She is dating me so other guys would leave her alone,she even tells me herself.I am not sure if she even knows that she told me.But the way i hear it she is using me.Your 2 cents was a good entry,thanks.
[QUOTE="linkin_guy109"]first of all....breaking up with her would break her, it owuld cause her to become an emotional mess, and do you really want to give your family the pleasure of being able to think "good she didnt deserve him anyways" ? if you want to stay with her then stay with her, but if you truelly think that shes not right for you then lay down the most hated line by everyone "i am gayteh_destroyer
thats what i am afraid of,i am afraid if i break up with her she would commit suicide.I don't know if i want to stay with her because she has become more of annoying pest than a friend recently.I am not worried about my family,I just don't like being used.
If you think you are being used then you should get out. No one deserves that in a relationship and you have to understand anything she does is not your fault. Trust me I just got out of a similar situation. If you think you can handle it for a while then be the support she obviously needs. If not then it's not a huge deal because you are just dating and that's a burden you shouldn't have to carry.
TC I just want to say I feel very similar to you right now.
Even though I didn't think my ex and I were going to end up married or anything I really cared about her. Thiswas about a month ago and a week after we broke up she started seeing someone else. I've felt a lot of things that still cause me to go crazy sometimes.
It's been really exciting to see God in moving in this life in this time of my life. I feel closer to him now than I ever have and It's so great and exciting.
It's encouraging to hear God works in our lives even in some of our lowest points
Just tell the guy to talk to some of his other friends more. I'm sure he has more than one woman he knows whom could give him advice on the ladyfolk. :P
Just try to be cool about it. Know what I mean? Just explain it's weirding you out a bit. At least that's what I would probably do.
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