No nothing pornographic or anything like that but something to make you drama queens out there think a little ;) its been a long time since I wrote a blog so I thought I might as well put something down for the lulz, you ready? OK here goes.
OK so this friend of mine was after this girl (for around 6 months) so i decided to do him a favor and make a few arrangements, I decided to invite him and her and her friend (who I was intrested in but didn't show up and well....thats another story) to a house party a friend of mine was hosting, invite a girl you like to a party full of strangers, because she knows you best in the patry she will hang around with you the most, pretty neat trick right? ;)
So while I was wolling at my dissapointment (Oh why didn't she come! sure I had her number buyt come on why?! :cry: ) my friend was getting along well with the girl, in fact so well he could have nailed her, at some point they were both locked up in a room in the dark, the girl was sitting on top of my friend and was basically giving off signals to go, however my friend refused, why? you ask? well his reason was because I quote "She was drunk and I did not want to abuse her" of course I understood "I was a **** and cowarded away because I was not confident I would pull it off"
you think thats the end of it? hohoho it gets better
So they both went home (ALONE) and my friend escorted her back to her place, they were both at the door step, they said goodbye, as my friend was about to walk away the girl then said "It looks pretty cold, you could stay if you want.." at which my friend replies "Its OK I can take the cold and I wouldn't want to bother you, bye!"
its been 4 months since that epic fail of a night and my friend went and met her again and confeced that she liked her, of which she responded ".........yeah, I'm not sure....I don't know you well enough, so I would like to take my time to get to know you" then my friend responds "OK! :)"
My sympathetic side is telling me that he could make it, my rational and reasonable side on the other hand is telling me his success rate is now currently on 00.01%. I think its safe to say at this point the girl has no romantic intrest in him, which sucks for him but thats not the point of this blog.
So as for the scenario,
if you were my friend right now, and the girl you like has a great intrest in one of his friends (BEFORE YOU SAY ANYTHING NO ITS NOT ME! :x) and your friend is also quite intrested in this girl, by then you would most likely have figured out she has no intrest in you and just wants to be friends,
with that in mind how would you take this situation? would you accept that your friend is dating the girl you have been going after for almost a year? or would you hate him for the rest of your life?
Pretty scary situation right? :o