Decisions decisions

Which of these two upgrade wishlists would be the better to buy?

Seeing as one is 20 some odd dollars more, is it worht the extra $20?

http://www.newegg.com/product/product.asp?item=N82E16813130093

http://www.newegg.com/product/product.asp?item=N82E16819115016

http://www.newegg.com/product/product.asp?item=N82E16820161677

This is the 1st one which costs $370

The second one costs $390 and is as follows (I am still buying the Core 2 Duo 6420)

http://www.newegg.com/product/product.asp?item=N82E16813131090

http://www.newegg.com/product/product.asp?item=N82E16820145527

Any other suggestions would be welcome, thanks in advance

The RAM is awful for that setup. You have to get at least 6400+ for what you are wanting. May be a bit more expensive though...

I would go for the 2nd suggestion hands down.

BTW - You do know that the mobo in the first is a micro mobo? 

Actually, I would recommend neither of them. Both of those mobos are just plain sucky for OCing. If you aren't looking to OC, then its fine to go with the second setup.

I would suggest paying more for this instead:
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16813138039
Biostar TForce P965.
This is arguably the best budget board for Intel right now. A $105(or $90 if you count rebate) is getting you one super OCer, a stable as hell mobo and definitely very solid performance.

The RAM you chose, I would recommend this instead:
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16820134046
Its better than the Wintec or Corsair. Atleast this uses Hynix chips rather than the Wintec and Corsair using Elpida.

So your total cost would come up to $356, without rebates. Being at $356... you basically got yourself a much better setup than what you had listed. It costs a little more, but I can guarantee you that it is worth it.