My wife is coming very close to a divorce. We just had a massive argument (what started out with me playing videogames "all the time") and now she has left the house for a while. She infuriates me so much sometimes I just want to strangle her. She says all I do is play videogames, which to be fair is kind of true, to a degree. I honestly have nothing else to do in my time because I take care of the kids if she isn't too busy with something else (usually her make-up) and then once they are taken care of I have free time. But that was before this week. I'm doing this Bearings course (2 weeks) and I've been having to get up at 6am, drive 30 miles, spend all day discussing random topics, then when I get home, around 430pm, she has the kids eating dinner and then I put them to bed since they "only listen to me". Well after that I've been jumping online with Killzone 2, and then I go to bed, BUT, before I even think about videogames, I've suggested that we could watch a movie or tv (I'm not too worried if I miss out a few nights without videogames) but she always ends up falling asleep before I do which prompts me to play cause I'm not going to watch a movie while she is asleep cause she'll say something.

Anyways, we argued about why I'm having to do this Bearings course (it had something to do with my wife and I getting into some serious trouble, but she admitted it was her fault then **** about me having to go to her own class and me going mine), about the kids, as per usual with her, and a lot of meaningless bs. I'm fed up with her making it seem like she has it hard all the time. When's the last time any of you guys let your wife/gf's spend a $1000 on make-up? Cause I was stupid enough to let mine and then she turns round saying she would have not bought it if she knew it was going to cause trouble, but with her she never thinks about that, only about her stupid make-up. She also jumped to conclusions about me visiting this stupid dating website which I've been getting emails from, so I got one yesturday or this morning and I went to get my name taken off their mailing list. Well sure enough the link takes me to someone's profile and then for some reason IE shuts down, then I just turn and leave for this class. Now being the ever trusting wife, mine starts texting me saying we're going to have problems cause of the link being in the history file or something and automatically suspects me of going there, which I haven't though my wife will swear blind "I have". She also **** about me not talking to her about my problems. The whole reason I don't is cause half to 3 quarters of the time they invovle her and I know it will escelate into an argument. I did say I was sick of being tired (cause she accused me of being snappy all the time) and I said I'm tired all the time, I never get to take naps like she does and she then continued on about she only falls asleep cause she's bored. Well now who's the hypocrite for not talking about her problems. My wife will never tell me she's bored, even though I'll ask her if there's anything she wants to do or anything she wants to watch.

I'm just sick and tired of the bs my wife brings up every time we argue which she has no right to.