should i go ps3/pc/wii or stick with pc/360/wii

this is an honest question

and i dont enjoy fps games for consoles much at all

Honestly, between those three, you'll be able to play 90% or more of games released in the next few years.

Unless maybe you wanted to trade one or more in for a PS3, as most 360 games are on PC too

As a hermit you must probably know how unnecessary is a 360 then the logical option is of course the ps3 , great line up , nex gen format, Reliability ( no rings of death nor disc scratching problems :D ), free online and the list of good aspects goes on and on , Play Beyond pal!

Ps: Geez sony should pay me , im a living ps3 advertisement...