Yet Another Girl Thread (YAY!)

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#1 zulaf69
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Aight guys, so here's whats up. I know this isn't 'girlspot' and that there are far too many of these topics but w/e here's mine.

Sooo there's this girl I know that a met through a friend, I ran into her a couple more times, and now have her number and msn and stuff, so we've been talking and she's rly cool and easy to get along with and i guess she thinks the same of me but so far thats it. I managed to visit her where she works a couple of days ago (starbucks btw) and she was surprised in a good way ( i think lol). But the problem is that i'm the master of getting stuck in the dreaded 'friendzone' and i really don't wanna make the same mistake yet again. I don't think i've come on too strong and she seems to find me funny, and i don't consider myself to be an 'ugly' guy but theres a big feeling of uncertainty that i'm not a fan of.

So if you guys could give me some pointers aside from touching her shoulder, sticking it in her p00per and posting that gamespot girl topic pic that would be great :P

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#2 swiftkillz0
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yeah. make your intentions clear from the begining.

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#3 GTA_dude
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Ask her to do something with you on a friday night (Like tonight)
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#4 dracula_16
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A tip to avoid the friend zone is to not talk about stuff that's really deep. For example, let's say that she's depressed; asking her to go into detail about it is something that only a close friend would do. If you do it she'll think you're more interested in being a close friend rather than a boyfriend.

Basically anything that's related to a problem within herself or within her family is a no-go. Her female friends would be better suited for that.

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#5 swiftkillz0
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[QUOTE="dracula_16"]

A tip to avoid the friend zone is to not talk about stuff that's really deep. For example, let's say that she's depressed; asking her to go into detail about it is something that only a close friend would do. If you do it she'll think you're more interested in being a close friend rather than a boyfriend.

Basically anything that's related to a problem within herself or within her family is a no-go. Her female friends would be better suited for that.

yep pretty much.
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#6 --Amy--
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Aight guys, so here's whats up. I know this isn't 'girlspot' and that there are far too many of these topics but w/e here's mine.

Sooo there's this girl I know that a met through a friend, I ran into her a couple more times, and now have her number and msn and stuff, so we've been talking and she's rly cool and easy to get along with and i guess she thinks the same of me but so far thats it. I managed to visit her where she works a couple of days ago (starbucks btw) and she was surprised in a good way ( i think lol). But the problem is that i'm the master of getting stuck in the dreaded 'friendzone' and i really don't wanna make the same mistake yet again. I don't think i've come on too strong and she seems to find me funny, and i don't consider myself to be an 'ugly' guy but theres a big feeling of uncertainty that i'm not a fan of.

So if you guys could give me some pointers aside from touching her shoulder, sticking it in her p00per and posting that gamespot girl topic pic that would be great :P

zulaf69
The way you put 'ugly' in quotes (apostrophes, whatever) is very disheartening. Up your game and stick it in her p00per. :D
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#7 zulaf69
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yeahhh that makes sense, especially since i usually do get put into that situation and end up falling for the bait lol. Ha I probably would never have thought of that for a verrry long time thnx

btw that was for dracula guy

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#8 iam2green
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ask her if she wants to go out as friends and just keep on doing that. as for the poll, i don't think we should. i find that stickies don't get answers a lot of times or not a lot of questions get answered.
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#9 zulaf69
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[QUOTE="zulaf69"]

Aight guys, so here's whats up. I know this isn't 'girlspot' and that there are far too many of these topics but w/e here's mine.

Sooo there's this girl I know that a met through a friend, I ran into her a couple more times, and now have her number and msn and stuff, so we've been talking and she's rly cool and easy to get along with and i guess she thinks the same of me but so far thats it. I managed to visit her where she works a couple of days ago (starbucks btw) and she was surprised in a good way ( i think lol). But the problem is that i'm the master of getting stuck in the dreaded 'friendzone' and i really don't wanna make the same mistake yet again. I don't think i've come on too strong and she seems to find me funny, and i don't consider myself to be an 'ugly' guy but theres a big feeling of uncertainty that i'm not a fan of.

So if you guys could give me some pointers aside from touching her shoulder, sticking it in her p00per and posting that gamespot girl topic pic that would be great :P

--Amy--

The way you put 'ugly' in quotes (apostrophes, whatever) is very disheartening. Up your game and stick it in her p00per. :D

oh well i put the word ugly in those quote thingies cuz looks are subjective anyways, hope you didn't misunderstand :)
oh and btw what happend to no "sitcking it in her p00per" comments :P

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#10 freek666
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Just ask if she wants to hang out at the movies or something on a Saturday.

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#11 Jacobistheman
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Well you could try being and @** to her, that way you can never get stuck in the friend zone.

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#12 takeiteazy3
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The way you put 'ugly' in quotes (apostrophes, whatever) is very disheartening. Up your game and stick it in her p00per. :D--Amy--

lol

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#13 zulaf69
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*PIC*

yeah. make your intentions clear from the begining.

swiftkillz0

Damn, I knew someone wouldn't be able to resist posting the GS girl advice pic :P

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#14 zulaf69
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Well you could try being and @** to her, that way you can never get stuck in the friend zone.

Jacobistheman

Ha i've been pretty nice to her up to now so she'd probably think i'm insane or have split personalities if i started acting like a d-bag now. Btw i think we have the same HDTV *high-five*

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#15 Jacobistheman
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[QUOTE="Jacobistheman"]

Well you could try being and @** to her, that way you can never get stuck in the friend zone.

zulaf69

Ha i've been pretty nice to her up to now so she'd probably think i'm insane or have split personalities if i started acting like a d-bag now. Btw i think we have the same HDTV *high-five*

*high-five* Well, if she thinks you are insane or have split personalities, I don't think she is going to keep you in the friend zone now is the?
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Sure. Why not.
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#17 clembo1990
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Just ask if she wants to hang out at the movies or something on a Saturday.

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Because Saturday is the only time in the week you can see a movie. If you go any other day your name has a black dot put next to it and you are put on the sex-ofender's register.