You now after about of year of this is think it's time this be said.
You cant trust gamers. They have no morals or respect for their fellow gamer.
After a year of this i noticed that gamers are selfish, rude, impatient and so on.
It started with bioshock 2. Poeple where looking to boost and i wanted to get 1 trophy out of the so i can platinum. I offered to help a bunch of people. We all agreed on a time and day, but then they would go and play it with other people who where on at the time. I always got well i want the trophy now i know we all agreed to this time but i found a new group of people to play with or when i was playing these people let me join them. They would leave the others out to dry.
We were just short 1 and i told the others i would find another person as soon as i did another person got impatient and left or decided to quit playing. it was a never ending cycle of finding someone to replace someone who left just to have another leave. I finally gave up on bioshock 2 did it the long and hard way and didnt bother to look for people on that game.
My other complaint is people not being courteous. I would ask them when they could play and set up times to accommodate them and they would show up on time or at all. Always i had something to do or something came up. You know its not that hard to get on and say hey i dont know if i can make it if i'm on we will play if not lets do it another day. I find myself waiting for them for 30 mintues to hour before i just left. An adult would informer people of things and not keep people waiting. This happened to me in another game where i worked around some guy he said i can play this day and time. When the time came he was playing a different game and didnt even bother to respond to my messages about playing. Then 1-2 hours later he's like ok i'm ready to play lets play.
Or you get those people who use the old line i have a life and a girlfriend which A everyone has a life it's called living for a reason. The only difference if what you do in and with your life. B we know that 97% of those who say that dont have girlfriends or a wife.
But what set me off is i was going to do dead rising 2 co-op with someone today. I invite him into a chat to go over what we will do in the first run and while i was looking at the guide he left the chat and deleted me from friends list right as he started playing with someone else.
You know i can understand being impatient when someone says they want to join but only plays once a week or less or is in a different time zone and you can't play together. Causes its hard to wait on them, but when someone accommodates to your schedule and you do that. Well that i dont get.
With trophies and achievements it's made gamers to impatient and i think it's hard to find reliable, responsible, mature, curteous (well you get the point) gamers.