I have a horrible time trying to talk to girls. I'm 19 and I've never even gone on a date. I just can't get up the courage to ask a girl out. Actually I think the reason I can't get up the courage to ask a girl out is because I can't really talk to them and be myself. It's not just with girls either. Its the same with some guys. I can't be myself untill I really get to know someone and but I can't get to know a girl without being able to be myself. I'm sure girls would like me once they really get to know me but they don't because I can't be myself around them. I'm a very likeable person. I can seriously only think of one person that doesn't like me and she really doesn't like anything. Last spring break I was in Cozumel, Mexico and I found this girl and I got to second base. (I would have scored but we couldn't find any place at all to do it. Trust us we tried.) After we both got back home we kinda talked and had a long distance relationship. We really liked each other and it would have worked out like a normal relationship if it wasn't for the distance. We still talk all the time and we still kind of like each other. I don't know what my problem is. My biggest fear in life is that I will never work up the courage to ask a girl out and that I'll end up alone. This has really brought unhappyness to my life.