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my friend is having a baby

she is a friend i haven't blogged about. i haven't seen "sanda" since sometime before the end of the fall 2006 semester. i  thought she might have transfered already since many ppl i know are already planning to transfer or already have. sanda is someone i have known all my life. i've known her since the 4th grade and attened middle, high school, and now college with. this came as a total surprise to me. get this is...she is already 6 MONTHS PREGNANT. complete surprise. i was coming out of the history building when i saw her walking to the parking lot a block away. whts more, i thought sanda would have more common sense. or maybe it's because she been dating boys since she was in the 5th or 6th grade. i always thought she was marry a lawyer or doc, became a pampered house wife, have 3 girls and a boy. they'd all wear nice clothes and drive nice cars. but i dont know about that now. i hope sanda can make the right desions in the upcoming monthes.

this is the conversation.

sanda: marie? i didn't recognize you. i thought it was you since you never wear your hair down.

me *hairy mop covering my face*: sanda! :D

sanda: how are you?

me: fine and you. want to join the cheerleaders?

sanda: O__O you cant be serious?

me: yes! ^_^ it will be fun.

sanda: i'm so sure...i dont have time. :(

me: but you can still join

sanda: i'm having a baby.

me: what? no way!

sanda: yes. 6 monthes *pokes stomach*

me: boy or girl? what? when did this happen!? wtf

sanda: yes. what do u when did this happen?

me: no...i dident know!

sanda: everyone knows! ppl i dont know, know!

me: O-O i dident! you having a baby shower?

sanda: maybe...i dont know

me: do you have a name?

sanda: i dont know...

me: u should have a baby shower. if you do, i'll bring you a gift.

sanda: ok.

me: name your kid "tom paris" not tom cruise, tom paris!

sanda: O__O ok....

me: no really have a baby shower

sanda: maybe...i have your number

*me hugs sanda twice n say that i love her*

>.> imagine... lil tom paris maldonado...no kid should be named paris! lol!

anyways, if sanda doesnt have a baby shower, i'll bring her some gifts. but i dont know she is planning on keeping the kid. i was afraid to ask who the father is. plus is that also private info and should never be asked. if she does decide to keep the kid n have a shower, i'll make my way to the local factory2u (hey, i'm broke & she needs galore of stuff). i'll buy one of those bottle money bank thingies with the bib, bottle, rattle, etc, in spock's fav. color, blue and a stuffed animal of some sort. knowing me, it will be a bird or a maybe a horse. ;) um..should i get sanda something? like a night gown thingie? or slippers? earings? dieapers? SUGGESTIONS WILL BE HELPFUL!

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cheerleading pains coming to tomarrow.

ps.  thankyou for all the kind things you ppl must on my blogs. :) love you all.