Well, my bf has a twin so it was a blessing for me that his mum had twins after having 6 kids already :lol: Not so sure about having twins myself though. Well, yeah, I guess it would be a blessing and all, but whoa, sounds like no sleep at all like forever :?
Bf says that it is cool to have a twin because he always had someone to play with, someone to hang out with and basically, he never felt alone. But I like being alone, I actually do need time to be just by myself everyday.
However bf just can't stand being on his own, specially when he is at home. He feels like the ceiling is going to fall over his head. He gets nervous and uneasy. He calls anyone to go have a coffee or he comes over and takes Hotz for a walk :)
I guess it depends on what we are used to. He belongs to a huge family, he grew up in a house full of people, always having his bro by his side whereas on the contrary, I grew up alone and got used to that. So I do need my privacy. Like I do NEED it.
I wouldn't ever be able to share my room with anyone. I couldn't imagine someone coming in and out, turning on the lights when I am sleeping, or turning on the radio while I am reading. I wouldn't stand anyone doing whatever around me in a small room. Sounds like the most annoying thing to me :evil:
So we'll see when we move together. It's not gonna be easy, that I can tell. But well, we won't be the first ones who moved together and won't be the last. And if people manage to adapt themselves to each other and live together, I guess that we will as well. At least hope that we do :)
It scares me though. I mean, I sometimes have the feeling that most of the people have kids because after living together for a while, they reach that stage where nothing is new any more, nothing is fun any longer. As if they can't stay alone just with each other and need something to bond them together.
Alright, I'm sorry. I turned it into something pretty personal. I dunno if I made any sense whatsoever, I was just speaking my mind out loud, and I'm sorry for the boredom, but it's something that it's been bugging me lately. Maybe because my actual moving in is getting closer and, as much as I want to do it, I'm starting to freak out. Maybe because I'm a helpless mess :)
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