Live for yourself. Do things that make you and the people you care about happy. Believe in yourself, and the things you can control. Do good things not to please a "god", do good things because you can, and because it's the right thing to do. You don't need a religion for morals. Be strong enough to live through challenges without relying on someone/thing who isn't around. Religion only separates.
Be your own god.
Praise yourself, correct yourself, love yourself.
It's not that I don't believe in a "god". It's that I don't believe in a "god" we can comprehend and be able understand his motives. And if there is a "god" I don't think he would enjoy seeing us with wars over faiths'. Especially with the types of weapons that man can now manufacture. If this makes me a bad and evil person at-least I'm happy during my life, and that is all that matters, because it is all I can know and understand.