You can't compare multiplatforms because they have to keep the games as close to each other in playstyle and visuals to make sales fair. If PS3 utilized it's hardware for all the games it had, it would edge over the 360. It's a given that PS3 has better graphics than the 360, for visual aid just compare exclusives. Uncharted 2 vs Gears of War, for instance. Huge difference, 360 is still in the DVD era which is pretty obsolete if you ask me, I'm always shopping in the Blue ray section.
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