Anything on 360 compared to Socom?

I've been trying to find a game comparable to Socom for a few years now and still haven't come up with anything (I'm not getting PS3 anytime soon). The only game that comes close so far is Bad Company. If any of you were die hard Socom fans and know of anything on the 360 that will take care of my "fix", please let me know. I have tried the following games with no avail:

Halo 3
COD4
COD5
FAR CRY 2
Team Fortress
GoW
Pretty much anything "similar" to Halo 3 or any of its clones won't do. There isn't enough room for teamwork and most players only care about their kill/death ratio.

Here is a checklist for what I'm looking for:

-full team chat
-no auto-regen for health
-option of no respawn
-objective based modes (not just DM, team DM and CTF)
-large maps (nothing from any of the above mentioned games were big in my opinion)
-maps with variety within them to allow for differentways to play(including sniping and close quarters combat)
-clan support
-server selection
-vote to kick
-private rooms for clan matches, preferrably with passwords

Thanks for any help. Some friends have mentioned GRAW2 and R6V, so I'm going to check on them.

Rev

i believe your best bet is buying a ps3... nothing on the 360 has a good comparison to socom... i mean the closest you will get is what you said and thats BF:BC

Bad Company or Frontlines but they are fps. I have both and BC is one of the best online game on consoles imo

If i remember right Ghost Recon Advanced Warfighter 2 had a "Socom like" multiplayer setting which was pretty badass. You can get the game cheap used, thats the only thing i can think of..

Thanks for the responses, everyone. (keep em coming if anyone has anymore)

I'm kicking myself in the arse because I returned GRAW 2 and never even tried it online. My friend told me about the "survival" mode which would definitely make it like Socom.

Rev

In addition to GRAW 1 and 2 I would try Rainbow Six Vegas 1 and 2. Just download the demos and try them out.

I would say GRAW 2 is your best bet. I haven't played it in a long time but last time i did there was still alot of people playing it online even though it came out i think almost 2 years ago.