wireless earpiece help wont connect to profile 1 always connects to profile 2

my wireless earpiece wont connect to my gamertag so when i speak it shows my friends gamertag talking but now it wont work unless there are 2 gamertags and it only connects to my friends gamertag

can someone tell me how i can set it up so it works with my gamertag iv lost the instructions 

even when im the only one playing the xbox it wont connect to my gamertag  

my wireless earpiece wont connect to my gamertag so when i speak it shows my friends gamertag talking but now it wont work unless there are 2 gamertags and it only connects to my friends gamertag

can someone tell me how i can set it up so it works with my gamertag iv lost the instructions

even when im the only one playing the xbox it wont connect to my gamertag

katarot

Turn on your 360 without having a controller on.  Then sync up your headset.  Then turn on your first player controller.  Should work.

Turn on your 360 without having a controller on.  Then sync up your headset.  Then turn on your first player controller.  Should work.

RiverDan