[QUOTE="Gorbichov"]

[QUOTE="southy787"]Not being mean, but it doesn't sound like you have a chance with either of them :| I think they just want to be your friend...southy787

hmm...

i think you've missed something vitally important out somewhere

It isn't like those two are his only option.

He's given us a scenario (as in: out of these two who is better), and if you had read it correctly you might have realised he, presumably, has little problem attracting females

Not being mean, but it doesn't sound like you have a chance with either of them :| I think they just want to be your friend...southy787

hmm...

i think you've missed something vitally important out somewhere

[QUOTE="Gorbichov"][QUOTE="zeus_gb"]

It's a hard decision. Kat sounds like she has more in common with you but girls at that age are really immature and Cindy sounds like she just wants some fun. I suppose it depends on what you want from it, relationship or just fun.

No one is called exclusivity, have a few dates with each and then make up your mind.

AnubisCraig

right...

plenty of girls my age aren't immature, that's generally the sort of thing you leave behind when you start doing GCSEs...

The thing is, the more in common you have with a girl, the more likely you'll be able to get a long-term relationship to work, and considering the smaller age gap a relationship with Kat is less likely to be awkward too.

Oddly enough though Craig, i do agree with what your parents have said about Cindy, i think that her being ten years or so older, and not telling you her intentions, means you could just being a pawn in whatever game she is playing. I mean, that would be fine if you don't mind being messed around a bit, but in the end the choice is up to you

If worst comes to worst, I am moving quite far away in two weeks... I should probably tell Kat about that....

but not Cindy?

It's a hard decision. Kat sounds like she has more in common with you but girls at that age are really immature and Cindy sounds like she just wants some fun. I suppose it depends on what you want from it, relationship or just fun.

No one is called exclusivity, have a few dates with each and then make up your mind.

zeus_gb

right...

plenty of girls my age aren't immature, that's generally the sort of thing you leave behind when you start doing GCSEs...

The thing is, the more in common you have with a girl, the more likely you'll be able to get a long-term relationship to work, and considering the smaller age gap a relationship with Kat is less likely to be awkward too.

Oddly enough though Craig, i do agree with what your parents have said about Cindy, i think that her being ten years or so older, and not telling you her intentions, means you could just being a pawn in whatever game she is playing. I mean, that would be fine if you don't mind being messed around a bit, but in the end the choice is up to you

tbh Craig, i think you should go for whoever you think you share the most common ground with...

but also, you need to think about which one you'll get on better with, both as an item and as just being friends.

Therefore, in that respect, i think you ought to get to know Kat a little better first, so that you are in a more informed position.

That means that you may need to put plans with Cindy on hold, so you'd need to come up with a good reason/excuse for doing so...

[QUOTE="Gorbichov"]*sighs* chat-up lines don't work. It is better to learn the person insteadgamingqueen

Yeah especially when you look bad :lol: XD