Jerks ruined gaming for my girlfriend

Today while gaming online on halo with my girlfriend we got matched with two people who were "jerks", they started t-bagging my g/f and ganging up on her even though they were all on the same team....tbh my g/f has got used to this kinda thing online but then things got worse....

After the match they sent me and my g/f very bad meassages... some really nasty stuff... she was so upset by what they said shes now desided not to game online anymore.... I'm a huge gamer and so is she but because of evil nasty people like who we bumped into today its ruined it for my g/f because she now thinks everyone is a jerk....i think this is such a shame as its people like that, that stop girls from gaming.....

People who go online and then ask girls "do you like sex" or i wont to....(you can imagin the rest...) these kinda people need to be banned of something....

Do you guys have any storys like this or any thoughts on this subject because i'd love to hear them

That's why you don't play Halo..

U have a good point there

Not playing a game you enjoy becasue of people who abuse another player isn't the solution. People (not only girls) go through this everyday on Xbox live and the only thing you can really do is file a complaint and give them bad rep.

Sorry about your girlfriend, hopefully she gets back into it all again.

Halo is a great game but most people who play it are under-aged noobs.

Sorry for your girlfriend :)

Today while gaming online on halo with my girlfriend we got matched with two people who were "jerks", they started t-bagging my g/f and ganging up on her even though they were all on the same team....tbh my g/f has got used to this kinda thing online but then things got worse....

After the match they sent me and my g/f very bad meassages... some really nasty stuff... she was so upset by what they said shes now desided not to game online anymore.... I'm a huge gamer and so is she but because of evil nasty people like who we bumped into today its ruined it for my g/f because she now thinks everyone is a jerk....i think this is such a shame as its people like that, that stop girls from gaming.....

People who go online and then ask girls "do you like sex" or i wont to....(you can imagin the rest...) these kinda people need to be banned of something....

Do you guys have any storys like this or any thoughts on this subject because i'd love to hear them

corb77

Thing is my g/f had a "bad" childhood....if you know what i mean and some of the things they said really hit a spot with my g/f....it really upset her, thing is we didnt talk to anyone else in the match they just singled her out because she has a girls name as her gamer tag...

Plus normaly shes good at shaking it off but the things these guys were saying was awful...

i told her to shke it off and not worrie i hope she games again

this is the reason i stopped playing halo.now i play call of duty waw but when i play halo 3 i just go into a party chat with my friends and just talk so i dont hear all the nonsense on halo.sorry about ur gf but u cant really stop it but u can send a file complaint.hope ur gf goes back to gaming and if not just try a different game.

no offence to your girlfriend.. i mean those guys sound like dicks and all, but how could you get upset at people saying things like "do you like sex?"

your girlfriend needs to man up a little

imlolmon

You should probably reread that statement.

Party chat, Don't tell them she is a "she", Delete the messages form random people don't read them I mean if they were being d***** in the game why read a message from them.

This is typical for Halo. When you hear these kinds of stories, they're almost always from Halo.

thing is halo lets you have "guest" so we can have split screen online thats the biggist reson why we play halo

Sexualy repressed adolecents

or adults living in their parents basements

probably more of the latter

Thing is my g/f had a "bad" childhood....if you know what i mean and some of the things they said really hit a spot with my g/f....it really upset her, thing is we didnt talk to anyone else in the match they just singled her out because she has a girls name as her gamer tag...

Plus normaly shes good at shaking it off but the things these guys were saying was awful...

i told her to shke it off and not worrie i hope she games again

corb77

That's why you don't play Halo..

Darkslayer16

We did block them in the end....its just cr@p that she had to put up with people like that

Today while gaming online on halo with my girlfriend we got matched with two people who were "jerks", they started t-bagging my g/f and ganging up on her even though they were all on the same team....tbh my g/f has got used to this kinda thing online but then things got worse....

After the match they sent me and my g/f very bad meassages... some really nasty stuff... she was so upset by what they said shes now desided not to game online anymore.... I'm a huge gamer and so is she but because of evil nasty people like who we bumped into today its ruined it for my g/f because she now thinks everyone is a jerk....i think this is such a shame as its people like that, that stop girls from gaming.....

People who go online and then ask girls "do you like sex" or i wont to....(you can imagin the rest...) these kinda people need to be banned of something....

Do you guys have any storys like this or any thoughts on this subject because i'd love to hear them

corb77

Tell your girlfriend that she should set-up blog or something to find girlgamers like herself to game with. She shouldn't let A-holes like the ruin her gaming experience...as a matter of fact you should start-up a blog on this site explaining what happened. But make sure it's real chicks who respond!!! lol

[QUOTE="imlolmon"]

no offence to your girlfriend.. i mean those guys sound like dicks and all, but how could you get upset at people saying things like "do you like sex?"

your girlfriend needs to man up a little

ParisHilton1Fan

You should probably reread that statement.

lol, nah i know what i said.

Some guys are so mean and such goofs its ridicolous online. Most just dont know how to interact with females imo and they just act out to "look cool". Some of my favorite friends to game with are girls, i dont see why some dudes are so rude and mean.

Just let her know that not all gamers are that way, you just see alot of them online in games like cod4 adn halo3 imo. That just represents a small portion of gamers though. You and her should get some mature people on yoru friends list to play with, then you know they wont curse you and your girlfriend.

Thing is my g/f had a "bad" childhood....if you know what i mean and some of the things they said really hit a spot with my g/f....it really upset her, thing is we didnt talk to anyone else in the match they just singled her out because she has a girls name as her gamer tag...

Plus normaly shes good at shaking it off but the things these guys were saying was awful...

i told her to shke it off and not worrie i hope she games again

corb77

This is why I usually go to a party chat when I play online or I just don't turn my mic on. You gotta find the right games to play.DoMiNiC147

i never use my mic, i actually dont have it anymore. i just ignore people on LIVE.

Everyone is nasty to everyone on xbl or psn, male or female, just suck it up and tell her to either fire back with something biting and intelligent (usually works), or just block them.

Have to admit you lot are putting the faith back into gamers for me :)

That's why you don't play Halo..

Darkslayer16

Play in party chat.

tell her to get over it? ignore idiots. its quite simple.

You guys have an option of not using the mic. Most people have their mic but put it on mute & when someone is talking crap most people just remove their headsets. I find it weird that some people really get into talking with some online people who they don't even know. If we were talking about the game were playing & how to play better as a team then that's the only time I would use the mic & headset. Women get teabaged too in real life it's just up to her how she deals with it. Running away is the cowardly solution. If a small thing about a game online bothers her so much then how would she react in real life against jerks run away too. They will just continue being jerks unless she stands up for herself.

That's why you don't play Halo..

Darkslayer16

i can help you with your problem in 2 very important simple words: SELL HALO

[QUOTE="Darkslayer16"]

That's why you don't play Halo..

BLBxLakers24

Play in party chat.

yeah, it's really sad some of the trash that plays xboxlive.

i've never played a game that a girl was in without all of the guys harrassing her.

it's never like that for guys though.

very dumb how kids and adults on the internet have to act like "WildaBeasts" rofl

yeah, it's really sad some of the trash that plays xboxlive.

i've never played a game that a girl was in without all of the guys harrassing her.

it's never like that for guys though.

very dumb how kids and adults on the internet have to act like "WildaBeasts" rofl

[QUOTE="Firex777x"]

yeah, it's really sad some of the trash that plays xboxlive.

i've never played a game that a girl was in without all of the guys harrassing her.

it's never like that for guys though.

very dumb how kids and adults on the internet have to act like "WildaBeasts" rofl

RAMRODtheMASTER

tbh my g/f is a bit of a badass on games lol :)

Sorry to hear about your bad experience. This is the main reason why I don't use a headset mic when I play online games. Not just for Halo, but any game on Xbox Live in general. I understand your gf might be senistive, but she should still not take it personal and relise that it's just a bunch of stupid kids with no lives. Xbox Live is notirously known for this.

You should do what I do and just use a mic when you play with friends, and you won't have any problems..

PS - Sorry for my bad grammer

Theres no doubt that this happens alot. I've recieved my fair share of harressment. It's best to ignore the idiots. Don't let them ruin a game (or gaming) for you. Tell her do what I do. Keep in mind, alot of these guys have never/will never, have contact with a real female. With that in mind, don't take it personal. They're just a couple of losers with nothing better to do. Toughen up!

Im not gonna baby her but dude the world isn't a nice place, get use to that. I'm guessing they were some dumb kids, she needs to get over 2 kids and game again. Dont let other people ruin it for you or her for that matter. She could man up a little and trash talk them back with some classic" is this how you expect to pick up girls? no wonder your online with another guy" See what happens :DKokuro_Kun

just send them rep for what theyve done, and block communications. its that simple. dont let the virus that they are shapeyour world into thier evil. it saddens me to see people treat the jewels of this world with such disrespect. I enjoy talking to girls over xbl and its just stupid that people get other people to change the course of thier lives (not just in video games, but every aspect) by mistreating them. luckly there is that solution of blocking communications and just dont let them win by becoming a quitter over it. its really nothing when you play regularly with a cool group of people anyways. good friends overshadow the morons any day.

Today while gaming online on halo with my girlfriend we got matched with two people who were "jerks", they started t-bagging my g/f and ganging up on her even though they were all on the same team....tbh my g/f has got used to this kinda thing online but then things got worse....

After the match they sent me and my g/f very bad meassages... some really nasty stuff... she was so upset by what they said shes now desided not to game online anymore.... I'm a huge gamer and so is she but because of evil nasty people like who we bumped into today its ruined it for my g/f because she now thinks everyone is a jerk....i think this is such a shame as its people like that, that stop girls from gaming.....

People who go online and then ask girls "do you like sex" or i wont to....(you can imagin the rest...) these kinda people need to be banned of something....

Do you guys have any storys like this or any thoughts on this subject because i'd love to hear them

corb77

I play Halo alot, but I really hate most of the community for doing that.

Honestly, man, if you enjoy Halo and want her to get in on it just get a lot of nice dudes to play customs.

Customs is Halo.

Both my wife and my friend (girl) have had alot of stuff said to them. My wife laughs it off because she knows they are just kids. My friend has alot of great comebacks that usually shuts them up.It helps that they are both very good at Halo. I guess it is todays equivalent to the prank phone call. Being anonymous has made young kids into some real jerks. All you can do is give feedback. I just wish there was a way that good ppl had more weight in banning/reporting ppl. because it seems to take alot to get banned. I am gratefull for games that let you quickly mute ppl too. BaconB1ts123

I got my wife playing GOW2 with me and she was beginning to like it, until the matches would end or people would lay in with the OMG, it's a gurl playing Gears--are you hottttt????? I wanna F$)* you, lol. These people are at the bottom of the todem pole, haha. Too bad she will never be playing Gears with me again. All thanks to 15 year old little boys with a 4 inch hard on. Excuse my language and all, but seriously, how do these kids expect to make a living in the real world one day????????????????????