@Welkabonz said:
@lightleggy: sometimes you gotta be a dick.
I got Asperger's, I've never been good at being a dick on purpose.
@thehig1 said:
Have considered telling her to stop sending you pictures, or stop texting you a
As much.
Now your not in a relationship set some boundaries by letting her kNow what is and isn't ok.
Yeah but like I said in the OP: I'm afraid doing that would kill any contact.
@davillain- said:
What's with all these girls problems we been having here on OT? Something isn't right here but anyways, bro, it's time to start over again. Forget her, it's time to move on.
I'm past her, I was done with her when I found out she was cheating on me. Its not that I got some nostalgia and that I hope for her to return to me, I really wouldnt take her back in even if she asked. She cant be trusted with a relationship, but I enjoyed the friendship we had.
@Treflis said:
She cheats on you and denies it despite evidence presented, But you don't want to block her cause that would be rude?
Sounds like you subconciously hoped she would come around and crawl back like she is doing now yet you are uncertain since she hasn't admitted she did you wrong and you're not certain if you can trust her again despite wanting to.
Oh I know for a fact that she cheated on me, in fact about a week ago I discovered the most undeniable piece of evidence in the matter, so yeah, its 100% certain she cheated on me or was at least trying to do it.
@Storm_Marine said:
She's probably trying to make you miss her.
That was my guess, I had a very strong belief that this girl had hystrionic personality disorder.
@GazaAli said:
The girl cheated on you and just because you two were friends before you started dating you had no problem staying friends afterwards? Man you have a thing or two to teach me about forgiveness. I'm not sure what is there to be confused about here. She cheated on you and didn't even have the courtesy to admit it. Its one thing if she denied it in hope to get away with it and salvage whatever you two shared at the time, but its another thing on a whole different level of disloyalty and meanness to end the relationship in response and never admitting it.
Please mate do yourself a favor and rid yourself of such toxicity. Who knows why she's doing it. Maybe she had her eyes on someone else, it didn't work out and now she's trying to cut her losses by getting back with you. Maybe she's just a fickle person who can't decide on what she wants. Or maybe she's scheming God knows what who knows. No matter how you look at it, you're better off steering clear from that girl; too many red flags I say.
I forgive but I dont forget, im 100% aware that she is not trustworthy and that I cant be in a relationship with her again. Also a lot of things that this girl says are blatant lies, im a really observant person and I've noticed a fuckload of inconsistencies with her stories and such, the truth is that I find her to be a very intriguing person, you know? Like one of the few things I cant deal with is uncertainness, I need to know what the hell does she wants. Why is she doing all this stuff, if the answer is "She's crazy" then I'll take it, but I'll need to get that answer first.
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