ok here is a method that men used since ancient times to grow up and understand the world.

1. find a good, strong and long branch, use a good knife to make it into a staff
2. find a deposit of hard rock, like flint, make a spear tip from it.
3. remove all clothes, shoes and such and put a strap of leather on you
4. make a fire, and recite this prayer: "I am a man and now I embark on a journey to find the fire to carry me through life"
5. put war paint on your chest and face
6. go to the forest and hunt a bear, you must use the spear you made.
7. kill the bear but honor him, for you just took life.
8. understand that life is temporary and every moment is lost forever, so regret nothing and cherish everything