@eoten said:
@judaspete said:
Man, this thread is still going.
Look, I usually stay out of the abortion threads because they get real shitty real quick, but I feel like someone needs to say this. Every side of this has a valid point. I'm decidedly pro-choice, but if you consider a fetus a life, or should be protected due to it's potential to become a life, I can repect that. It makes sense. I ultimately don't agree, but I understand why one would see it that way.
I think part of the reason this debate is so vitriolic, is that both sides of it have a solid point, and we don't like that. We want us to be the good guys, and them to be the bad guys. So we burry our misgivings and shout "mysoginist" or "baby killer" at the other guys. Black and white is more comfortable than shades of grey.
I don't know, there's my two cents. Y'all can get back to the dogpile.
There might be solid points on both sides... were abortion the only option to child birth. With dozens of other options, all of which are cheaper and safer, the hyper sensitive focus on abortion itself is looking for a non issue to be divisive over.
That's not really the case. Look, I don't think anyone would argue that abortion should be the first or only option, just that it should be on the table, and the the decision which way to go should be made by the parents and their doctor.
For a specific example, my wife and I decided to abort a pregnancy years ago. She's bipolar, and was on some psychotropics that had the potential to mess up fetal development. Now, this wasn't a sure thing, nothing really is in medicine, but the risk was high enough that we ultimately terminated the pregnancy. It still wasn't an easy decision, and yes, an abortion is traumatic. But it was our call to make, and while I do have my regrets, I think it was the right one.
For another, when my wife was pregnant with our second daughter, her blood pressure spiked at 34 weeks and she had to have an emergency c-section. During the operation she had 16 minor strokes. We were incredibly lucky in that there does not seem to have been any long term brain damage from it, but that was still fucking terrifying. So needless to say, we are done having kids. We are being very careful to make sure she doesn't get pregnant again (in fact I will be getting snipped in the next few months) but nothing is 100% in medicine. If by some chance it does somehow happen, we will abort it. No one is going to tell me otherwise.
My point is, while I do think most states would allow people in our situation to terminate a pregnancy, there are some that probably wouldn't. How much risk to the mother is enough to justify it? That answer will vary from person to person, group to group, state to state. Do they have a risk assessor break it down to a percentage? Do the parents go before a tribunal who makes decisions on a case by case basis? Do they have some political committee compile a list of acceptable situations? Do they just say, let nature run it's course and we'll see what happens?
Having been through it myself, I say the choice is between the parents and their doctor.
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