(Also put as a topic in the Christian Union)
I have been struggling with this idea recently.
That is, not the idea of whether or not we should repent before the holy God of Scripture but at what point are we to use this phrase toward others.
Go to the vast majority of churches in the United States and the typical evangelistic message will consist of how we are publically make a declaration of our faith (typically by walking down an isle) or pray a certain prayer "to receive God in your heart.
However, is this in any conceivable way right and correct theology? Jesus' entire earthly preaching ministry is summarized with the statement in Matthew 4:17, "From that time Jesus began to preach, saying, 'Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is at hand.'" Is there any better way to summarize the general idea of his teachings?
Peter's sermon at Pentecost ended with him blaming the crowds for Christ's death followed by the statement in Acts 2:36-37, "When the people heard this, they were cut to the heart and said to Peter and the other apostles, 'Brothers, what shall we do?' Peter replied, 'Repent and be baptized, every one of you, in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins. And you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.'" To summarize, if a person wishes to respond to Christ then he should best do so by way of repentance?
For what purpose common way of presenting a salvation message as "admit, believe, and confess." Why not this: God is good, you are not, and repent of your sin. That is, place your faith in Christ rather than the things of this world
Some might say that this idea of just preaching repentance is contrary to the idea what we are to simply place our faith in Christ. However, what is truly the difference? If we place our faith in Christ rather then the things of this world then would that not mean we are repenting or turning from the idols of this world to Christ? To place your faith in and trust in Christ is united perfectly with repenting before God.
I mention all of this to go back to my original point: at what point do we actually tell others to repent?
One is not required to use the specific word "repent" but the idea must be used. Why is it that the idea is not mentioned every Sunday service? Why is the idea not mentioned between "Christian friends." Heck, have you ever on a personal basis had a Christian confront you in your sin telling you to turn from said sin toward God?
Is the idea seen too judgmental? Is it incorrect theology? Or is the church (myself included) sharing Christ wrongly?