I almost have the same problem as you, I can't stop thinking about this girl at my school. We hold hands in the hallways and she sometimes acts like we are going out to her friends. Now believe me I want to ask this girl out, be according to my friends she likes some other guy. I don't get her at all, she flirts with me all the time I don't know how she doesn't like me. I guess women are just like that though.
REA24409
If your as comfortable as holding hands with her in public, but yet can't ask her out, you have failed hard my friend.
Haha, thanks for the encouragement :lol:
yeah that is werid...but you should find out from the girl firsthand see what she says
Very normal especially for a first timer which you sound like. So when you see her next time maybe just simply ask her for her number and text her every once in awhile and then in school follow it up with a whats up and ask her something about the class. Do this for about two weeks and then in class on a friday just ask her whats she doing that weekend and shell probably say nothing then be like well if we both arnt busy we should catch a movie or something.
When you tell her that she was "a waste of four months of my life" the chances she will ever contemplate coming back to you are practically non-existent. You can't get away with that kind of insult and have a successful relationship with that person again. Even apologizing won't help the situation any... you really don't deserve forgiveness for such a comment.
Hopefully this will be a good lesson to you and teach you not to open your mouth unless you are sure you mean it. And on top of that, keep it shut when you know it will hurt the other person's feelings. What you have to learn that in a serious relationship, the other person comes first, not you.
foxhound_fox
in my defence i treated her really good throughout the relationship and she never really did to me. Actully she was pretty mean
Like i broke up with her because i thought something happend and it actully didnt but i didnt find that out untill after i broke up with her. Yesterday it started to sound like maybe she would take me back but today she told me to leave her alone when i first texted her. So i fliped out and said she was a waste of 4 months of my life and she would never be the girl i wanted her to be (yeah i know that puts me pretty far down in a hole). Anyways i just really want her back and i know thats hard to understand after what i just said.
not very..i mean im open to the idea of god i just dont really believe in any of the ideas that all relgions support...im the type who has to see to believe
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