Okay I've come to the conclusion I just can't multi-game, it makes me feel gritty.
I was playing on Mass Effect, The Last Remnant, Fable 2 and Hitman. It just dosn't work. When I play a game, I try to get as much into the game as possible (visit websites, read forums and just basically do everything) following multi games somehow depresses me. So I've desided to start again with my collection.
I had to set up a new psn due to me breaking my account somehow?!
My new psn is : DIBM (add me if you want)
I've started again on Oblivion and ill play the damn thing till 100% if it kills me, I've always wanted to get 100% on this and never found the time. I also play FIFA but thats understandable.