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#1 NKM_Atomsk
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I believe doctors can use injected local anesthetic for an infant circumcision. I would insist on it for my son's circumcision.

MathMattS


Well, there is the option to use a dorsal penile nerve block, which's injection is already painful in itself, plus it needs a couple of hours to fully work. But still, that only helps for that one day, what about the week or two that the wound needs to heal? I agree it's far less traumatizing like this, but you can't make it completely painless either way.

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#2 NKM_Atomsk
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You know what, tenaka2? You are right. I got sidetracked here and apologize for that.
I can not disprove your studies.

I believe there is a reason to doubt their significants due to not being double-blind and only barely passing the requirements for a proper randomized controlled trial. But at the end of the day, I can't disprove them, and even if I could it would be ones words against another's.

In any case those facts aren't relevant to this thread I believe.

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#3 NKM_Atomsk
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not going to fault you for arguing with people who will not change their view on anything no matter what, because i get caught in those conversations sometimes, but it might be time to walk away and let the evidence you have presented speak for its self... unless youre having fun, then go for it.

surrealnumber5


Nah, don't worry about it. Was just passing by and noticed that nobody properly shot that argument of his down. The entire study is flawed to the point of uselessness and simply contradicted by reality. Just wanted to set that straight. ^^"



But for a male is not and is hetro why the interest in other guys bodies?

Unless of course there is a religious reason for this that people are not voicing?

tenaka2


No, religion has nothing to do with that. To me the interest simply comes from my dear friends who are circumcised and who stated their honest feelings about it to me in those usual "late-night-what-the-hell-am-I-even-talking-about-here"-conversations you have on messager services.
You mentioned lasting "very very long" correct? An acquaintance of mine stated a similar thing. He received what is known as a "radical circumcision", which means that his glans is the last erogenous point he has left, everything else was cut away. He has already trouble reaching orgasm now in his 20s, in like 30 years when the nerveendings in his body have started to decay through aging he may reach the point where he has too little feeling left to achieve that anymore. Obviously I didn't go into any detail on that since I didn't want to hurt his feelings.
I'm simply worried about him, and concerned that in this day and age people are still vouching for this important decision about ones sexlife to not be in the hand of the owner of said body, but somebody else. It just rubs me the wrong way.

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#4 NKM_Atomsk
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http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0140673607603122

Male circumcision significantly reduces the risk of HIV acquisition in young men in Africa. Where appropriate, voluntary, safe, and affordable circumcision services should be integrated with other HIV preventive interventions and provided as expeditiously as possible.

http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0140673607603134

Male circumcision reduced HIV incidence in men without behavioural disinhibition. Circumcision can be recommended for HIV prevention in men.

tenaka2


May I add that said study actually had a second part, which was supposed to proof that women were also less likely to get aids from a HIV positive partner if he's circumcised. But when the data was pointing towards women actually 50% more likely to contract Aids from those partners the study was stopped early due to being unethical. ^^"
Science at it's best.

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/8154134.stm

To quote the president of Uganda, Yoweri Museveni, in who's country said study was performed among others:

"If male circumcision was the answer to HIV prevention, then Ugandans who conduct circumcision as a traditional belief or a religious practice would not contract the disease."

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#5 NKM_Atomsk
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If I have a son someday and have him circumcised, I would insist on anesthesia for him. I wouldn't let them do it without anesthesia.

MathMattS

Um, you can't give a baby anesthesia, it's gonna kill it. The best you can get is some topical lidocaine cream which does nothing to ease the pain, but it at least makes the parents feel better.

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#6 NKM_Atomsk
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Absolutely no reason to apologize. It's been my experience that the vast majority of people on here just shoot from the hip after having done little to no research at all. Also, thank you for your kind words (as they are another rare thing on here).

As for why debate on here? I don't know. Character flaw on my part I guess for letting myself get pulled into it at times.

As for the percentage, I'll have to take another look.

YellowOneKinobi


I have been guilty of that shoot-from-the-hip attitude myself too in the past. Yell first look up later. But really, with that attitude you just end up upsetting people and nothing else.

To be honest with you, my concern for this topic, mainly stems from conversations with circumcised acquaintances of mine. (On chats you just talk about the darnest things ^^")
Maybe I have just run into the unluckily few, but... each of them expressed problems of some kind or other, even if they were instantly downplayed afterwards. It's no worldchanging thing, and also not a dealbreaker on good or bad parenting, but more then once I heard people say that they'd have liked it to be their own choice. That just made me realize that it's really not a fight cut vs uncut and benefits vs possible complications, it's one of parental vs personal decision. And I just very strongly believe that this is a topic on which the person needs to decide to be fully happy with the outcome. Otherwise someone can be made unhappy by it in the long run.

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#7 NKM_Atomsk
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It's over 66% in the US, just as an FYI.

At the end of the day, I am thankful to have been circumcised. I will do that for my son (sons if our next is a boy). Based on all information I have heard and read (and discussions with our doctors) I find it is the right course of action, as it does no harm and has many long-term benefits. For my son, it is the right decision.

YellowOneKinobi



At the end of the day, you already did much more than the avarage parent that just does it on a gutfeeling with no information, and I apologize for taking you like that sort of a person initially. I am sure you will be a wonderful dad regardless of how you will decide.
Still I wonder... if you're really that convinced that you are doing the right thing and don't have a shred of doubt left anymore, why are you posting in this thread? If it's really a no-brainer after the conversation with said doctor, why do you even feel the need to defend you point of view anymore?

Also, it is 33% just for "your" information ;)

http://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2010/08/17/u-s-circumcision-rates-on-the-decline/

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#8 NKM_Atomsk
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No, it should be the parent's choice, that's why it's done at birth, who would want to make that decision when they get older, that would suck. Luckily you don't ever realize it happened when your a baby, plus uncut is just gross, my sons will definitely be circumsizedKeredsBlaze


Well, unlike on an infant, on an adult the area to operate on is much larger thus botched circumcisions in adults being pretty rare, while they are rather common in infants. In addition to that there are a total of 4 different ways to circumcise a penis as well as the question whether or not to remove the frenulum, a special sweetspot when present. An adult can pick the options he likes most, while a kid is just stuck with what the OB felt like doing.
Also an adult can undergo the operation under a full narcosis, while infants usually undergo it with little to no pain relieve, since the anesthesia would be more dangerous than just letting the baby be fully conscious throughout the operation. Also adults can get painkillers to take home with for the aftermath, while babies get nothing.
Also on the topic of gross, a penis that shifts color midway and has a scar around it, is prettier than one without those features in how far.? ^^"

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#9 NKM_Atomsk
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Yes, I consider getting a baby circumcised the same as getting a tattoo for a baby.Lonelynight


State law doesn't though. ^^"

The first one is a valid operation in their eyes, while the second one gets you a few years in jail even though it's reversable and involves no cutting at all

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#10 NKM_Atomsk
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I've heard that same arguement time and time again. Not only on this topic, but on others as well.

I hear people going on and on about how parents shouldn't involve (or as they like to say, "indoctrinate") their children in their religion, as they should wait until the kid turns 18 and let him choose his own religion.

At the end of the day it is the parents' right and more importantly their responsibility to do what they think is in the best interest of the child. Thousands upon thousands of choices are made for children. What they eat. How much they sleep. Where they go to school. What types of activities they can engage in. What they watch. Who they socialize with. It's an unending list. Parenting is not about keeping a child in a vacuum.

Again, there is no one set of 'rules' that makes for good parents. If people want to circumsize their kid, thats fine with me. If they don't want to, that's fine with me too. But I draw the line at people trying to force parenting decisions (which are little more than opinions) on others. In this case, banning something like this.

YellowOneKinobi


Hm I don't think it's that easy. A child's religion, diet, clothes, etcetc. are all things that can be changed later in life if they choose to do so. Also a choice about your child's body is something different than choosing a school for it.


Of course parents have the obligation to do what they think is best for their child, which also includes operation if needed. However in the case of circumcision, we are talking of something irreversible, which you can live happily without, as proven by the majority of the world's male population, as well as an increasing number of American infants (circumcision rates have fallen below 33% recently), and that doesn't cure any immediate illness. I just think that the parents right ends where their child's body begins. Afterall you can't get your kids tatoos either, no matter how good you think it'll be for his upbringing for one reason or other.


All not circumcising your child does is leaving him with that choice for later. If he doesn't like it he can go get the cut. But if you do get him cut, and he doesn't like it, what is he supposed to do?

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