I am completely seperated from any organised religion,and undecided about several views. but my parents grew up religious but tend to be very liberal about certain issues, and very closed minded about others.
Recently, my parents were tlaking to me about finding a good, intelligent, same "race" women as me. They even went as far as to saying that she must be of the same religion within our race. Now, I've argued over and over aobut this with them, that ignoring skin color altogether, if a girl is intellignet, cares about me, is trustworthy, and contains all the valuble characteristics of a wife then what role does color have ot play it in.
Whenever I sutmp them in these arguments it always ends up[ with them saying crap like "oh youre still young, you dont know anything, youll learn" and all the usual cop-outs from an irrational viewpoint. Now, I want to know whether or not this makes my parents racist and WHAT can actually be done to change their minds, its almost a never ending battle.
Its hard going day to day looking at the thousands of girls around me in college and knowing that about 99% of them will probably cause my parents to disown me, i'm trying to find a way to get to them and finally let this go so that....i can pretty much go "searching" carefree
So....what do?
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