When I'm playing games with my wife, as long as it's co-op it's fine but when it's competitive (whether it's video games or board games) sometimes it gets a bit awkward because although she is a very gracious loser she can be a very sore winner; so we're having fun, I win, she says "well done", I say thank you and we keep going. If she wins sometimes she goes "Ha, all that and you still managed to lose" or "Really? That was too easy"; it doesn't make me angry but it kills the fun a bit; that's just how things were when she played with her family so the habit stayed, but she's getting better about it and it almost never happens anymore.
But there's a huge difference between a not-so-nice remark and "revenge" or preventing you from playing with friends. That's a teenager's attitude and you should really talk to him about it, because more likely than not that sort of attitude, if left unchecked, will spread to more aspects of your relationship.
i agree with @korvus in everything he said , you should definetly talk to him about this , because all of this attitude of his is really not good for a relationship , try reasoning with him and telling him that this Revenge thing is really bothering you and try to have fun while gaming with each other and benifitingand learning from each others failures and success.
and about not letting you play with some online friends, thats being selfish and unsocial i guess, you need onine friends to have online communities and have more fun in the gaming part .
and best wishes to you
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