I have a best friend who I have known since 2nd grade and of course we're much much older now but sometimes I wonder what is the problem.
I have always tried to be the supportive best friend and she would do the same for me. If ever she has a problem or if she wants to talk about guys (bums that still live with there mom, don't have a job, or a car and still play video games) then I listen. If I have a problem she'll try to give me some advice which is my choice to either take or not.
There are times this woman will get down right pissed at me if i don't take her advice and then she'll throw it back in my face if something goes wrong which isn't all the time just 1 or 2 times. Then she'll say I wouldn't be a friend if i didn't effin care! cursing at me over something that isn't a huge issue. But when I tell her (someone who has never had a job in her life except for 2 jobs she quit in one day because she cracked under pressure and don't want handle money because she's afraid people will yell at her) to get a Job, that I would be more than willing to drive her there until she saves money to get a car and get her own place. She gets an attitude. When i tell her that her family can't support her forever , again attitude. It's like talking to a brick wall. So then she will end everything with we need to end this converation before we not talk to each other anymore.
But if i didn't say anything wouldn't that not make me a good friend. I don't get mad when she tells me something about myself or my habits that I even admit to myself sometimes that i have to change. It's weird and sometimes i just feel like maybe we need a little more space.
Sometimes she even act so much like a 'clingy' woman.I mean yesss I'm a female but I have more guys friend than women because , think about this, Guys get girl -friends and they still hang out with there friends and talk to them you know life still continues.
But for a some reason the women friends I have incountered seem to get whipped so easily when they get a man I mean the friend that was once calling you all the time and hanging out with you going shopping or just whatever, when the girl suddenly gets a man ...............everything stops. You don't here from them in MONTHS. Seriously. I have a husband and even he see's what i'm talking about. It's like you were never their friend, they don't have time for you when you call, and their just to busy with their man (Probably busy sitting on the couch watching him play video games running her fingers through his hair while drewl falls out her mouth) but when something goes wrong in the relationship or god forbid the guy break up with her , suddenly she know my number and where i live.
I dislike that about some women. I don't like when women make a guy their entire world and forget their family and friends. Then when some thing goes wrong... you suddenly remember who was there for you when you had no man.
Log in to comment