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Well I never!

A certain board, whose name is of no importance, just completely shunned me in a sense. They modded me twice for giving a final reply to a topic. A certain user, whose name is also of no importance, outright told me that I don't fit in and don't belong. I gave a reply to that stating my departure of that board solely because of his atrocious manner, but then was modded by another user who was a moderator saying that I just need to let things go. So I swallowed my pride and responded one last time to the mod's reply and I look back and I was that was also deleted and he once again told me to let things go coerced me by saying if I didn't, I'd be banned. Funnily enough, it was all in one topic and my final say in that topic (prior to all THIS) was my last one concerning the topic, and I believe I clearly stated well in that post that I would discuss the topic no more (I was arguing with another user). Then the first person I mentioned told me that I need to stop bringing it up, and then the drama began. But whatever, and don't ask me what board or who these two were, because it's frankly no one's business but my own. But never have I seen such segregation and hierarchy in a UCB. Truly appalling.

Also, please don't think that I'm not a forgiving person either, but I wouldn't accept the first one's apology (even though I doubt he'd lower himself to apologize). I wouldn't because I know he wouldn't mean it. He'd only say it because he was coerced into doing so, or feel it obligatory to apologize, thus losing any sincerity. I almost always forgive someone if they do or say something to me that's offensive. I can instantly tell by the way the person did or said such action, if they apologized, whether or not they would ever give me a sincere apology. If I know they could or if I knew it wasn't worth getting so upset over, my opinion of them would not change. If I know they couldn't and it was very offensive to me, then to quote Mr. Darcy: "My good opinion once lost is lost forever."