

What should I make a bet for? I want something that will lead to intimacy, but yearh, nothing raunchy to turn her off.

Definately make a bet, but nothing raunchy. Women love men who can give them a challenge, it shows your confident and masculine.

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blog it?
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I should have pics of us on our date. I plan on asking her to pose with me for one if the date is going well. I'm a pretty good pool shooter too... maybe I can make a side bet with her, lolVikingBeard

oh man this reminded me of that seinfeld episode. anyone remember that episode when elaine goes out with this guy and he makes these bets that he knows he's going to lose so he can go on a second date and so on. I know that's not what you would do but I just thought of that episode just now

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#16 XxSTILL_BORNxX
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[QUOTE="VikingBeard"]I should have pics of us on our date. I plan on asking her to pose with me for one if the date is going well. I'm a pretty good pool shooter too... maybe I can make a side bet with her, lolandyboiii

oh man this reminded me of that seinfeld episode. anyone remember that episode when elaine goes out with this guy and he makes these bets that he knows he's going to lose so he can go on a second date and so on. I know that's not what you would do but I just thought of that episode just now



Yeah . :lol:
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#17 HotChrisBFries
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What should I make a bet for? I want something that will lead to intimacy, but yearh, nothing raunchy to turn her off.VikingBeard

Try to think of something she might enjoy, like a food or a beverage she likes. If you bring it up in the bet, it shows that you pay attention to her details in conversations.

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I should have pics of us on our date. I plan on asking her to pose with me for one if the date is going well. I'm a pretty good pool shooter too... maybe I can make a side bet with her, lolVikingBeard

Why?:lol: Why do you feel the need to tell us everything about the date? Are you also going to upload the sex video?

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#19 trickmyster13
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Thats great man I am really happy for you, its about time!
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good afvice from us?
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#21 69ANT69
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Congratulations Pal.

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congrats man. make sure you compliment her outfit, hair, scent, etc. Women love that stuff in case you didnt know
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OT advice really does work:o
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wait is this the " i collect comic books , video games, trading cards" 30 something year old?????????

ANYWAYS

GOOD GOING MAN!!!!!! im proud of you :) im pretty sure you inspired many people here.

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#25 Akm4everz
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If you dont get laid on the date then = Fail.

lol jp

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I should have pics of us on our date. I plan on asking her to pose with me for one if the date is going well. I'm a pretty good pool shooter too... maybe I can make a side bet with her, lolVikingBeard

lol say something like...."ill bet you a drink if i win" 8) ...or something cute like that. and if you win just buy her one cause your just that nice of a guy.

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#27 Zerocrossings
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*Looks at topic title*

So before that you were dating men? >_>

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[QUOTE="VikingBeard"]I should have pics of us on our date. I plan on asking her to pose with me for one if the date is going well. I'm a pretty good pool shooter too... maybe I can make a side bet with her, lolandyboiii

oh man this reminded me of that seinfeld episode. anyone remember that episode when elaine goes out with this guy and he makes these bets that he knows he's going to lose so he can go on a second date and so on. I know that's not what you would do but I just thought of that episode just now

yeh and then jerry gets screwed over cause he does the same thing to the really good looking chick his going out with. Seriously thoguh does anyone think Seinfeld had the answer to so many questions lol.

but man thats good stuff, nice deadlift to. i really wanna start getting into heavy leg weights but i can't get a trainer or spotter cause i'm young an i need it.

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nice one brah!
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Go you beast but make sure you remember us.
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I never thought you would be able to get a women, but you proved me wrong this time. Congrats.
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#32 freek666
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You took our advice, and it worked?! Thats hilarious and awesome on so many levels. Congrats man.
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#33 Montaya
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I should have pics of us on our date. I plan on asking her to pose with me for one if the date is going well. I'm a pretty good pool shooter too... maybe I can make a side bet with her, lolVikingBeard

Guys and girls usually dont have a whole lot in common, it just come with the different sexs, gj lol.

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#34 skullkrusher13
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You took our advice, and it worked?! Thats hilarious and awesome on so many levels. Congrats man.freek666

He came to the right place.

Anyways, good luck!

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If you can make a woman laugh, then you can do anything to her!
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Go you beast but make sure you remember us.blakout3

yeah take one for the team mate!!

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#37 kayn83
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I remember your thread but I don't think I posted in it. Oh well whatever, cheers man. I wish women would fall for me spontaneously too lol
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So I took the advice from that thread I made about not ever having a gf. I shaved my head, Trimmed my goatee, bought a polo shirt and some nice jeans. Then (this was Sunday) I went to the YMCA to visit the place for a day to see if I wanna sign up (I didn't before but now I want to... for the basketball court alone!).

So I'm there lifting weights. I'm kinda a fat guy but I'm also blessed with being strong. So I'm doing deadlifting 315lbs and I notice a woman watching me through the mirror. I finish up my set and take out my headphones and she says "wow, you're strong". I said "it's only an illusion" kind of sarcastically and she laughed. She went back to her workout and I went back to mine.


After I changed and was phoning my brother to pick me up she asked if I wanted to grab a post workout snack. I said "why not" and we went to the coffee shop nearby and I got a turkey sandwich and a bottle of water to mix my protein shake. She got a tuna salad sandwich and a coffee. We chatted for about 45 minutes, exchanged numbers and names (I told her I usually am busy and keep in touch through facebook). So I guess that was kind of like a date. We're going to go shoot pool on the weekend. I don't drink and she doesn't drink much she tells me.


There isn't much of an age difference either. I'm 26 and she's 32.

VikingBeard

Tell her about yours gamespot account. Or dont.

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congrats man, just becareufl , I hope she is not one of them snakes!
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all the best!
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hell yeah!!!
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congrats man
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Make sure you mention your post count!
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#44 zeldaluff
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wait is this the " i collect comic books , video games, trading cards" 30 something year old?????????

ANYWAYS

GOOD GOING MAN!!!!!! im proud of you :) im pretty sure you inspired many people here.

ReaperV7

You're that guy?! Wow, Congrats on that! :)

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#45 shyskillz
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sounds like it worked out pretty good. just stay being you...no one likes a phony.
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#46 -starman-
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good stuff, man! you're on the right track.

just be careful not to fall too hard too fast. it's easy to do with the first one.

play it cool, and try not to go head over heels.

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pics?
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