maybe funny question but atm i have not many freinds whereas i always had lots of freinds and was popular etc.
So the normal situation at this age is to settle down with a partner BUT i always feel its not what i want as in id rather be hangin gout with mates etc, having the committed relationship makes me feel somewhat trapped so i chose to be single and free...but now with all my freedom i dont have much to do anyway ironically, yet i cant commit as i still feel its stealing the life i want yet i cant really get that life anyway if u understand? which is being young and crashing parties, gaming all night with bros, going out playing football etc...that life seems to be gone sadly and id prefer that life than the boring live with partner life...so atm im just chillin alone.
Essentially when you commit to someone else you will be giving up with some of the things you like doing.
Want to just go out for a nice bike ride on a whim as a single guy sure np. Living with girlfriend/wife. Hey I'm going out for a bike ride. Her.. "Why ? Don't you want to do something with me ? OH so I have to stay home and do everything now ?"
Hey its a nice day I'll go checkout the mall maybe look at some t-shirts. Walk in & out in an hour spend maybe 50 bucks. With girlfriend/wife. Ok.. I've got what what I want lets go. Her... "No I just wanna goto one more store theres something I need." 40 min later. Ok we done yet ? Her "Oh wait just one more store over there I saw something I wanted." Look I'm tired I don't wanna waste my saturday in the mall. Her, "OMG why are you being such a grouch can't I do anything with you !?" Leaves mall after 4 hours and 200 dollars later.
Enjoy it while you can.
Watch your married buddies will start to envy your freedom. Stay single, save money, do what you like until you feel its time and find the right person. Don't rush into it. All these fucking idiots who marry the same person they dated from highschool will break up. You need to sample the dishes see whats out there. If you don't later on in life your wife will want to and leave you. I've seen it happen.
Indeed my good man, indeed (especially that last part).
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