okay, i posed my problem in the 'why did you get moderated thread'. i was moderated because of my abreviation wt* (i put a star there, out of fear of getting moderated again).

and that is fine with me (not really, but let me continue)
my biggest problem is that another user reported that message. (in the moderation details it said tha the notifying user got points towards his account ). which pisses me off because that expression is use all of the times in the forums. and the fact that someone would report that, when there are so many other messages that use that abreviation clearly indicates that whoever did it did it because they have a problem with me.