Losing Someone When we love someone, we never easily give up on
that person. Even if we get hurt badly we always
try to find a way to ease the pain and learn to
understand and forgive. Loving too much doesn't
hurt. It is when we expect this love to be
reciprocated that we begin to seek approval and
acceptance of the things we have done and when
we are taken for granted and rejected, we curse
the very same love that we once freely and happily
offered. "DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME WAITING FOR
SOMEONE WHO NEVER REALLY CARED ABOUT
HOW YOU WOULD HAVE FELT. OPEN YOUR HEART
AGAIN AND GIVE YOUR SELF THE CHANCE TO
FIND THE MAN WHO WOULD MAKE LOVING WORTH
THE PAIN AND THE SACRIFICE".
Just like anything else, our love grows weak and
dies if not taken cared of. It can keep up with pain
only to a certain extent. Beyond that, it withers
without any hope of recovery and soon dies. "GOD
WAKES US UP IN THE MIDST OF A STORM TO
TEACH US A LESSON. HE TAKES AWAY PEOPLE WE
LOVE, SO WE CAN LEARN TO VALUE LOVE ITSELF.
HE MAKES US CRY SO HARD SO WE CAN SEE
CLEARLY WHEN WE OPEN OUR EYES. HE MAKES US
BITTER SO WE CAN REALIZE THAT THERE IS NO
GENUINE HAPPINESS IF WE THINK ONLY OF OUR
NEEDS AND NOT OF OTHERS."
Relationships built on JEALOUSY and SELFISHNESS
are doomed from the very beginning. The
HARDEST PART of losing love is LETTING GO and
MOVING ON. Most of us cry endlessly over things
that could have been but never will be.
"God allows us to EXPERIENCE PAIN to make us
STRONGER and BETTER PERSONS. He will see us
through the most trying and difficult times in our
lives and only if we put our trust in Him can we
learn to FIND JOY in our TEARS and HAPPINESS in
our SORROWS." In many failed relationships,
separation comes as the inevitable choice but
moving on always proves to be twice as difficult as
letting go. Sometimes, the end of a relationship is
imposed on us, but our choice to hold on is always
beyond the control of circumstance. Letting go is a
DECISION that can never be dictated on us. It is a
resolution we make to ourselves. Acceptance is
the key to a new beginning and Time is the healer
of all wounds. Even if the storm casts its fearful
shadow, there will always be light after our
darkness and loneliest moments.
There is always a hope for those who believe.
There is always a chance for those who
try. "LOSING SOMEONE WE LOVE MAY NOT BE A
LOSS AT ALL BUT A BLESSING BECAUSE SOMEONE
EVEN MORE DESERVING IS YET TO COME."
There is nothing wrong in expressing our feelings to
someone we love, but "WE MUST ALWAYS BE
SENSITIVE TO THE SIGNALS THAT TELL US WHEN
TO RATIONALIZE AND BE SENSIBLE. "There comes
a time in our lives when we would fall for someone
who wouldn't be as interested as we are because
his attention is focused on someone else. There are
MANY TIMES WHEN WE LOVE BUT DON'T GET
LOVED IN RETURN. "THERE ARE TIMES WHEN THE
SIGN AHEAD SAYS STOP BUT WE STILL
STUBBORNLY HEAD ON. "We would say our love is
unconditional. But if it really is, then we should
never feel bad. But why do we get frustrated when
love turns sour? Because we still subconsciously
seek acceptance and assurance from the people we
care about.
"BEING IN LOVE CAN BE THE MOST WONDERFUL
THING WE COULD EXPERIENCE BUT IF THE
FEELING BEGINS TO CONSUME OUR WHOLE
BEINGS, THEN WE HAVE TO STOP AND LET
OUR MINDS AND NOT OUR HEARTS DICTATE
OUR ACTIONS. ONLY WHEN WE LEARN TO
ACCEPT OUR FATE AND UNDERSTAND THE
MEANING OF OUR FAILURES CAN WE TRULY
GO ON WITH LIFE WITH OUT HAVING TO LOOK
BACK AND CRY OVER THE THINGS THAT
COULD HAVE BEEN BUT WILL NEVER BE..
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