There are many things I will never understand in life. One of the primary things is why people say one thing but mean another. WHY? You don't have a lot you can truly call your own in this life. One of the few things is your word, so why break it? Say what you mean and mean what you say. It is that simple. Or, at least don't knock down someone not being able to figure out that they were supposed to do the opposite of what you said (the original word I had for "knock down" was censored I guess :P).
-A very frustrated human