So Manhunt 2 has received an AO rating from the ESRB, much to the delight of groups like the CCFC (as stated in the news article). As the debate rages on over whether or not the game deserved such a strict rating (IMO, yes), and whether Sony and Nintendo's refusal to allow a game with an AO rating onto their consoles constitutes censorship (IMO, no),I'd like to call attention to what I feel is the biggest problem with this situation: the complete and utter collapse of parental responsibility in our society.
I am a father of two sons, four and two years old. My older son is now really starting to enjoy playing games, both on his own and with myself or my wife. Now, I closely monitor what games he is playing, whether or not I am playing them at the time as well. What games does he enjoy?Cars, Shrek, Ice Age, Wii Sports. Now, when he is in bed or away, what do I enjoy? Shadow Hearts, Saint's Row, Gears of War,God of War, etc. What's my point? I actively monitor what my child is playing, watching on TV, reading, etc. Now does this qualify me for any Parent of the Year Awards? IT SHOULD'NT! It is the responsibility of any and every parent to monitor their children's media exposure and to make and enforce decisions regarding what they deem to be acceptable for their family. But instead, politicians and special interest groups have convinced nearly an entire generation of parents that the fault lies with companies producing media that may contain age-inappropriate material. These parents have come to believe that they should be able to blindly purchase anything that their children ask for without questioning the content; and if that content should prove to be inappropriate or, dare I say, harmful to their children, then the fault lies with the manufacturers rather than with their woefully lacking parenting skills.
This should go without saying, but apparently it needs to be said. When you choose to have children, you are making a committment to take an active interest in all aspects of your children's lives, REGARDLESS of whether or not all of the activities interest you as an adult. That means, even if you have never touched a videogame in your life, you have to put down your romance novel, turn off HGTV, go into the other room with your kids once in a while, and actually observe or take part in what they are doing, watching, or reading. I don't care that you worked all day, that you want some "me time", your wants became secondary to your parental responsibilities the moment you went off the pill or took off the condom. These children are YOUR responibility; not the governments, not the CCFC or Jack Thompson's, not Rockstar's or Take-Two's. What we have now is a society of people that want all of the joys of parenthood without having to bother with the responsibilies.
When your children ask you to buy a game (or movie, cd, book) look at the rating on the box and the content description on the back. If it is not appropriate for your children, grow a set and tell them NO. If they go behind your back and get it from someone else, TAKE IT and PUNISH THEM. That isn't cruelty, it isn't abuse, it is parenting. If you can't do that then don't blame corporations or politicians or society for failing your children. Instead take a long hard look in the mirror: YOU failed them.
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