So, in light of things happening this summer, there are things people wish they could take back, do over, or undo. I being one of those people. But in a sense, everyone probably is one of those people. In light of my situation, I decided to take my friends Zach's advice, do some Bible Digging. Along with that, and Bible Verses I've already been told by others due to completely different things, I decided, I would do another "Note" and this time, do it more in reflect to these verses and how they may relate to me or anyone else.
So, the 2 Bible verses I plan to go over this time are Matthew 18: 15-17 and Matthew 18: 21-22.
A Brother Who Sins Against You15"If your brother sins against you, go and show him his fault, just between the two of you. If he listens to you, you have won your brother over. 16But if he will not listen, take one or two others along, so that every matter may be established by the testimony of two or three witnesses.' 17If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church; and if he refuses to listen even to the church, treat him as you would a pagan or a tax collector.
Matthew 18: 15-17
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The Parable of the Unmerciful Servant21Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, "Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother when he sins against me? Up to seven times?" 22Jesus answered, "I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.
Matthew 18: 21-22
So, what are these verses saying? Well to me its saying, if someone sins against you, you should be the bigger person and confront that person, if they listen and they acknowledge the actions taken. You have, in terms, won. If they chose to not listen to you, what actions should you take? You should ask others, who were not originally involved with the conflict, to come in and mediate the situation. If even then they chose to listen, take it to the church, have the people part of the church help you resolve your conflict, they are more likely inclined to help you so you can go back to your days the way they should be, and continue to praise and worship God. And like Matthew 18: 17 says, if EVEN THEN they chose to ignore your attempts, to just treat them as you would a Pagan or Tax Collector. Now, I'm not old enough to know how to deal with a Tax Collector, but I'd imagine its probably to just keep them as acquaintances and to just leave it like that.
Now in other peoples, and mine, situation that may not be as easy as it sounds. But you must take it one step at a time. I can right now tell you, In a sense I've already begun this journey, but in another sense I haven't. I have gone past the first step of getting others to listen, but I can't really take that credit, it wasn't me who went out and found the outside help. Heck! I'd go as far to admit, I'm the offender in this case. I'm saddened that it is that way, but in all honesty, i brought this all upon myself. There were things leading up to this tho, that weren't as I'd say, my fault. But that's done and over with. I feel this situation is able to hopefully be resolved before it get to the point of having to go to the church, or just treating them like Tax Collectors or Pagans. or, so I hope. In a few ways I was the Offende, but for the most part I admit fully, I'm the offender.
Now Matthew 18: 21-22, if you ask me, VERY STRONGLY can tie into Matthew 18: 15-17. In this verse Peter approaches Jesus and asks him "How many times should I forgive my brother when he sins against me? up to 7 times?", 7 times Peter said because, you'd think forgiving someone, the same person, 7 times is VERY generous. But no. Jesus turns around and says what? He says " I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times." and in other versions of the bible it says "70 times 7", so basically Jesus is saying "Forgive them a unending amount of times". To me, that shows not only are you a big respectable person, but it shows you are able to move on from any situation in the end and forgive someone of their transgressions against someone.
Again, in mine, and other peoples cases, this can be MUCH harder than what one would hope for. I know I have trouble with forgiving this time around, which is actually kind of a surprise to me, I am generally a very forgiving person. Yet for some reason, the few ways I was offended against in this case, I find it just hard to forgive. I am able to almost guarantee that the people I have 'Offended' have yet to forgive me, nor do I think they should yet. I acknowledge my wrongs, I have and have tried making amends, I was out of line with my reactions. There is no way they should have to forgive me yet. In the end tho, in reference to the Bible Verses, I hope they are capable to forgive me some day.
Now, why did I write this one so soon in comparison to the other one? This is something that I find very very important, and I feel that if people are able to read this one they will be able to think if they are in problem similar to this, and they can then begin on their path to fixing it. Trust me, it won't always be a easy path, it will get crappy, but stick with it like I am, and hopefully some day, everyone will be able to move on and things can return to normal. My situation is on a not so good point, but I hope things will be able to change. This note is about the certain people, and in no way do I mean to offend them with this, I know they know who they are. I would like again to them to say, I'm sorry.
Just remember, in the end of every conflict it leads to a strengthened relationship and that although the conflict is bad, its all part of God's 'Master Plan' per say, it will all work out the way it is supposed to, just stick it out. Pray, reflect, and read. Pray about the situation. Reflect on how the situation is going. Read the bible, dig through it, you'll never know what you find that could help you!
I think that about wraps up this not. Not exactly ending on a happy note, but that's life. Things aren't always going to be happy. It makes life, well life. You live and learn.
(This is so quick after my first one becuase its from my Facebook blog thing, after this one, they will be shorter than this and take longer to make a new one, so no worries)
**I get all of the Bible Verses from The Bible, I go to http://www.biblegateway.com/ and copy them, put them into this, and edit/add the Bold Markings and putting things in Quotes so it looks good and you, the reader, can read the verses easier.**
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