Please help!! Videocard/Mointor Problems

You all might have seen a couple of my posts on help with building a new computer , well I finally got all the parts a couple of days ago and assembeled it last night. Im almost positive I have done everything properly and made sure I constantly touch a metal object inbetween touchig my hardware to ground myself.

My problem is when I power up my computer the whole thing turns on , My motherboard light is on , my fans and lights are on , my HDD boots up , but my monitor is not displaying the bios. I have already searched topics on this but could not find anything to satisfy my questions.

The sapphire video card has two DVI placements in the back instead of a DVI and a VGA like normal. My monitor (Proview 22 inch LCD) is compatible with both VGA and DVI. (I use my monitor as a screen for my PS3 as well).

I have tried putting both my DVI-HDMI cable into the HDMI to DVI little head connector thing in both DVI slots on the video card with nothing. I have tried using the VGA cable with the VGA-DVI cable on both DVI slotswith nothing as well. I have even used a extremely old monitor with a VGA cabke with the VGA-DVI cabke in both DVI slots as well.

I need help finding out what I can do to fix this , my monitor should be running this and im almost completley positive nothing has short circuited or suffer from static shock. I was incredibly careful and never heard or felt any shocks when I wasl assembling.

Could the video card be booting up in a mode the DVI doesnt read for the bios? Is there a way to change it so my monitor can display the bios so I can install windows?

Im so lost , frustrated and upset. I really hope nothing is wrong and I will have to replace something and its just wire/booting troubles.

Please help me!

(Computer)

Motherboard:ASUS P5Q Pro LGA 775 Intel P45 ATX Intel Motherboard

http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16813131299

CPU: Intel Core 2 Quad Q6600 Kentsfield 2.4GHz 2 x 4MB L2 Cache LGA 775 Quad-Core Processor

http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16819115017

Video Card :

SAPPHIRE 100242-1GL Radeon HD 4850 1GB 256-bit GDDR3 PCI Express 2.0 x16 HDCP Ready CrossFire Supported Video Card

http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16814102759

http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16817159058

HDD: SAMSUNG Spinpoint F1 HD753LJ 750GB 7200 RPM 32MB Cache SATA 3.0Gb/s Hard Drive

http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16822152100

RAM: OCZ Gold 4GB (2 x 2GB) 240-Pin DDR2 SDRAM DDR2 800 (PC2 6400) Dual Channel Kit Desktop Memory

http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16820227199

I don't hear a beep , but the little light is on.

Also my computer has started to boot up , with the lights turning on , but then they shut off for about two seconds then come back on.

If it helps at all , the fans are all working.

His motherboard doesn't have onboard video... Try booting with one stick of RAM. Also make sure you have the 4-pin power cable plugged into the motherboard, and power on the video card if it has one.

If that fails, pull the motherboard out of the case, connect nothing but power and video (no drives, no sound, no etc, and set it on something no conductive, like the foam it was shipped in), and try again. If that doesn't work, something is obviously wrong. Could be your board doesn't like the RAM, or the video card or motherboard is bad.

I tried booting with one stick of ram, and it works! thanks for all the help everyone!

Edit: One last question; what do I do with the other stick of ram now?